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What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 7:18am On May 11, 2023
I hope I'm in the best position to answer this question being that i am Nigerian myself.

I'm currently dating a Nigerian girl but guess what? This happens to my longest relationship so far. You know what they say “once you go black, you never go back”. Well i think it somehow plays out here too, because I'm currently considering settling down with her. Tada!!!

Here's what you need to know

I have been very fortunate to travel this world and still do. I love adventures and thanks to my spontaneous nature, I'm pretty much able to blend into any society i find myself.

I have had different relationship with girls from different nationalities like; Germany, England, Iran, India, Spain ans Ireland, to mention but a few which i think makes me better equipped to answer this quetion.

The typical nigerian woman

If I am to guess, the question in your mind currently will be; “ why is your relationship with your current Nigerian girlfriend your longest”.

Firstly, i wouldnt want you to think my answer is being influeced with the fact that I'm Nigerian. Thats the more reason why i made it known above that i have been in relationships with girls that are not Nigerian.

A typical Nigerian girl is caring, or should i say very caring? Please avoid getting it twisted, not even single one of this girls can be caring in a relationship. That being said, i could confidently say a Nigerian girl who doesnt prove to be caring in a relationship is simply not in love with her partner. Its that simple.

A typical Nigerian girl would go to any length to prove her love to her partner and keep the relationship thriving. I have lose count on the number of times my girlfriend have sacrifised her own happiness to make me happy, this is something unique when compared to my other relationships.

A typical Nigerian girl is quite concise with what she wants. In simple and clear terms, she'll express herself, telling you exactly how she feels if you ever go off track. Again, she'll do but the contrary if she doesn't love her partner. Okay now, you might be confused on why she's in the relationship in the first place if she isnt really into her partner. Well its quite common in Nigeria to see girls going into relationships other than love. Nigerians are political by nature.

A typical Nigerian girl goes into a relationship with prudence in mind. The future matters alot in this part of the world and so its quite understanding to see that we tend to put our relationships in this track as well. This works out very well most times when you find a partner who has got this at the back of their minds. This simply means, she's ready to be with you through thick and thin, being that she has programmed her mind for a long-term relationship.

Are you still with me?

Then Lets conclude;

I enjoyed my other relationships and i have no doubt about that. Except that I've never felt this much connected to a girl before than i do right now. She opened a new chapter in life that i never knew existed. She's not perfect but she's got what i want in a woman. I pray nothing ever come between us.
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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by endsarrrs(f): 7:21am On May 11, 2023
grin

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 7:26am On May 11, 2023
endsarrrs:
grin
You had better talk your mind.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Nobody: 7:27am On May 11, 2023
OP where is the writers credit now?

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 7:28am On May 11, 2023
Rayban25:
OP where is the writers credit now?
Read again, this time slowly.
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Nobody: 7:29am On May 11, 2023
QuinModah:
Read again, this time slowly.

What are you saying?

Is the write up you posted your own?

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by doggedfighter(f): 7:35am On May 11, 2023
Rayban25:


What are you saying?

Is the write up you posted your own?

She wrote copied.
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Nobody: 7:37am On May 11, 2023
doggedfighter:


She wrote copied.

Yh I know my dear...I was just expecting an authors name..maybe that's just what I like to see.

Its alright

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by advanceDNA: 7:39am On May 11, 2023
grin

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by doggedfighter(f): 7:41am On May 11, 2023
Rayban25:


Yh I know my dear...I was just expecting an authors name..maybe that's just what I like to see.

Its alright

Alright, good morning.
Do have a great day !

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Fahvvy: 7:42am On May 11, 2023
advanceDNA:
grin

My chief, should we tell them our mind about Nigerian girls? grin...

Are they ready for the truth? grin...

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Nobody: 7:43am On May 11, 2023
doggedfighter:


Alright, good morning.
Do have a great day !

Good morning.
Have a great day ahead too!
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by advanceDNA: 7:45am On May 11, 2023
Fahvvy:


My chief, should we tell them our mind about Nigerian girls? grin...

Are they ready for the truth? grin...

Baba..no need naaa..they know the truth...but they just be like lai mohammed and femi adeshina....

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Lungdick: 7:47am On May 11, 2023
She's using you for papers.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Streetmovement(m): 8:16am On May 11, 2023
Wotoporiously cool speaking

lipsrsealed

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by anthonyuncle(m): 8:19am On May 11, 2023
the redpillers are coming for you

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Autobot05: 8:23am On May 11, 2023
Once she says yes ... You'll sub for her, buy her clothes, take her out , pay her rent ( or part of it ) , buy foodstuffs for her

Typical nigerian woman cool

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 8:47am On May 11, 2023
undecided
Rayban25:


What are you saying?

