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My 3yrs old boy is sharp and a talkative type at home but when he gets to school, he’s always silent, he’s Teacher complained about it and his last result (7/31) was poor. What should I do ?

Smith530:
My 3yrs old boy is sharp and a talkative type at home but when he gets to school, he’s always silent, he’s Teacher complained about it and his last result (7/31) was poor. What should I do ?

Do u mean 7th position out of 31 students? I don't think that is poor. He is still a child, give him time. Children tend to be more reserve in public & more free at home. It is a natural thing. I believe with time, he will outgrow it.

In an environment where bad songs are played and the child mimics dancing and bad lyrics sings it offhands, how do you train such child?

Keep in mind ita barbing slaoon opposite the house that blast the music

Rubbiish:

Do u mean 7th position out of 31 students? I don't think that is poor. He is still a child, give him time. Children tend to be more reserve in public & more free at home. It is a natural thing. I believe with time, he will outgrow it.

Thank you and yes it’s 7th position

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Ur 3yr kid is farmiliar with the home that is why he is lively at home. The sch evironment is a total stranger to him. Forget the fact that he goes there alot. Its still a stranger to him. And there is nothing wrong for ur kid to be quiet. As far the kid is progressing at his academics nd learning basic traits of life, he is good.

Let me add this too. Engage ur child with activities similar to those of his mates. E.g watching cartoons nd films, playing video games or hand games, toys, reading or looking at story books, excursions in sch, u can even pay for he/she to learn swimming, engaging in church activity by joining kid groups there. There is alot. But remember ur child might just be an introvert. He/she might also be shy too nd will be shaken off as he/she grows older.

Concerning the grades at sch. Revision is the key. Find time to revise with the child at home. And pls dont kill him with reading nd revision. Let them have time to play too espicially during the holidays. I hope this helps.

Smith530:
My 3yrs old boy is sharp and a talkative type at home but when he gets to school, he’s always silent, he’s Teacher complained about it and his last result (7/31) was poor. What should I do ?

Dear

Let the the child sing and dance to the bad lyrics. The child is doing it for fun. If he/she is not farmiliar with the song, how will they know it is a bad or good one?. They need to see and hear these things so they can defferenciate the good, bad and ugly when u let them know that this particular one is not good. they can be vibing to it but deep down they should know it is evil. That is the goal and its cool. Except the lyrics is extreme bad, then u can put a total stop to it by advicing them but dont hit them.

IyaTola:
In an environment where bad songs are played and the child mimics dancing and bad lyrics sings it offhands, how do you train such child?

Keep in mind ita barbing slaoon opposite the house that blast the music

Thank you for the advice and It will really go a long way.

Smith530:
My 3yrs old boy is sharp and a talkative type at home but when he gets to school, he’s always silent, he’s Teacher complained about it and his last result (7/31) was poor. What should I do ?

He has a case of autism .


Get him a computer and give him resources on how to code .