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The Increase In Single Motherhood by JUMO95: 11:34am On Mar 31, 2023
Who has noticed the increase in single motherhood today?

What is resposible for this

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Stawner16(m): 11:37am On Mar 31, 2023
Lesser morals which is a direct effect of the stark poverty in the country. The impact of social media cannot be overlooked as well. It has led to a more sexually expressive, unhinged and reckless youth who only wanna live in the moment.

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by neonly: 11:42am On Mar 31, 2023
JUMO95:
Who has noticed the increase in single motherhood today?

What is resposible for this


See question
Lack of manners
Economy
Olosholism
Feminism
Greed
Lack of home training
Wanting to eat der cake and still have it
Last church

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Shedrack777: 11:53am On Mar 31, 2023
1. lack of job opportunities for the ladies. 2. ladies now love prick more than the way men love pussy. 3. all social media platforms now promote sex as a necessecity for singles

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by SweetBuns(f): 12:03pm On Mar 31, 2023
JUMO95:
Who has noticed the increase in single motherhood today?

What is resposible for this
https://www.nairaland.com/6001018/broke-guys-shouldnt-even-erections#up

See it for yourself.
But of course I got crucified for saying the truth.

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by SweetBuns(f): 12:09pm On Mar 31, 2023
Shedrack777:


1. lack of job opportunities for the ladies.


2. ladies now love prick more than the way men love pussy.

3. all social media platforms now promote sex as a necessecity for singles
1.
What is the basis of this statement of yours? Last I checked, the labour market didn't discriminate one sex over the other.

2.
Women love sex more than men and yet the overwhelming majority of people willing to pay or give something of value in exchange for sex are men. Lmao ok.

3.
And which gender promotes such ideologies with statements like

"No sex, no commitment"
"You must test-drive before you buy"
"Money for hand, back for ground"
"Don't take her seriously until she ducks you bro. Sex is their greatest investment!"


Penis people sabotage themselves and then turn around to blame the other gender for their woes.

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by michlins(m): 12:29pm On Mar 31, 2023
Men are becoming more irresponsible and willing to leave their offspring outside

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by advanceDNA: 12:31pm On Mar 31, 2023
SweetBuns:

https://www.nairaland.com/6001018/broke-guys-shouldnt-even-erections#up

See it for yourself.
But of course I got crucified for saying the truth.

Its ur view....u cant call ur view the only truth...
Everyone is allowed to have their own view...

.....u women just want to spread legs for just anyone u find and not bear the possible consequences of ur actions...U just want to get pregnant and expect it to automatically become a wedding for u... lol...

caring for a child is one thing.......marriage is another....So being broke is not automatically the reason for single mothers increase....if a broke guy wants u.....he will marry you...there are plenty broke men that are married......

..its spreading legs for men that u dont know, and dont want u.... u women think u are smart.... u want to use pregnancy to trap a guy because u see small change...... if u dont want the baby in the first place why u no use contraceptive? safe abortion in the first month when u first missed u period nko??
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we all want to fvck....u women should stop pretending like u are doing men a favor and they must marry u when u get pregnant so u wont be a single mother...

.... the onus is on u to spread legs for a man when u are married ....not any one u meet and expect him yo wife u when he doesnt even know u ......

its fvnny that the gender that will carry the baby alone for 9 month is never careful about spreading legs... but want to form victim....

shior!!!!!

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Prettygirl200(f): 12:58pm On Mar 31, 2023
SweetBuns:

1.
What is the basis of this statement of yours? Last I checked, the labour market didn't discriminate one sex over the other.

2.
Women love sex more than men and yet the overwhelming majority of people willing to pay or give something of value in exchange for sex are men. Lmao ok.

3.
And which gender promotes such ideologies with statements like

"No sex, no commitment"
"You must test-drive before you buy"
"Money for hand, back for ground"
"Don't take her seriously until she ducks you bro. Sex is their greatest investment!"


Penis people sabotage themselves and then turn around to blame the other gender for their woes.
That is what u get from men with infested brains nd rotten mentality.
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Prettygirl200(f): 1:02pm On Mar 31, 2023
advanceDNA:


Its ur view....u cant call ur view the only truth...
Everyone is allowed to have their own view...

.....u women just want to spread legs for just anyone u find and not bear the possible consequences of ur actions...U just want to get pregnant and expect it to automatically become a wedding for u... lol...

caring for a child is one thing.......marriage is another....So being broke is not automatically the reason for single mothers increase....if a broke guy wants u.....he will marry you...there are plenty broke men that are married......