Is the write up you posted your own?
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Draslo(m): 9:09am On May 11, 2023
Date a leech or a snake, you will have all your answers

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by SkengRay: 1:57pm On May 11, 2023
Dating a Nigerian girl is a waste of time and resources shout out my niggi mosdii if only I listened to your advice back then.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Negroid001(m): 2:08pm On May 11, 2023
A typical Nigerian girl has nothing to offer you.
The one wey get ambition no go get time, she go wan date yahoo boy or corporate pesin wey hold raba .
The one wey no get ambition settles for any hoodlum she can for hook up. Most relationships now na hook up. If d guy go broke im time don expire.

I said typical ni oooo.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 8:04am On May 12, 2023
shocked
SkengRay:
Dating a Nigerian girl is a waste of time and resources shout out my niggi mosdii if only I listened to your advice back then.
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Nobody: 8:14am On May 12, 2023
A Nigerian woman has just a thing (financial dependency) to change to meet International dating standards but a Nigerian man comes with too much baggage ( ego, lack of accountability, superiority, Money is everything mentality, lack of emotional intelligence, lack of good relationship skills, etc) He will need to work on himself and change lots of his cultural makeup to meet up International long term commitment standard.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Oyindamolah: 9:31am On May 13, 2023
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by advanceDNA: 10:21am On May 13, 2023
Oyindamolah:
undecided

U no want make i laugh again..??

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by eazzzy1(m): 12:27pm On May 13, 2023
It will make sense that the guy would connect more with a Nigerian girl than with girls from other Nationalities. He’s is Nigerian. Whenever I meet a Nigerian girl, the friendship and laughter is instantaneous, it’s like we have known ourselves since forever.

One of the pros of been with a Nigerian girl is the predictability. You were raised the same way, you know how she moves.

One of the cons is see finish. You are just another Nigerian guy she could be with. Unlike if you were with a Kenyan, Somalian or South African.

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by IyaTola: 3:23pm On May 14, 2023
eazzzy1:
It will make sense that the guy would connect more with a Nigerian girl than with girls from other Nationalities. He’s is Nigerian. Whenever I meet a Nigerian girl, the friendship and laughter is instantaneous, it’s like we have known ourselves since forever.

One of the pros of been with a Nigerian girl is the predictability. You were raised the same way, you know how she moves.

One of the cons is see finish. You are just another Nigerian guy she could be with. Unlike if you were with a Kenyan, Somalian or South African.
lipsrsealed
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by GeneralPula: 4:58pm On May 14, 2023
Autobot05:
Once she says yes ... You'll sub for her, buy her clothes, take her out , pay her rent ( or part of it ) , buy foodstuffs for her

Typical nigerian woman cool
Those are mostly hookup girls. They only do tell these things to extract money from men..

99% of their post, it’s usually about men... Men are these/No true love/Am I a stone? Bla bla bla.. All just to draw men’s attention..

If you want to confirm this, anytime you see a girl ask you for house rent or stuff, demand for sex! She may try to blackmail you but she’ll agree to it!

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by QuinModah(f): 9:02pm On May 14, 2023
undecided
GeneralPula:

Those are mostly hookup girls. They only do tell these things to extract money from men..

99% of their post, it’s usually about men... Men are these/No true love/Am I a stone? Bla bla bla.. All just to draw men’s attention..

If you want to confirm this, anytime you see a girl ask you for house rent or stuff, demand for sex! She may try to blackmail you but she’ll agree to it!
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 8:08am On Jun 25, 2023
[quote author=QuinModah post=123064767][/quote]

dating a Nigerian gal is like taking care of an orphan
she will put all her problems and family problems on your head
the things that her dad can't do for her or has not done for her she will pressurize you to do it to her
she sees relationship as a means of cash out while others use it as poverty alleviation to escape poverty!
she is selfish and egocentric
she doesn't care how the guy feels
she is only concerned about her own affair and needs
when the going get rough and the benefits stop coming. she will take to her heels and move on to the next potential maga(Simp)
Naija Girls Only Pretends To Love You Because Of The Benefits They Gets From The Guy. They Don't Put Energy In The Relationship
Even while dating you they have another guy they're seeing behind your back, might be sugar daddy sef.
90% have Two or more boyfriends and maybe sugar daddy
when dating naija babe use your head not your heart because the kind breakfast way they go serve you na plus takeaway
#Typical Naija Babe Mentality

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Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Ogechi98: 8:46am On Jun 25, 2023
Anytime I dey see thread like this about naija babes I come dey reminisce on those days when I been dey date naija babes.. I been dey simp Sha.. but thank God for the Redpill.[quote author=QuinModah post=123064767][/quote]
Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by KingDash09(m): 9:54am On Jun 25, 2023
God don save you brother🤝
Ogechi98:
Anytime I dey see thread like this about naija babes I come dey reminisce on those days when I been dey date naija babes.. I been dey simp Sha.. but thank God for the Redpill.

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