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| Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by madan(f): 11:59am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Hi my fellow nairalanders! I just want to know your take on this cus someone really close to me is about to do this. She's so crazy about her lover despite her parent's warnings. Her parents see the guy as not good enough for her considering their social status. This guy is from a very poor background and a drop out, still struggling to survive. He lives with a friend in Ikorodu, who is a driver in a water factory. Her parents have threatened to stop her education because of this relationship. But my friend doesn't give a kick about that knowing that she could destroy her dreams of becoming a Medical Doctor. She just want to be with this guy forever. Now she plans to elope with the guy. Is this rational? Please, what do you think? |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
This reminds me of nollywood movies where Sen. Danjuma's daughter(Omotola)meets and falls in love with a mechanic(Emeka ike)...btw,flip the situation,would the guy(if he were in her shoes) compromise his career for the girl's love? He wouldn't.#fact 6 Likes |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by timpaker(m): 12:33pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
If it was 1872, yes i would. But 2013? Forget it!  5 Likes |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Are people still this dumb?in 2013 u want to elope cos of one stup1d love? Love has gone beyond dating a guy cos of affection only,but ensuring the guy is capable of meeting up with responsibilities. Her parents want the best for her,since they know better.she better heed their warning,or she comes back regretting it.no guy,or girl is worth risking career for in this present age. 3 Likes |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
binger: This reminds me of nollywood movies where Sen. Danjuma's daughter(Omotola)meets and falls in love with a mechanic(Emeka ike)...btw,flip the situation,would the guy(if he were in her shoes) compromise his career for the girl's love? He wouldn't.#factHe wouldn't be so stupid, that love would dry off in the long run if her 'husband' couldn't provide for her. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Yomieluv: Are people still this dumb?in 2013 u want to elope cos of one stup1d love?Erm, that wouldn't be love. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by redcliff: 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
[size=15pt]NEVER!!!, when she's tired of your inability to take care of her, she elopes with another guy? whats the point? Poster, tell your friend to be careful or if its you, be careful, once a large part of your family is not in support of your relationship with an individual, desist from doing anything contrary because at the end (in most cases) they are always right and you might have to live with it for a pretty long time[/size] |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Wendyslim(f): 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
For where when I no chop craze. Na dat same guy wey you run follow go bullshit you.  |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
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| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by kokoye(m): 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Now that's true love. Dumb move at times like this ...but real love. But who knows..they might end up victorious..and the end justifies the means. Sebi love is supposed to be blind? there you have it folks. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Wendyslim: For where when I no chop craze. Na dat same guy wey you run follow go bullshit you.exactly. Very selfish folks |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by baby124: 4:46pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
dumbest move any babe can make. Get married properly before you move into any man's house or runaway anywhere. You ge5t more respect that way. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by sexybash(f): 4:48pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
if i am her parent i will tell her to elope 5 years down d line she will come back and tell the story if only she is Alive |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
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| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Idowuogbo(f): 4:54pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
ItsModella:dem go slap u 1 day i swear!  |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Joe50(m): 4:56pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
elope for this era? Hmmm, abi na juju d guy dey use!  |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Pelummy(f): 4:56pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
I can't stop shaking ma head for her.....if u ar a gud friend talk senses into her |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by 9icest: 4:58pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by tjskii(f): 5:02pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
When dem no dey worry me,hian |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Tinkybabe(f): 5:03pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
I guess the lady or girl in question is still very young  |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Fklin(m): 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
No b only Elope na envELOPE 1 Like |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by solomon111(m): 5:13pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
God forbid.!! My father would probably curse me. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by CID: 5:15pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Purpose before partner |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by quicksylva(m): 5:15pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Love is blind, and it will take over your mind, What you think is love, is truly not, You need to elevate and find. #chorus by Eve# |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Caught on that our subject is a little woman. Any sane grown-up should know that a balance should always be created between a career and LOVE, no eloping with either to leave either. Please warn her not to do such, she would only regret it. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by simdam500(m): 5:18pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Elope is not d best idea. Stand for luv |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by kpozite(m): 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Leave am make e try make e see Hunger and lack of basic necessities will force her to de-elope. I only hope it will not too late then. The boy is wicked sha he dosen't love her. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by orgasticdance: 5:38pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
i've done something close and it's up there with my best and worst experiences evr to date. I think it's not a bad idea for people to experience something crazy once in their lives even if it's short lived.. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by sunkoye: 5:41pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
ha ahhhh.....children of these days are smarter than dat joor. or mayb okija/juju at work sha! |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Brymo: 5:42pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Pelummy: I can't stop shaking ma head for her.....if u ar a gud friend talk senses into her,,av u eva bin in lov? |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
Brymo: ,,av u eva bin in lov?abegi, spare us the emotional crap. |
| Re: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by IjeomaOkeke100(f): 5:52pm On Jan 16, 2013 |
I might look all lovey dovery, rosey and sweet for now and because her family is there for her financialy she might not see the need to listen to them. Some people who have always had it all turn to be naive at times. Please open your friend's eyes and make her see that sometimes love is just not enough. Ask around and find people who have done the same mistakes and are regretting it, interview them and get her to hear what they say. Her decision has never been good for anyone in life. Those who have been here before us can tell you |
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