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For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by 1Sharon(f): 8:34pm On Jan 23, 2022
FGM is still very much prevalent in Nigeria and it's said to be for the woman's own benefit by culling a high sex drive and keeping her looking "neat" down below.

It's best to hear from the horse's mouth.
I want to learn.

If you're a woman that's undergone FGM, how do you feel about it?

If you can remember when you were cut, what was it like?

Do you/did you have issues during menstruation, sexual intercourse and childbirth?

There are no right or wrong answers. I'm aware that some women that have been cut may be indifferent towards FGM.
If you're indifferent towards FGM, say your reasons why. You're in the best position to give your opinions on it.

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Cyphar(m): 9:21pm On Jan 23, 2022
FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION. op, you should have at least say out the full meaning for the benefits of people that don't know it .

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by cricifixo: 10:53am On Jan 24, 2022
I'm here to learn more, a former colleague of mine told me dat she was circumcised....sounded awkward though so i didn't ask her any questions

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by DoingBetter: 3:43pm On Feb 16, 2022
Someone very dear to me had her clitoral hood removed as a baby. All of them in their family. Including the mom. It was done when they were all babies. It was a tradition in Enugu state because they believed it made a girl unpromiscuous. The joke is that she's married and struggles with libido and orgasms. She's married to a man with high libido too. lol. Luckily, she's proactive and have been vocal about learning in-depth about the female anatomy and how to enjoy sexual pleasure. Last I heard, she's making good progress with clitoral orgasms now and she's learning about the gspot.

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Feb 16, 2022
DoingBetter:
Someone very dear to me had her clitoral hood removed as a baby. All of them in their family. Including the mom. It was done when they were all babies. It was a tradition in Enugu state because they believed it made a girl unpromiscuous. The joke is that she's married and struggles with libido and orgasms. She's married to a man with high libido too. lol. Luckily, she's proactive and have been vocal about learning in-depth about the female anatomy and how to enjoy sexual pleasure. Last I heard, she's making good progress with clitoral orgasms now and she's learning about the gspot.
Poor woman! undecided

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Klass99(f): 10:29pm On Feb 16, 2022
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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by jara: 3:30am On Feb 17, 2022
What about Male Genital Mutilation?

Both men and women that were not circumcised are doing well.

The biggest sex organ is the brain. Some European that were never circumcised still frigid with their partner.

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by DoingBetter: 1:24pm On Feb 17, 2022
Turns out the clitoris is not just the little button outside. It's far deeper and extends inside. Let me attach a pic to this for clarity. The whole pink upside down V thing makes up the clit. So in her own case, the clitoral hood was removed. Only a teenie knob was left. With the right amount of pressure ( not force), and in the right mental state, she can get herself off. Although to hear her describe it, she says it feels rather lukewarm like she is not getting the full thing.
You can Google it. Or listen to tedtalks about the clitoris. Fgm sucks
Klass99:


Ehm......if she doesn't have a clitoris how is she enjoying clitoral orgasms?

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by DoingBetter: 1:26pm On Feb 17, 2022
Honestly I agree with you about the brain. That's the best sex organ. The mind plays a big role in what feels pleasurable. Also yes, circumcision does suck for both genders. At least let people have a say, some sort of body autonomy.
jara:
What about Male Genital Mutilation?

Both men and women that were not circumcised are doing well.

The biggest sex organ is the brain. Some European that were never circumcised still frigid with their partner.

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Klass99(f): 1:52pm On Feb 17, 2022
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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Nobody: 6:00pm On Feb 17, 2022
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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by 1Sharon(f): 3:54pm On Feb 21, 2022
DoingBetter:
Someone very dear to me had her clitoral hood removed as a baby. All of them in their family. Including the mom. It was done when they were all babies. It was a tradition in Enugu state because they believed it made a girl unpromiscuous. The joke is that she's married and struggles with libido and orgasms. She's married to a man with high libido too. lol. Luckily, she's proactive and have been vocal about learning in-depth about the female anatomy and how to enjoy sexual pleasure. Last I heard, she's making good progress with clitoral orgasms now and she's learning about the gspot.

Cheers for your contribution

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Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by Youngpo413: 4:57pm On Jun 21, 2022
Hmmm.
Re: For Women Who Have Undergone female genital mutilation by ekitimanalways(m): 9:02pm On Jun 24, 2022
Klass99:


Ehm......if she doesn't have a clitoris how is she enjoying clitoral orgasms?


Female genital mutilation does not eliminate sexual pleasure totally for every woman who undergoes the procedure, but it does reduce the likely of orgasm.

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