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My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 6:33pm On Mar 22, 2023
When we were dating, she always talk about spiritual attack on her family and how her mum has cancer and her junior ones has mental problem and all that.
There was a time she was crying and she said her father was attacked with stroke and he cant walk again.

I stood by her for a year by doing allot of things for her but things were very bad for me then. i cnt even save money properly and my customers started to fade away little by little.

fast forward to when we both came to lagos from plateau state and she went to abeokuta. i was staying in lagos. i was praying to God to bring my customer back and things should just go on smoothly.

Not to bore you....

We had an argument and after all said and done. she said the one " shes done with the relationship ". i kept it cool and did not respond because i was just allowing the will of God to happen. a day after things was happening like magic.

Bank reversed my money for over a week, i was given a job in advance to do this friday in ikeja. 2 of my customer came back with a job.

Now the problem is, she has been begging and manipulating things like i jilted her whatsoever. but i am following my mind and my mind keeps telling me not to accept her back.

Please help with advice, because i have planned to stay away from women for atleast 3years.

no insult
please

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by God1000(m): 6:35pm On Mar 22, 2023
You better reason well with your head this time.

Leave her alone and plan your life, it's not everyone that has such grace to rise up from ruin, she ran away when the chips were down and she's now begging to come back because of the little progress you've made.

I'm advising and warning you not to take her back.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 6:37pm On Mar 22, 2023
hmmmm
God1000:
You better reason well with your head this time.

Plan your life and leave her alone
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Shelbychoco(f): 6:38pm On Mar 22, 2023
Follow your mind oga

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Wawelexy(m): 6:39pm On Mar 22, 2023
Ok accept her back.... grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by OlawaleBammie: 6:41pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
When we were dating, she always talk about spiritual attack on her family and how her mum has cancer and her junior ones has mental problem and all that.
There was a time she was crying and she said her father was attacked with stroke and he cant walk again.

I stood by her for a year by doing allot of things for her but things were very bad for me then. i cnt even save money properly and my customers started to fade away little by little.

fast forward to when we both came to lagos from plateau state and she went to abeokuta. i was staying in lagos. i was praying to God to bring my customer back and things should just go on smoothly.

Not to bore you....

We had an argument and after all said and done. she said the one " shes done with the relationship ". i kept it cool and did not respond because i was just allowing the will of God to happen. a day after things was happening like magic.

Bank reversed my money for over a week, i was given a job in advance to do this friday in ikeja. 2 of my customer came back with a job.

Now the problem is, she has been begging and manipulating things like i jilted her whatsoever. but i am following my mind and my mind keeps telling me not to accept her back.

Please help with advice, because i have planned to stay away from women for atleast 3years.

no insult
please
accept her back to test the water for clarity sake..

U can impregnate her first and have like two kids, so con measure Ur life after., Don't make decisions in an hurry oh

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 6:41pm On Mar 22, 2023
shes even threatening me oo, i just don't understand again. saying things like i will know who she is or something
Shelbychoco:
Follow your mind oga
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by sholikay(m): 6:42pm On Mar 22, 2023
Op..I'm not saying also that your girlfriend is possessed and brings bad luck like you have stated.
If sapa didn't show you shege when you both were together, you can accept her.

Seems you guys are fornicating. if yes,that is the reason why you are seeking for an advice to help you take her back,which is obviously against your heart..

Good luck

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Samuelnze(m): 6:46pm On Mar 22, 2023
Accept her back fess,let's check if truely she is what you claim she is.. make a post afterwards and tell us the situation of things in your life..
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Bahamas95(m): 6:47pm On Mar 22, 2023
If this story is true you don't need advice, the handwriting is boldly written on the wall already.


