As we''ll know in Nija here, once a girl finishes her education, her parents thought is for her to get a man who she'll tie the knot with. Do yall think its normal if a girl finishes at the age of 19 or 20, then get married at the age of 21? Is she not too young for that?

Why not post in existing topics.
Must u start a new topic?
The question is quite silly, i must add.

Blackdiva, I have used the search engine and there's no topic associated with this. How do you mean u find the topic silly? I have a reason to know if a girl of 21 is too young to get married after education, how does that sound silly to you. I just tire for all you old nairalander's thinking ur too advanced in every way possible.

Why not post in existing topics.
Must u start a new topic?
The question is quite silly, i must add.

@bluediva.that was harsh

well, i thnk its all about maturity, am 23 and i dont think am ready

ladygaga:

well, i thnk its all about maturity, am 23 and i dont think am ready

Yeah, definately about maturity and the individual

Eyonigger,
Didn't mean to be harsh.
Sorry oooooooooooooooo

BlueDiva:

Eyonigger,
Didn't mean to be harsh.
Sorry oooooooooooooooo

You better be!!

@21
doesnt she want to enjoy life a lil bit b4 settling down?

So you have to be unmarried to enjoy life??^^^

each person is different, some people are "ready" and mature enough to say i do at 16 while others will NEVER be ready.
its all down to individuals and if you are mature enough to handle marriage life. what is wrong would be to marry someone while not ready, just for the sake of family, religion, peer pressure or what not.
we all know what marriage means, as soon as a woman gets married, her family/spouse expect a child(or two) within a short time.
@ magz, you dont have to be unmarried to enjoy life but maybe the kind of enjoyment that she is talking about is not "fit" for a wife to have.

Magz:

So you have to be unmarried to enjoy life??^^^

Can she go clubbing and partyin till wheneva when she is married??

who rose this thread from the dead?

Yeah! Think it's all about individual differences. If u ask me, i don't think i can marry a gal of 21 - say, 23!

if the man has a good job and the girl is out of college, then I dont see why not.

After all they say they're in a relationship, so what else are they waiting for.

Unless they both want to date other people or play around a bit before settling down.

@poster dude you open too many unnecessary threads.

pc guru:

@poster dude you open too many unnecessary threads.

Another one of Mr Eyonigger's Observer, what is the problem? unnecessary thread? so u are saying the peeps posting here are FOOLS huh? I do not see how this is a razz thread, in fact it makes more sense than your script writing or data programming projects. Just save ur comments and vamoose!!. I have a gurl of 16 in 100 levels, and I am planning to marry her once she finishes, thats why I created this thread ya heard?

eyonigger:

Another one of Mr Eyonigger's Observer, what is the problem? unnecessary thread? so u are saying the peeps posting here are FOOLS huh? I do not see how this is a razz thread, in fact it makes more sense than your script writing or data programming projects. Just save ur comments and vamoose!!. I have a gurl of 16 in 100 levels, and I am planning to marry her once she finishes, thats why I created this thread ya heard?

@ eyonigger

You have a girl of SIXTEEN in 100 levels whom you are planning to marry when she is through, right?

forgive me if i sound too inquisitive but how old are you?

Omolola1:

@ eyonigger

You have a girl of SIXTEEN in 100 levels whom you are planning to marry when she is through, right?

forgive me if i sound too inquisitive but how old are you?

he said he is 21 I think.

The issue is that He really needs to pity this gal. How does he imagin she is going to cope; 16 for Gawd's sake. Just move on with hte usual smooching, karolling, necking, suckings, fingerings, dooderings, lingerings, cuddlings, whisperings, moaning (even) etc, but for the sake of SAKE itself don't PENETRATE her!!!!

Omolola1:

@ eyonigger

You have a girl of SIXTEEN in 100 levels whom you are planning to marry when she is through, right?

forgive me if i sound too inquisitive but how old are you?

Im 25 this year, earning good money, I have a car, and my father left me a mansion, what else do I want? I want to wait for her until she finishes school, we always act assive we are married couples when we are together.

binahmad:

he said he is 21 I think.

The issue is that He really needs to pity this gal. How does he imagin she is going to cope; 16 for Gawd's sake. Just move on with hte usual smooching, karolling, necking, suckings, fingerings, dooderings, lingerings, cuddlings, whisperings, moaning (even) etc, but for the sake of SAKE itself don't PENETRATE her!!!!

Yes we do all that and I have not yet penetrated her, although she is not a virgin, but that girl is just too irresistible, as in, how gurl go fyn like mammy water come get boooby and big yansh, u no go wan penetrate? I will try not to, she just turned 17 yesterday.

A girl at 21 isn't too young to get married. In most parts of Nigeria, (the north to be more specific), girls within the ages of 13-15 are considered ripe and mature for marriage. So a girl of 21 shouldn't be an execption.

Gbam!

Blackdiva,  I have used the search engine and there's no topic associated with this. How do you mean u find the topic silly? I have a reason to know if a girl of 21 is too young to get married after education, how does that sound silly to you. I just tire for all you old nairalander's thinking ur too advanced in every way possible.

Thank you. Abeg tell her!!!!!

They feel they stand an uper stage in criticising everything just because them don tey for Nairaland. Well with how many posts she take senior you masef?

Me wonder O!!!

Poster, u just disclosed what is attractin u 2her - her big booty and de beauty! Maybe she's attracted 2ur mansion and money. Make de thin finish, u go know how far! Good luck, dear.

binahmad:

Thank you. Abeg tell her!!!!!

They feel they stand an uper stage in criticising everything just because them don tey for Nairaland. Well with how many posts she take senior you masef?

Me wonder O!!!

I think sey na only me know, na so them dey do.

Hollysmile:

Poster, u just disclosed what is attractin u 2her - her big booty and de beauty! Maybe she's attracted 2ur mansion and money. Make de thin finish, u go know how far! Good luck, dear.

I did not say thats what am attracted to, I am only stating the fact of " PENETRATION" which some1 made mention of, besides I have not flashed my wealth to her, she just love my rude and gangster love, and I love her charisma and intelligence besides her beauty.

the guy's a freak. he only wants to lick the girl

segzi cres:

the guy's a freak. he only wants to lick the girl

hahaga, oloshi!!

oh no i just missed my road

no be only your road you misss, you go also miss your ,,

U go fear na! Me tinks marriage shuldn't b rushed neida shuld it b slowed down. But d couple nid to knw each other wel enuff b4 venturing into 'jail'. . .


Me too wan marry but I de fear to wake up to the same face everyday. . .

What's with the outburst just trying to say u cud just ask in a thread.don't get it twisted.i ain't dissin ya or callin u razz.though it's not something i can't say