[b][/b] I graduated two years ago and working now... I had a lot of female Friends and I was a kind of person every lady wanna be around due to my sense of humour but since school days I hardly caLl or flirt around ladies anymore...sometimes I do stop a lady in bus,road or bar...and after little talks...they will be willing to give me their number and it Will be hard for me to call, not that I don't have airtime or what..it just that the feeling just not there and even If I tried to make out time to associate..it will end up as a one or two night stand relationship and I can't call you ever again even if she tries calling regularly
Please nairalander is this a spiritual problem or sexuality

The both...e suppose even be 3,but u no add..make i help u add am;..."low libido"

Its phsychological. Gone are the days of near free shows. U need to hussle now and attain a level of financial capacity to suit ur play boy image. Its nothing new.

It's maturity bro, your brain is directing you to the next stage of your life which is the face of reality and real hustle, not pussy hustle

Don't worry I have gotten little knownledge

donbachi:
The both...e suppose even be 3,but u no add..make i help u add am;..."low libido"

4 depression

Low libido and depression sound like brothers alike But now at least am not the only. One expressing this So it not. A spiritual problem

Tripitaka:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. It happens to the best of us. You meet a girl today, you try to be in your best behaviour and all, you make her laugh and wow her in more ways than one. Inwards, you think she is "the one", then you proceed to exchange contact and that's it.

You call her once, twice, thrice. You even text a couple of times. But then, you notice the excitement is gradually diminishing. You lose interest completely and even her calls begin to be a bother.

Going after a girl slmetimes is more like going hunting. The excitement is top notch until you catch the "animal" and then realise that it's all bone, not enough flesh, but you still enjoyed the adventure. It's an ego thing. The capture is the reward for your ego and also a validation that you can "get em", a validation that you have the charm. So, the moment you secure the capture, you move on to the next one.

It isn't fair, but it happens.

Now this is me.

I prefer admiring a lady without wooing her.
Because when I woo her and she gives in, adventure ends.
Would even be better she doesn't consent. Makes me want to woo her the more.