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Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Pidaa: 12:32am On Jun 01, 2023
I met a girl that we started talking then I told her I wanted to do voice call with her and she said she don't have credit so I send her large money for card. Since that time this girl started billing me as if I was her sugar daddy. Anytime she chat me she always begging me for money in which I give her in some occasion. So during December period this girl call me that is mum is sick and she need operation to survive. I told her I don't have cash and during that period I was really broke. She started emotionally blackmailing me by sending me messages that if she have offended me that I should forgive her and help her mum. I told her that I don't have money and I mean it but this girl keep calling me on phone every time crying about her mother health detonating. Then I have no option than to call my mum to borrow me a large money then I transfer all the money to this girl to treat her mum and so that I can have my peace and not also look am wicked and heartless that I don't want to help. After sending her the money she told me that she will pay but I told her she should not worry that I dash her all the money. She was crying and thanking me and also praying for me too. She also promise her mum will talk to me to thank me after the operation which she did not do. All these happen December last year. Can you believe this girl have the guy to call me to send her money on new year day that she should enjoy herself? I told her I don't have money and this girl open her dirty mouth to tell me that this is a new year and am suppose to receive my salary by now. I told her I never get salary and she should not disturb me but I was very angry and remember what my girlfriend told me when I told her that a girl is emotionally blackmailing me to force her to help her mum and her reply was she is using me because am a nice guy in which I told my girlfriend that she is mean and self center and she don't want me to help other people as God as prosper me. Because I help her my girlfriend started singing it in my ear that I can give people large money but I don't give her big money and she is my babe. When she keep on singing it every time and every day I just got upset and shouted at her that I don't want to hear that conservation from her mouth because I saved a soul and she should be proud of me of saving person mum instead of bad lashing me. So all those thoughts came to my head and I have to apologise to my girlfriend after everything that stupid girl ask me to give her my salary after helping her mum. But all the same I never told my girlfriend that I usually help people with finance because she always try her possible best for me not to help.
So my elder brother call me that he needed my bank statement for something in which I gave to him. Omo my brother call me and started preaching to me that am too cheerful and reduce the way that I give. That all the money I have given can be used for investment. He told me to be smart and those guys will leave me and insult me if I get broke. So I wax just talking with this mean girl and I told her what my brother said then the next thing she was preaching I should not answer my brother and should continue to give. I just laugh and said this girl think she is smart.
Then on her birthday I wish her happy birthday then she was asking me for money to celebrate her birthday. I just told her politely I don't have money and I mean it. She was trying to do that emotional blackmail but this time it did not work. This girl gut this mind to tell me am beginning to get stingy and am very boastful when I said I usually give people my money. And I have consider her a begger. I reply her have I told u that you are a begger or I have complain that u are a burden? Where are all this word coming from? She said I said I give people money too much and am fooling myself. I just block her line and everything. Most funny thing this girl have been spinning me every time that she want to be my girlfriend but I keep rejecting it and told her we should just be friend in which she go say I too dey form. So am not her girlfriend and don't have any sexual crush on her? Which she know or aware because I reject all her advances. So why does this girl feel entitled to chop my money?

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by davien(m): 12:44am On Jun 01, 2023
You set the tone of interaction with money and since she's not attracted to you she's put you in the wallet category of men she has.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by AndrewTate(m): 12:54am On Jun 01, 2023
Didn't read to the end...
But how did you allow yourself to be so dumb?
You were just a paying client, very dumb one for the matter!
That girl's mother was very fine all through December till now!
If you had probably heard the conversation with her friend who was most likely in the room as they listened to one of their December money mugus talk on phone maybe you would have learned how to be a good person not just trying to be good without brain!

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by JovialRPiller: 1:06am On Jun 01, 2023
Learn how to space out your posts abeg.
It makes your writeup look cleaner.
Nobody is reading that wall of text.

RULE 35 OF THE REDPILL :- Never, and I repeat, NEVER lead with your wallet.
If you do, you'll keep losing more and more resources to satisfy her unlimited and insatiable wants (not needs).

You broke this rule, and you've suffered for it.

Congrats. Now set yourself free and look for the answers waiting for you out there.
Or you could repeat the same mistakes with the next girl who is patiently waiting for a sucker like you to come along.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Lawalemi(m): 1:11am On Jun 01, 2023
Those girls have the mentality that they are up for men to manage. You manage their lives so much that you might forget your own.
At the end, they've got nothing to offer you.
A friend sponsored one through polytechnic, she never informed him when she was doing convocation. She said that she wasn't feeling fine throughout the day.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by beelon1020(m): 1:15am On Jun 01, 2023
Finally at the end of it all, God used your brother reset your brain small... last last your go wise... simpping is a disease...