..its spreading legs for men that u dont know, and dont want u.... u women think u are smart.... u want to use pregnancy to trap a guy because u see small change...... if u dont want the baby in the first place why u no use contraceptive? safe abortion in the first month when u first missed u period nko??
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we all want to fvck....u women should stop pretending like u are doing men a favor and they must marry u when u get pregnant so u wont be a single mother...

.... the onus is on u to spread legs for a man when u are married ....not any one u meet and expect him yo wife u when he doesnt even know u ......

its fvnny that the gender that will carry the baby alone for 9 month is never careful about spreading legs... but want to form victim....

shior!!!!!
Just shut up if u have nothing to say, after promising them marriage just to have sex with them and they comply u get them pregnant md abandon them then come here to talk trash? If there's any woman out there u have put in a family way without taking responsibility, may u never have children with any other woman till your dying day. Heartless mother fuckers.
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by advanceDNA: 1:11pm On Mar 31, 2023
Prettygirl200:
Just shut up if u have nothing to say, after promising them marriage just to have sex with them and they comply u get them pregnant md abandon them then come here to talk trash? If there's any woman out there I have put in a family way without taking responsibility, may I never have children with any other woman till your dying day. Heartless mother fuckers.

Lol.... they promised all of u marriage?? And thats why u single mothers spread legs?? Does this sound like something an adult should be saying...... please dont enter my mention again u talk like a person with an IQ of a 4 year old

Always looking for others to blame for ur decision to fvck......shiorr!!!

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by LeeSmart: 1:18pm On Mar 31, 2023
JUMO95:
Who has noticed the increase in single motherhood today?

What is resposible for this
What is responsible u say? No be men like us wey no wan put our prick 4 one place.

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Prettygirl200(f): 1:22pm On Mar 31, 2023
advanceDNA:


Lol.... they promised all of u marriage?? And thats why u single mothers spread legs?? Does this sound like something an adult should be saying...... please dont enter my mention again u talk like a person with an IQ of a 4 year old

Always looking for others to blame for ur decision to fvck......shiorr!!!
I am not a single mother, but am against the ill treatment against single mothers wish is cursed my u men with dangling rubbish underneath your thighs. We all know the strategies u all use on these innocent ladies, while some were naive and blinded by love u cannot dispute that fact. You men are heartless nd I keep saying this if there's any man that has put any lady in a family way and has refused to take responsibility may that man never bear children with another woman till his dying day
( you inclusive)

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Shedrack777: 1:25pm On Mar 31, 2023
SweetBuns:
2.
Women love sex more than men and yet the overwhelming majority of people willing to pay or give something of value in exchange for sex are men. Lmao ok
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you see this your point number 2, answers my point number 1 and 2. if there was job opportunities for ladies, they won't open their legs for men to dive in so that they'll have some money. ladies watch more sex related/porn movies than men. a man will talk about vagina without anything in mind, but when a lady talks about prick, she really needs some banging

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Shedrack777: 1:36pm On Mar 31, 2023
Prettygirl200:
I am not a single mother, but am against the ill treatment against single mothers wish is cursed my u men with dangling rubbish underneath your thighs. We all know the strategies u all use on these innocent ladies, while some were naive and blinded by love u cannot dispute that fact. You men are heartless nd I keep saying this if there's any man that has put any lady in a family way and has refused to take responsibility may that man never bear children with another woman till his dying day
( you inclusive)
stop calling what GOD created a rubbish. and besides, you're gonna need that organ you called rubbish some day to have your own kids. chew your words before spitting it out.
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by advanceDNA: 1:40pm On Mar 31, 2023
Prettygirl200:
I am not a single mother, but am against the ill treatment against single mothers wish is cursed my u men with dangling rubbish underneath your thighs. We all know the strategies u all use on these innocent ladies, while some were naive and blinded by love u cannot dispute that fact. You men are heartless nd I keep saying this if there's any man that has put any lady in a family way and has refused to take responsibility may that man never bear children with another woman till his dying day
( you inclusive)


All of u are suddenly innocent?? U were all deceived...lol....

so if a man meets u today and say he will marry u...the next thing for u to do is spread ur legs..??..U dont seem to see how stupíd u sound........ how does promising u marriage translate to having sex and deciding to keep it... is having sex and getting pregnant not supposed to happen on the after wedding .??