Make use of your brains, it's not for decoration.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 6:50pm On Mar 22, 2023
I think you should accept her back cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 22, 2023
Bahamas95:
If this story is true you don't need advice, the handwriting is boldly written on the wall already.
Nah, it's one of those fake stories by a bored nairalander or so.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 6:52pm On Mar 22, 2023
can you give your reasons
Olasyke:
I think you should accept her back cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 6:53pm On Mar 22, 2023
this is real story please
Olasyke:

Nah, it's one of those fake stories by a bored nairalander or so.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
can you give your reasons
I just feel you haven't experienced much badluck. Accept her and give it another go.
Let's see what happens this time around.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 7:08pm On Mar 22, 2023
omo you wicked oo, see advice
Olasyke:

I just feel you haven't experienced much badluck. Accept her and give it another go.
Let's see what happens this time around.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
omo you wicked oo, see advice
I'm sorry if you think I'm wicked or if that came out harsh. She's a nice person and it might not be badluck, maybe it's just some hurdles you need to pass through in life. Now, you feel something towards her, why don't you give her another chance? Might be the beginning of a new thing or badluck promax. One way to find out.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Qatar2022: 7:55pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
When we were dating, she always talk about spiritual attack on her family and how her mum has cancer and her junior ones has mental problem and all that.
There was a time she was crying and she said her father was attacked with stroke and he cant walk again.

I stood by her for a year by doing allot of things for her but things were very bad for me then. i cnt even save money properly and my customers started to fade away little by little.

fast forward to when we both came to lagos from plateau state and she went to abeokuta. i was staying in lagos. i was praying to God to bring my customer back and things should just go on smoothly.

Not to bore you....

We had an argument and after all said and done. she said the one " shes done with the relationship ". i kept it cool and did not respond because i was just allowing the will of God to happen. a day after things was happening like magic.

Bank reversed my money for over a week, i was given a job in advance to do this friday in ikeja. 2 of my customer came back with a job.

Now the problem is, she has been begging and manipulating things like i jilted her whatsoever. but i am following my mind and my mind keeps telling me not to accept her back.

Please help with advice, because i have planned to stay away from women for atleast 3years.

no insult
please
Do what your heart tells you
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Qatar2022: 7:56pm On Mar 22, 2023
OlawaleBammie:
accept her back to test the water for clarity sake..

U can impregnate her first and have like two kids, so con measure Ur life after., Don't make decisions in an hurry oh
Must idiots like you joke with people predicament?
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Qatar2022: 7:57pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
shes even threatening me oo, i just don't understand again. saying things like i will know who she is or something
Run don't look back , she won't do anything
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by virginprincess(f): 7:57pm On Mar 22, 2023
Why would you just conclude that she was the one bringing you bad luck, op abeg if you don't want her again just let her know and be straight forward with her stop accusing an innocent girl unjustly just because of the circumstances surrounding her family.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 8:06pm On Mar 22, 2023
Ok hear me out something strange happen, the moment i got to lagos, the laptop i was using just suddenly didnt turn up again. i wanted to go crazy because my job was at risk and i could be sacked. the moment i called her , she said shes the one that brough all the problem on me and she was crying. then i didnt say anything because i dnt want to hurt her. she later thanked me for for not responding to that and i can post the chat screenshot if you dont believe me. i meediately contacted my boss so he can pay my money quikly and he did, i got another laptop for my work not to stop.

this is the first time my heart is this strong to the facts that i dont care atall what will happen. like i didnt feel she will be hurt, i really do love her but its just not connecting. i want my next relationship to be my last. believe me
virginprincess:
Why would you just conclude that she was the one bringing you bad luck, op abeg if you don't want her again just let her know and be straight forward with her stop accusing an innocent girl unjustly just because of the circumstances surrounding her family.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 8:15pm On Mar 22, 2023
badluck promax?
Olasyke:

I just feel you haven't experienced much badluck. Accept her and give it another go.
Let's see what happens this time around.
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:


the moment i called her , she said shes the one that brough all the problem on me and she was crying. then i didnt say anything because i dnt want to hurt her. she later thanked me for for not responding to