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by MechanicMike: 1:38am On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:
I met a girl that we started talking then I told her I wanted to do voice call with her and she said she don't have credit so I send her large money for card. Since that time this girl started billing me as if I was her sugar daddy. Anytime she chat me she always begging me for money in which I give her in some occasion. So during December period this girl call me that is mum is sick and she need operation to survive. I told her I don't have cash and during that period I was really broke. She started emotionally blackmailing me by sending me messages that if she have offended me that I should forgive her and help her mum. I told her that I don't have money and I mean it but this girl keep calling me on phone every time crying about her mother health detonating. Then I have no option than to call my mum to borrow me a large money then I transfer all the money to this girl to treat her mum and so that I can have my peace and not also look am wicked and heartless that I don't want to help. After sending her the money she told me that she will pay but I told her she should not worry that I dash her all the money. She was crying and thanking me and also praying for me too. She also promise her mum will talk to me to thank me after the operation which she did not do. All these happen December last year. Can you believe this girl have the guy to call me to send her money on new year day that she should enjoy herself? I told her I don't have money and this girl open her dirty mouth to tell me that this is a new year and am suppose to receive my salary by now. I told her I never get salary and she should not disturb me but I was very angry and remember what my girlfriend told me when I told her that a girl is emotionally blackmailing me to force her to help her mum and her reply was she is using me because am a nice guy in which I told my girlfriend that she is mean and self center and she don't want me to help other people as God as prosper me. Because I help her my girlfriend started singing it in my ear that I can give people large money but I don't give her big money and she is my babe. When she keep on singing it every time and every day I just got upset and shouted at her that I don't want to hear that conservation from her mouth because I saved a soul and she should be proud of me of saving person mum instead of bad lashing me. So all those thoughts came to my head and I have to apologise to my girlfriend after everything that stupid girl ask me to give her my salary after helping her mum. But all the same I never told my girlfriend that I usually help people with finance because she always try her possible best for me not to help.
So my elder brother call me that he needed my bank statement for something in which I gave to him. Omo my brother call me and started preaching to me that am too cheerful and reduce the way that I give. That all the money I have given can be used for investment. He told me to be smart and those guys will leave me and insult me if I get broke. So I wax just talking with this mean girl and I told her what my brother said then the next thing she was preaching I should not answer my brother and should continue to give. I just laugh and said this girl think she is smart.
Then on her birthday I wish her happy birthday then she was asking me for money to celebrate her birthday. I just told her politely I don't have money and I mean it. She was trying to do that emotional blackmail but this time it did not work. This girl gut this mind to tell me am beginning to get stingy and am very boastful when I said I usually give people my money. And I have consider her a begger. I reply her have I told u that you are a begger or I have complain that u are a burden? Where are all this word coming from? She said I said I give people money too much and am fooling myself. I just block her line and everything. Most funny thing this girl have been spinning me every time that she want to be my girlfriend but I keep rejecting it and told her we should just be friend in which she go say I too dey form. So am not her girlfriend and don't have any sexual crush on her? Which she know or aware because I reject all her advances. So why does this girl feel entitled to chop my money?


