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Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by mixy12(m): 6:56pm On Dec 29, 2008
I need advice. I have a girlfriend, she is living with me and i don't know how to tell her her i don't want her to live with me again.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by bronxdog: 6:57pm On Dec 29, 2008
just as you have post it here - say it to her exactly so or play her P - Square "Game is over"- u short deeked man.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by H2O2: 6:57pm On Dec 29, 2008
Like you said, tell her. grin
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by JJYOU: 7:01pm On Dec 29, 2008
like you told her to come in but whatever you do make sure you dont hurt or wound her and that she has somewhere else to go before you do the needfull
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by MissyB1(m): 7:01pm On Dec 29, 2008
I believe you once encouraged her to pack in?!
Anatha gurl is 'bout to pay for her tomfoolery. grin
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 29, 2008
"Baby, everything you own in the box to the left"
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by mixy12(m): 7:33pm On Dec 29, 2008
I don't want to break up with her, i love her very much. She came in because she had no where to stay and she have no where to go now.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by mixy12(m): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2008
I don't want to break up with her, i love her very much. She came in because she had no where to stay and she have no where to go now.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2008
Why do you want her to move out?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by olanajim(m): 7:41pm On Dec 29, 2008
And how long has she been living with you?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by ndumart: 7:43pm On Dec 29, 2008
Get a place for her and pay her rent.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 7:49pm On Dec 29, 2008
ndumart:

Get a place for her and pay her rent.
rotflmao lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by CLASSMAN: 7:56pm On Dec 29, 2008
e no good o u don chop tire u wan give am red card abi?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2008
write her a memo shocked shocked
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2008
mixy12:

I need advice. I have a girlfriend, she is living with me and i don't know how to tell her her i don't want her to live with me again.

my guy, talk true. you don tire for her toto. no be so?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by tpia: 8:22pm On Dec 29, 2008
I hope this isnt the fellow who said his girlfriend's guardians threw her out because she insisted on dating him?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by elizatops(f): 8:32pm On Dec 29, 2008
well feel free to tell her ur mind instead of wasting her time
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by mixy12(m): 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2008
I want her to move out because i don't feel comfortable with the idea. I'm a student and so is she. We have been living together for about 2 years now
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by iice(f): 8:44pm On Dec 29, 2008
After 2 years you are now feeling the guilty pangs abi na uncomfortable. You no try.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 8:49pm On Dec 29, 2008
too late. manage the situation.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by superboi(m): 8:52pm On Dec 29, 2008
when ur mama been dey tell u wink(my pikin no follow woman read book), na u don dey get carry-over wan eject de poor gal, remeber 2 morrow sha.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by otokx(m): 9:12pm On Dec 29, 2008
story story
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by HOLLASLYD(m): 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2008
After 2 years you want make she pack abi. Come push her commot.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by olanajim(m): 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2008
Much as I would castigate you for habouring her for that long, I think it is not too late to eject her!

Like someone said, you are tired of her. You have had free sex for 2 years. Soon, you will start seeing a better gal. Soon you will stop visiting her. Soon you will find fault with her. And then, the final "CLOSURE!".

Well, the best time to eject her is now. At least you will save her from further trauma in future.

When you get home, sit her down and tell that you feel it is unwise for you guys to be living together now. Try and reason with her. Alternative, you may arrange with any of you friends or her friends staying in the building to swap room. If there is a female living alone, try and talk to them to share room while you also find a guy to share your room if need be.

To show her that you are not pushing her away:
1. Give her time to make her mind up.
2. Give her time to get alternative room. You may also lend a hand,
3. Give her your room spare key so she is free to see you anytime. Afterall you said you don't want to end the relationship.

Finally, in anything you do, Remember the Law of Karma! She may be weak today, if you punish her unfairly, tomorrow will do justice on her behalf.

Cheer.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by lavish: 8:14pm On Jan 03, 2009
just leave the place for her, dont say goodbye and dont let her know where you stay cool
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Magz(m): 8:32pm On Jan 03, 2009
Pray on it. Also, be sure to give her a generous yet firm amount of time to find another living arrangement. Maybe a week or so, but do not allow her to stay after this time and don't extend it.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 2:14am On Jan 04, 2009
Magz:

Pray on it. Also, be sure to give her a generous yet firm amount of time to find another living arrangement. Maybe a week or so, but do not allow her to stay after this time and don't extend it.
"Lord, help me get her out of my house"?
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by omega25red(m): 3:01am On Jan 04, 2009
you say this
"bithc by the time i get back you better not be bleeping here yea? you make me bloody sick"

Then laugh and be like i was just joking then say " seriously i want you to move out"
then run for your life grin

The truth is a woman would have no problem telling you to get the Bleep out of her house when she is ready to leave you she would even bring her new man home to intimidate you grin i say this to say let her have it and let her have it good.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Moonstone(f): 3:03am On Jan 04, 2009
See this spineless thing! In the first place, how did you ask her to move in?
When you're asking her to move out, are you trying to break up with her? If so, break up with her once and for all. If not, just tell her you need your space. Either way, consider yourself very very single.
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by Nobody: 3:13am On Jan 04, 2009
omega25red:

you say this
"bithc by the time i get back you better not be bleeping here yea? you make me bloody sick"

Then laugh and be like i was just joking then say " seriously i want you to move out"
then run for your life grin

The truth is a woman would have no problem telling you to get the Bleep out of her house when she is ready to leave you she would even bring her new man home to intimidate you grin i say this to say let her have it and let her have it good.
rotflmao . . . .oh gosh. would I kill you!!

You can run to the end of the world, e no marra
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by TOYOSI20(f): 3:49am On Jan 04, 2009
I agree wid ndumart, . . . .get a place for her and pay her rent too. . . . . lipsrsealed
Re: Advice. How To Tell Her To Pack Out Of My House by dayokanu(m): 3:56am On Jan 04, 2009
Burn the house and she would have nowhere to stay

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