I don't understand, if she did all that and confessed, why can't she use her powers to enrich you and make your life good?
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 8:23pm On Mar 22, 2023
its not like shes occultic or something. Shes just pitying herself crying that negative things keeps happening to me. like when someones he or she has family spiritual problem. i can actually confirm the spiritual issue when she has almost said all her family problem to me, her brother having mental issue, her mum is breast cancer, her father with stroke and once told me shes the only one normal in the family. she knew 100 💯 this my story is hurting me but my heart has never be this strong and fearless
Olasyke:

I don't understand, if she did all that and confessed, why can't she use her powers to enrich you and make your life good?
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by ggoldmine: 8:26pm On Mar 22, 2023
Some people don't know the covenant they're making or breaking when they're in a sexual relationship, and will be quick to scream bad luck or witchcraft. What if your ancestors traded abstinence or no pre-marital sex for favours? Mtchew!

Donkogbe:
When we were dating, she always talk about spiritual attack on her family and how her mum has cancer and her junior ones has mental problem and all that.
There was a time she was crying and she said her father was attacked with stroke and he cant walk again.


no insult
please
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Kingray10: 9:18pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
shes even threatening me oo, i just don't understand again. saying things like i will know who she is or something
Cut all ties with her run for ur life. U no get 4eyes. The best is to avoid such people. Or you will go down.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Slynation(m): 9:24pm On Mar 22, 2023
Interesting...from the talking stage, once you just tell me your never ending family problems, I keep you as arms length, I am not captain America.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by OlawaleBammie: 10:10pm On Mar 22, 2023
Qatar2022:

Must idiots like you joke with people predicament?

It's because u re mæd....u must be an OSU
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by kelspinall(m): 10:13pm On Mar 22, 2023
i will tell it to you straight up



"LEAVE HER"
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Donkogbe: 10:22pm On Mar 22, 2023
can you share more light
kelspinall:
i will tell it to you straight up




"LEAVE HER"
Re: My Girlfriend Has Badluck ! Now This Is Happening by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On Mar 22, 2023
Donkogbe:
â–  When we were dating, she always talk about spiritual attack on her family and how her mum has cancer and her junior ones has mental problem and all that. There was a time she was crying and she said her father was attacked with stroke and he cant walk again. I stood by her for a year by doing allot of things for her but things were very bad for me then. i cnt even save money properly and my customers started to fade away little by little. fast forward to when we both came to lagos from plateau state and she went to abeokuta. i was staying in lagos. i was praying to God to bring my customer back and things should just go on smoothly.
â–  Not to bore you....We had an argument and after all said and done. she said the one " shes done with the relationship ". i kept it cool and did not respond because i was just allowing the will of God to happen. a day after things was happening like magic. Bank reversed my money for over a week, i was given a job in advance to do this friday in ikeja. 2 of my customer came back with a job. Now the problem is, she has been begging and manipulating things like i jilted her whatsoever. but i am following my mind and my mind keeps telling me not to accept her back. Please help with advice, because i have planned to stay away from women for atleast 3years. no insult. please
1. Look, your girl friend and her family aren't under any spiritual attacks. She is simply deluded like the 10s of millions of Nigerians who are under the grips of what are foolish religious beliefs. undecided

2. They say, "birds of a feather flock together", and it seems her foolishness is simply what robbed off on your person and nothing else. Your girlfriend does not have bad luck, instead, she, like so many Nigerians. blame the unfortunate events in their lives on spirits and God our of fear that if they were in fact honest with themselves, they would give up on life itself. undecided

As for you, according to Scripture, God's Will refers to Jesus Christ, and Jesus Christ said that if you want to be His disciple, you have to abandon your job, your life, your reputation, your source of income, family, etc., in order to qualify. What you are doing obviously has no bearing on God, so I suggest you stop praying in vain and instead work towards marketing your business and attracting business in ways that are acceptable in the world where belongs. undecided

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