angry

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by MechanicMike: 1:39am On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:
I met a girl that we started talking then I told her I wanted to do voice call with her and she said she don't have credit so I send her large money for card. Since that time this girl started billing me as if I was her sugar daddy. Anytime she chat me she always begging me for money in which I give her in some occasion. So during December period this girl call me that is mum is sick and she need operation to survive. I told her I don't have cash and during that period I was really broke. She started emotionally blackmailing me by sending me messages that if she have offended me that I should forgive her and help her mum. I told her that I don't have money and I mean it but this girl keep calling me on phone every time crying about her mother health detonating. Then I have no option than to call my mum to borrow me a large money then I transfer all the money to this girl to treat her mum and so that I can have my peace and not also look am wicked and heartless that I don't want to help. After sending her the money she told me that she will pay but I told her she should not worry that I dash her all the money. She was crying and thanking me and also praying for me too. She also promise her mum will talk to me to thank me after the operation which she did not do. All these happen December last year. Can you believe this girl have the guy to call me to send her money on new year day that she should enjoy herself? I told her I don't have money and this girl open her dirty mouth to tell me that this is a new year and am suppose to receive my salary by now. I told her I never get salary and she should not disturb me but I was very angry and remember what my girlfriend told me when I told her that a girl is emotionally blackmailing me to force her to help her mum and her reply was she is using me because am a nice guy in which I told my girlfriend that she is mean and self center and she don't want me to help other people as God as prosper me. Because I help her my girlfriend started singing it in my ear that I can give people large money but I don't give her big money and she is my babe. When she keep on singing it every time and every day I just got upset and shouted at her that I don't want to hear that conservation from her mouth because I saved a soul and she should be proud of me of saving person mum instead of bad lashing me. So all those thoughts came to my head and I have to apologise to my girlfriend after everything that stupid girl ask me to give her my salary after helping her mum. But all the same I never told my girlfriend that I usually help people with finance because she always try her possible best for me not to help.
So my elder brother call me that he needed my bank statement for something in which I gave to him. Omo my brother call me and started preaching to me that am too cheerful and reduce the way that I give. That all the money I have given can be used for investment. He told me to be smart and those guys will leave me and insult me if I get broke. So I wax just talking with this mean girl and I told her what my brother said then the next thing she was preaching I should not answer my brother and should continue to give. I just laugh and said this girl think she is smart.
Then on her birthday I wish her happy birthday then she was asking me for money to celebrate her birthday. I just told her politely I don't have money and I mean it. She was trying to do that emotional blackmail but this time it did not work. This girl gut this mind to tell me am beginning to get stingy and am very boastful when I said I usually give people my money. And I have consider her a begger. I reply her have I told u that you are a begger or I have complain that u are a burden? Where are all this word coming from? She said I said I give people money too much and am fooling myself. I just block her line and everything. Most funny thing this girl have been spinning me every time that she want to be my girlfriend but I keep rejecting it and told her we should just be friend in which she go say I too dey form. So am not her girlfriend and don't have any sexual crush on her? Which she know or aware because I reject all her advances. So why does this girl feel entitled to chop my money?



Can u repet the question sir?(no oofencssece) angry
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by talk2hb1(m): 4:29am On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:
I met a girl that we started talking then I told her I wanted to do voice call with her and she said she don't have credit so I send her large money for card. Since that time this girl started billing me as if I was her sugar daddy. Anytime she chat me she always begging me for money in which I give her in some occasion. So during December period this girl call me that is mum is sick and she need operation to survive. I told her I don't have cash and during that period I was really broke. She started emotionally blackmailing me by sending me messages that if she have offended me that I should forgive her and help her mum. I told her that I don't have money and I mean it but this girl keep calling me on phone every time crying about her mother health detonating. Then I have no option than to call my mum to borrow me a large money then I transfer all the money to this girl to treat her mum and so that I can have my peace and not also look am wicked and heartless that I don't want to help. After sending her the money she told me that she will pay but I told her she should not worry that I dash her all the money. She was crying and thanking me and also praying for me too. She also promise her mum will talk to me to thank me after the operation which she did not do. All these happen December last year. Can you believe this girl have the guy to call me to send her money on new year day that she should enjoy herself? I told her I don't have money and this girl open her dirty mouth to tell me that this is a new year and am suppose to receive my salary by now. I told her I never get salary and she should not disturb me but I was very angry and remember what my girlfriend told me when I told her that a girl is emotionally blackmailing me to force her to help her mum and her reply was she is using me because am a nice guy in which I told my girlfriend that she is mean and self center and she don't want me to help other people as God as prosper me. Because I help her my girlfriend started singing it in my ear that I can give people large money but I don't give her big money and she is my babe. When she keep on singing it every time and every day I just got upset and shouted at her that I don't want to hear that conservation from her mouth because I saved a soul and she should be proud of me of saving person mum instead of bad lashing me. So all those thoughts came to my head and I have to apologise to my girlfriend after everything that stupid girl ask me to give her my salary after helping her mum. But all the same I never told my girlfriend that I usually help people with finance because she always try her possible best for me not to help.
So my elder brother call me that he needed my bank statement for something in which I gave to him. Omo my brother call me and started preaching to me that am too cheerful and reduce the way that I give. That all the money I have given can be used for investment. He told me to be smart and those guys will leave me and insult me if I get broke. So I wax just talking with this mean girl and I told her what my brother said then the next thing she was preaching I should not answer my brother and should continue to give. I just laugh and said this girl think she is smart.
Then on her birthday I wish her happy birthday then she was asking me for money to celebrate her birthday. I just told her politely I don't have money and I mean it. She was trying to do that emotional blackmail but this time it did not work. This girl gut this mind to tell me am beginning to get stingy and am very boastful when I said I usually give people my money. And I have consider her a begger. I reply her have I told u that you are a begger or I have complain that u are a burden? Where are all this word coming from? She said I said I give people money too much and am fooling myself. I just block her line and everything. Most funny thing this girl have been spinning me every time that she want to be my girlfriend but I keep rejecting it and told her we should just be friend in which she go say I too dey form. So am not her girlfriend and don't have any sexual crush on her? Which she know or aware because I reject all her advances. So why does this girl feel entitled to chop my money?
Maybe you didn’t listen to yourself, you started it yourself they only continue it.
They telling you their financial problems doesn’t mean you should solve it, think with your head not with your heart.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Marvyx(m): 4:46am On Jun 01, 2023
Damn. So there are still beta Simpsons like this in this country?? cry cry cry

