Ladies get se.x urge too..ehn! I think say Na only men need am...yeye dey smell..

ohaleoghene:



no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

proove it.

emusmith:


Hey sweet... ...lemmie read it...

how was d day?

jacksparrow1207:


Buhahahahaha. He's what ebenezer obey commander refered to as 'mondaru'

i remember that song o. Popsy even had the video cassette then in our upper loader video cassette player lol



I Don old ooo

OP go download & listen to macklemore song titled "starting over" it all about living one day at a time. I think that's all you really need

ohaleoghene:



I'm joining him this year

so you not fit wait bah?
silly people. .
that problem with women these days.
always causin problems fr men

kelvin100:


Is he in a prison in Saudi Arabia?

hahahahahahaha o boy abeg nor use kill person

Spaxon:
how was d day?

Busy... Work... How's yours?

krall:
masturbating makes you feel guilty but fornicating doesnt?
i am lost here.

seconded !!!

Hian!,some people sef

Go fvck who you want sweetheart, and do what you want, he doesn't have to know

cold:
If you feel bad about mastùrbation then i strongly suggest you use a sanctified equipment. Comes highly recommended even in the bible as evinced in Songs of Solomon 2:3 Like the finest apple tree in the orchard is my lover among other young men. I sit in his delightful shade and taste his delicious fruit.

Looking at that picture attached to your post, l will say you are very LUCKY that the entity you are insulting belongs to CHRISTIANS..... who are very forgiving and enlightened enough to understand that your words mean NOTHING with respect to what their Lord stands for.

If you had referred to MOHAMMED in such insulting way, you'll know you just signed a death warrant for yourself.
Go ask "Je suis CHARLIE"

"Let us be respectful of what others believe and treasure...even when we dont share the same opinion".

Thank God for JESUS, thank God for Christians.
Islam and Muslims have a thing to learn from this level of TOLERANCE...even when offended.

Lastapge!

ammyluv2002:
Sex is a thing of the mind! It's a mind set once you take your mind off it then you won't miss it

Abeggi with this your advice. Like how many times did you condition and took your mind of sex? People come here and give advice of which they themselves cannot keep it. To control konji, na beans?

At op, abeg manage that small boi near your house.

sanc2s:
Story for the gods

story for the gods...the gods o

self service is not an option ....cos if e no be panadol e no fit be panadol

xtervaganza:
i remember that song o. Popsy even had the video cassette then in our upper loader video cassette player lol



I Don old ooo

Me too

asdfjklhaha:

Sex is a tin of d mind like sumone said, just get urself busy wit other tins so as to get ur mind of sex, secondly avoid watching porn, cos de corrupt d mind.

Keep yourself busy with other things as much as you can, but i must confidently tell you that at night, sexual feelings must elope your mind.

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

U dey really sell gala. Lol.

One thing I've learned from a lot of people around me is that most long distance relationships like the op's own where neither partner is cheating usually involves a whole lot of self-service/phone intimacy e.t.c to survive..

ohaleoghene:


never! I will not cheat on him. we have been through a lot . he is my first so I don't know what another man's hand feels like. if I want to cheat I don't need Nairaland permission

STORY FOR THE GODS

Gej all d way

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

Badt Guy

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

n
bitter truth

StPete:
U have conditioned ur mind to feel masturbation is a sin and so it plays out every time u carry out the act.
For the record, masturbation is healthy, safe and free from any form of infection. If that's all u can do to keep ur self from cheating, then pls do

Pastor Chris even encouraged it and said it's not a sin.

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

Hahahahah. This is the best/funniest advice I've heard.

Nice advise.. surprise pple still watch porn..

asdfjklhaha:

Sex is a tin of d mind like sumone said, just get urself busy wit other tins so as to get ur mind of sex, secondly avoid watching porn, cos de corrupt d mind.

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Are you in Lag. After everything we'll both pray for forgiveness. Ur guy sef go don straf babes abroad o

Na dis sh1t com make front page?

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

. You havE a powerful sex drive. U are just a lion that has tasted human blood--it will always come back for more. U shouldn't start what U can't stop. Any way, go on to the end.

Op,i cn fil ur pain cs u n i are in it 2gda.dr's no oda shorcut.self service aint a sin(quote me,if m wrong wt evidence)

dr r xo many tym av decided nt 2masturbte.suddenly i wl jz find ma hand in ma puci or breast

des r d tins i do wen m Hot
-call him n tel hm m misin hm
-weneva m alone i tnk abt d sex we've had.sumtyms i make up conversatns asif hs wt me
-tnk abt ow d future is gona b wt hm(eg una weddin,9ts,durin pregnant,afta delivery etc)
-encouragin ursf.i usually tel mysf 'ts jz a mata of tym,tough tyms dnt last,tough pple do'
-watch porn.esp if u r d type dat has plenty toastas.i almst fell in 4 of ma handsum toasta(i wantd 2av sex wt hm badly,m lyk ma guy wnt no)in d evenin i colectd a porn rm a frnd n i startd tnkin abt ma guy n ma fantasy wt d oda guy vanish
-rid books
-get busy
dnt 4gt 2tel us wen u r finaly bak wt hm o cs nairalanders r fond of dat tin.afta getn dr ansa,we wnt hear anytn again

heartdesir:
I am not really good at replying posts but if u are really sincere with what u are saying, add me on bbm let's chat. I want us to talk woman to woman but meanwhile, u need to keep yourself busy especially when the thought of sex comes to your mind I know its natural but remember that your body is.the temple of the God.so don't mess up. rebuke the thoughts and they will leave you it doesn't matter how many times, do it repeatedly until it becomes your habit such that you will b able to control it. feel free to chat with me on bbm 7939AC27. God bless you.

@Op:

DONT!
I repeat: DONT EVER MEET ANYONE, ANYWHERE ....(OR REVEAL YOUR REAL IDENTITY).....ABOUT THIS ISSUE......MAN OR WOMAN.

I am speaking "generally"...without reference to the poster above (Respects!)

If you do, you will regret it later.
Issue like this are best dealt with anonymously....who knows, you might become a Minister tomorrow or Governor...and such seemingly little things might come back to hunt you.

Let it be known to only you and your God.
YOU CAN DO IT IF YOU ARE REALLY DETERMINED TO DO IT.

read all the anonymous advice: Some are obviously very stewpid,.... given by "kids"; some are obviously wicked....given by "randy guys who want and wish they could get hold of you and phuck da hell out of ya"; some are seemingly-innocent advice, given by folks who think it is an opportunity to "use and control your life"; some are given by people "who have walked the walk and talk the talk"...... nothing beats experience in life!
In all sieve the advices, take the useful ones that serve your purpose and discard all the bull-shyte!

Nuff said, now gerrout of here and go chat with your man over Skype or Viber of Ovoo or osme other video App.

Lastpage!

asdfjklhaha:

Sex is a tin of d mind like sumone said, just get urself busy wit other tins so as to get ur mind of sex, secondly avoid watching porn, cos de corrupt d mind.

Come, na where you buy dat shirt wey u wear? I like am.

From your statement, I guess you are not formally married. That means it is wrong to have been having sex together in the first instance.

And once you start like that the body craves more of it and it becomes difficult stopping it.

I counsel you to ask for God's grace to overcome this urge until you are married. Ask for forgiveness and give your life or dedicate your life to Christ. With God all things are possible.

What is wrong before God is WRONG no matter how many people are doing it. Pre-marrital sex is a sin.