Lol....yall want to fvck...but u want someone to automatically be responsible for u.... u women should start marking better choices with ur lives cos u are the ones carrying the baby

.close ur legs for a change and be produtive and stop blaming men u hardly know for not mareying you.......how many bankers have u seen thats a single mother, or doctors, or engineers,....its always broke parasites looking looking for who to leech on...once they see small change they spread legs...

U always want the easy part....which is spreading legs for anyone available.....while the man give u auto wedding, car, and being cared for......i see.......

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Fahvvy: 2:22pm On Mar 31, 2023
Unless in cases of rape and loss of spouse etc, WOMEN ARE 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR THE RISE OF SINGLE MOTHERS undecided...

1. No matter how Hot a man is, if the woman says no, nothing is happening... So if women are getting pregnant and giving birth, it's because they are consenting to sex...

2. And if they were sleeping with responsible men that would even be acceptable, but they go about sleeping with ANY MAN that has small change to throw around, so pathetic!

3. Asides abstinence, there is only one thing that a man can do to prevent pregnancy from occuring and that's via the use of condoms...

Women on the other hand can abstain, use condoms, take pills, do an a.bor.tion etc, but nope, women refuse to take any of the above measures and when pregnancy occur they start claiming victims...

4. When a man wants a child and the woman doesn't, sheybi the woman will still go ahead and abort the child by claiming "it's my body so it's my choice"...

So now that the woman wants the child and the man doesn't, if she keeps the baby, it's her body and thus it's HER RESPONSIBILITY!!

5. Whether you agree with me or not is IRRELEVANT, all I know is that I WILL NEVER PAY HEED TO A SINGLE MOTHER & I WON'T ADVICE ANY MAN TO DO SAME undecided...

Let her deal with the consequences of her actions alone undecided...

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Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Gerrard59(m): 3:08pm On Mar 31, 2023
Shedrack777:
you see this your point number 2, answers my point number 1 and 2. if there was job opportunities for ladies, they won't open their legs for men to dive in so that they'll have some money. ladies watch more sex related/porn movies than men. a man will talk about vagina without anything in mind, but when a lady talks about prick, she really needs some banging

That is not true. Women are demisexual, and men have testosterone. It is men who consume more porn content than women. There are literally plenty of studies to support it. It is a lie that women consume more porn content than women. The industry is built and supported by men simply because of testosterone. Also, men love sex way more than women. It is men who patronise sex workers. Sex workers don't sleep with themselves or transport themselves to Mauritius, Seychelles, or branch hotel hideouts anytime they are in a new town. The existence of testosterone is enough evidence to let anyone who did elementary biology in secondary school know that men love sex and would do anything to have it.

Even in prosperous societies, men, not women, patronise and perpetuate the sex industry by having concubines and mistresses.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by frozen70(f): 11:23pm On Mar 31, 2023
JUMO95:
Who has noticed the increase in single motherhood today?

What is resposible for this

Its the same rate with single dad's

Moreover, ladies of nowadays thinks pregnancy can pin a man down

And a man who is not fully prepared for fatherhood will not want to cooperate
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Treassured: 12:49am On Apr 01, 2023
SweetBuns:

1.What is the basis of this statement of yours? Last I checked, the labour market didn't discriminate one sex over the other.

2.Women love sex more than men and yet the overwhelming majority of people willing to pay or give something of value in exchange for sex are men. Lmao ok.

3.And which gender promotes such ideologies with statements like

"No sex, no commitment"
"You must test-drive before you buy"
"Money for hand, back for ground"
"Don't take her seriously until she ducks you bro. Sex is their greatest investment!"

Penis people sabotage themselves and then turn around to blame the other gender for their woes.

😁😁😁
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Fiscus105(m): 4:22am On Apr 01, 2023
Shedrack777:
1. lack of job opportunities for the ladies.
2. ladies now love prick more than the way men love pussy.
3. all social media platforms now promote sex as a necessecity for singles



All ur blames are on women and no single blame for men.

....... imagine u are in position to be a chief in ur community, prejudice would be order of the day
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by ibkonekt(m): 8:03am On Apr 01, 2023
fg
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by lavylilly: 11:20am On Apr 01, 2023
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....



Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..



I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah...
Re: The Increase In Single Motherhood by Shedrack777: 2:55pm On Apr 01, 2023
Fiscus105:




All ur blames are on women and no single blame for men.

....... imagine u are in position to be a chief in ur community, prejudice would be order of the day
i only blame ladies (not women) in my 2nd point. when you read, don't be bias while comprehending so that you'll understand.

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