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by marsup: 4:53am On Jun 01, 2023
It's so painful to read this. Can't imagine how this, must have been playing out in your head.

PS: Give what you can and when you do, no one needs to know about it.
Please try and invest in yourself, because this write up is a beautiful piece of trash.
Peace.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Goalnaldo(m): 5:17am On Jun 01, 2023
Thats how they are...one girl that works in a shop close to ours came to me and said i should buy her chips, i told her to take two, thats how this babe everyday will come and tell me to buy her this, buy her that, she's hungry yen yen yesterday was corn, lol. Even though i like her big ass, i know entitlement when i see it. I am no simp. No shishi has been given since that first time.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Karleb(m): 6:44am On Jun 01, 2023
She used your head bro. In her books you are a maga and that's the most annoying part.

Next time, learn to block on time and decline help request as if you don't have money.

You'd be surprised her mum was never sick.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Smartguyboy(m): 7:07am On Jun 01, 2023
Mumu

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Reminderz: 7:20am On Jun 01, 2023
back then, the best gender you can come out as is a man... if you're a man back then, you would be seen as a god..

now, the best gender to come out as is a woman!.. no wonder we have many people like Bob Risky and co transitioning into a woman.. if you play your cards well, you will get rich as soon as you can... in fact, you'll enjoy your life more than any man in the world.. stupid and foolish men like OP are plenty out there willing to do anything a woman asks them...

if you're a beautiful woman and you're poor, I put it to you that you didn't play your cards well

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Pidaa: 7:52am On Jun 01, 2023
Marvyx:
Damn. So there are still beta Simpsons like this in this country?? cry cry cry
Guy is not about Simpson. I give money to both gender because of my nature of kindness. That does not make me a Simpson. It is good to be nice trust me because this my good have open alot of doors for me

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Marvyx(m): 8:07am On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:

Guy is not about Simpson. I give money to both gender because of my nature of kindness. That does not make me a Simpson. It is good to be nice trust me because this my good have open alot of doors for me

Kindness doesn't make you a simp. But when you are foolish in giving money and worse still, allowing people take advantage of you knowingly, you're worse. Do you need a soothsayer to tell you the operation story was bullshit? Damn man. All the best to you.
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by okunwaye(m): 10:08am On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:

Guy is not about Simpson. I give money to both gender because of my nature of kindness. That does not make me a Simpson. It is good to be nice trust me because this my good have open alot of doors for me

Why are you complaining then?

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Edipet(m): 10:29am On Jun 01, 2023
Epistle of a SIMP.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by ashawopikin(m): 11:53am On Jun 01, 2023
Abeg, who read this long epistle? Help is summerize am abeg

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 01, 2023
davien:
You set the tone of interaction with money and since she's not attracted to you she's put you in the wallet category of men she has.
An overwhelming number of Nigerian ladies nowadays are like that. I don't blame them for that. Na the hoe wey you wash give small child him go use make yam heaps for you. If Nigerian men didn't say anything about 'taking care of' of the ladies, this problem would not have come up
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Autobot05: 2:47pm On Jun 01, 2023
But but but Na money be fine bobo cheesy
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Dizzyyish: 3:36pm On Jun 01, 2023
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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Dizzyyish: 3:42pm On Jun 01, 2023
OP, pls read this thread (also, you should probably add paragraphs to your comment so it's a bit more readable):

https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

The silver lining is that the money you gave is the fee you paid for learning the deceptive, exploitative & entitled aspects of female nature.
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by advanceDNA: 7:11pm On Jun 01, 2023
Pidaa:

Guy is not about Simpson. I give money to both gender because of my nature of kindness. That does not make me a Simpson. It is good to be nice trust me because this my good have open alot of doors for me

Giving people money is different from making u seff a door mat for people to walk upon and use......if your giving has reach level where u cant put people in their place when they treat u like trash....then u are a simp

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by Dshocker(m): 4:58am On Jun 02, 2023
Pidaa:
I met a girl that we started talking then I told her I wanted to do voice call with her and she said she don't have credit so I send her large money for card. Since that time this girl started billing me as if I was her sugar daddy. Anytime she chat me she always begging me for money in which I give her in some occasion. So during December period this girl call me that is mum is sick and she need operation to survive. I told her I don't have cash and during that period I was really broke. She started emotionally blackmailing me by sending me messages that if she have offended me that I should forgive her and help her mum. I told her that I don't have money and I mean it but this girl keep calling me on phone every time crying about her mother health detonating. Then I have no option than to call my mum to borrow me a large money then I transfer all the money to this girl to treat her mum and so that I can have my peace and not also look am wicked and heartless that I don't want to help. After sending her the money she told me that she will pay but I told her she should not worry that I dash her all the money. She was crying and thanking me and also praying for me too. She also promise her mum will talk to me to thank me after the operation which she did not do. All these happen December last year. Can you believe this girl have the guy to call me to send her money on new year day that she should enjoy herself? I told her I don't have money and this girl open her dirty mouth to tell me that this is a new year and am suppose to receive my salary by now. I told her I never get salary and she should not disturb me but I was very angry and remember what my girlfriend told me when I told her that a girl is emotionally blackmailing me to force her to help her mum and her reply was she is using me because am a nice guy in which I told my girlfriend that she is mean and self center and she don't want me to help other people as God as prosper me. Because I help her my girlfriend started singing it in my ear that I can give people large money but I don't give her big money and she is my babe. When she keep on singing it every time and every day I just got upset and shouted at her that I don't want to hear that conservation from her mouth because I saved a soul and she should be proud of me of saving person mum instead of bad lashing me. So all those thoughts came to my head and I have to apologise to my girlfriend after everything that stupid girl ask me to give her my salary after helping her mum. But all the same I never told my girlfriend that I usually help people with finance because she always try her possible best for me not to help.
So my elder brother call me that he needed my bank statement for something in which I gave to him. Omo my brother call me and started preaching to me that am too cheerful and reduce the way that I give. That all the money I have given can be used for investment. He told me to be smart and those guys will leave me and insult me if I get broke. So I wax just talking with this mean girl and I told her what my brother said then the next thing she was preaching I should not answer my brother and should continue to give. I just laugh and said this girl think she is smart.
Then on her birthday I wish her happy birthday then she was asking me for money to celebrate her birthday. I just told her politely I don't have money and I mean it. She was trying to do that emotional blackmail but this time it did not work. This girl gut this mind to tell me am beginning to get stingy and am very boastful when I said I usually give people my money. And I have consider her a begger. I reply her have I told u that you are a begger or I have complain that u are a burden? Where are all this word coming from? She said I said I give people money too much and am fooling myself. I just block her line and everything. Most funny thing this girl have been spinning me every time that she want to be my girlfriend but I keep rejecting it and told her we should just be friend in which she go say I too dey form. So am not her girlfriend and don't have any sexual crush on her? Which she know or aware because I reject all her advances. So why does this girl feel entitled to chop my money?

Your English wants to detonate me...

At least the monies you've been sending here and there, why not you it to help your future, by furthering your education?

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Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by youngreezy(m): 2:31pm On Jun 02, 2023
fucking simp trying to impress a hoe, thinking he'll get laid....I fit swear say you no go fit help your fellow man like this
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by iInjureHerYansh: 3:43pm On Jun 02, 2023
Had a migraine reading 😑
Re: Why Are Some Girls So Entitled? by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:28pm On Jun 02, 2023
Make una leave pidaa alone..........

We have people with soft tender heart.........used to be like him before but now my heart hard pass stone not to boys but girls.........

Would not blame him Sha.........since he was trying to save a soul...........but the stupid girl took his kindness as stupid.............

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