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Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by blessingnenye(f): 12:25pm On Aug 08, 2023
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested from the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Aug 08, 2023
Nice heading but no content

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Negroid001(m): 1:03pm On Aug 08, 2023

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by tnerro1(m): 1:12pm On Aug 08, 2023
Was it before or after the sex, if it was after the sex, I can explain but before the sex, I no sabi that one oo, we go need to consult oracle for that one
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 1:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
I don't think it's every guy that's guilty of this though, but 4 me once i get too familiar with a girl i frndzone or sister zone her. I don't really knw what's wrong with me in that aspect. No matter how interested i was once we become very close i lose interest.

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Goodlady(f): 1:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
tnerro1:
Was it before or after the sex, if it was after the sex, I can explain but before the sex, I no sabi that one oo, we go need to consult oracle for that one
Explain if it was after sex.

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by tnerro1(m): 1:22pm On Aug 08, 2023
Goodlady:

Explain if it was after sex.

The sex was not what we tot it would be like, I have bleeped girls once that I spent some much time chasing and didn’t go back for a second, they were sexy, but the sex was uninteresting.

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by dalass(f): 1:58pm On Aug 08, 2023
tnerro1:


The sex was not what we tot it would be like, I have bleeped girls once that I spent some much time chasing and didn’t go back for a second, they were sexy, but the sex was uninteresting.

One minute guy grin
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by tnerro1(m): 2:33pm On Aug 08, 2023
dalass:


One minute guy grin
😁😁😁🤪🤪😁😁😁😋😋😋. U wish😋😋

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by jeromestarks: 3:42pm On Aug 08, 2023
This girl is depressed.

Call that guy and tell him you love him. Stick to him. He is your future
blessingnenye:
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested from the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Dyfynezz12(m): 4:09pm On Aug 08, 2023
I see chasing women as a game.once i win, I start a new game

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Rokiat(f): 4:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
Once they lose interest you lose interest too and move right on to the next one and never look back.

Side note you have to always keep them on their toes and even when married.


Keep a certain mystery to
You, keep them guessing always. Do not always rush to reply their text or call, have hobbies that don’t involve men there’s more to life than a man’s love.
Be busy living and enjoying your own life, a man should only add to it so with or without him you should give zero fu..ck.

Emotional women are the reason men be behaving foolish like this. You have to act and think like them. Put yourself first.


Self love self improvement be heavily invested in yourself. Be obsessed with yourself that how you keep a man’s interest. Once you put them on a pedestal you don fu…ck up big time. They are very funny creatures.

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by NairaGPT: 5:31pm On Aug 08, 2023
Rokiat:
Once they lose interest you lose interest too and move right on to the next one and never look back.

Side note you have to always keep them on their toes and even when married.


Keep a certain mystery to
You, keep them guessing always. Do not always rush to reply their text or call, have hobbies that don’t involve men there’s more to life than a man’s love.
Be busy living and enjoying your own life, a man should only add to it so with or without him you should give zero fu..ck.

Emotional women are the reason men be behaving foolish like this. You have to act and think like them. Put yourself first.


Self love self improvement be heavily invested in yourself. Be obsessed with yourself that how you keep a man’s interest. Once you put them on a pedestal you don fu…ck up big time. They are very funny creatures.
youve reached the age of marriage. Hope you know

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by GodWrites: 6:01pm On Aug 08, 2023
Love bombing. The oldest manipulation tactic. That's why as a lady, you should NEVER give in to that guy who has been chasing you for years.

Once you give in, they will start blowing hot and cold, getting you more obsessed. If you are ignorant of these manipulative technique, the narcissist will begin devaluation, another tactic where the narcissist plants doubts in your mind to target your self-esteem and confidence.

At this stage, you are obsessed, and clingy, and you don't even think to leave cause you don't even believe that someone else could love you. That's how you remain stuck in a relationship or marriage irrespective of the emotional and physical abuse.

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Truvelisback(m): 7:09pm On Aug 08, 2023
blessingnenye:
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested fromm the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/
There could be two reasons for that. 1. Over shakara could be the reason or over playing hard-to-get. Maybe, by the time she decided to put an end to her hard-to-get game, the dude had already lost his interest in her. 2. Her past could be another reason. undecided

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by pansophist(m): 7:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
Ever seen a hunter chasing a bush meat he already caught? grin

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by dkidd: 7:27pm On Aug 08, 2023
If ur just a game to him that's what happens naturally. I was carried away by the comments. Madam if u mean before sex they loose interest once u start showing same level of interest in them then the reason could probably mean they are not so into u. But if it's after knacking then many things involved.
1.Maybe ur a lousy lay
2. Bad kuntus
3. Ur true colors are ugly
4. They're players
5. Ur just too ugly to be seen with
6. U can't communicate in simple English so they're scared u might fall hands unexpectedly
7. The hunt is over which brings us back to number 4
8. Other unprintable reasons best known to them

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Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by DonroxyII: 8:53pm On Aug 15, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
I don't think it's every guy that's guilty of this though, but 4 me once i get too familiar with a girl i frndzone or sister zone her. I don't really knw what's wrong with me in that aspect. No matter how interested i was once we become very close i lose interest.
Na See Finish ...

U like the Chase But Once Gotten & U see am Finish e don be ...

U no go also like to dey watch Movies Twice, Once U watch am Once e don be be that!
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by GraceAndPeace: 1:55am On Aug 16, 2023
Because everything except God has a fading glory. You get excited first time, second time, third time and lose interest afterwards. Only God has that unending freshness to keep us love-struck forever


The 24 elders are bowing in worship day and night for ever and ever. God is the only one that we can be so familiar with and still everly enjoy him.

And when God finds expression in a man or woman, you know the rest...
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Dshocker(m): 3:10am On Aug 16, 2023
NairaGPT:
youve reached the age of marriage. Hope you know

grin grin grin

Which one be say she don reach age for marriage?... God no go forgive you grin

Abi na she go marry herself?
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Dshocker(m): 3:33am On Aug 16, 2023
blessingnenye:
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested from the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/

Because you caused it...

In the olden days, before the era of social media, chasing and chyking comes with some heavy task, because a lot of sacrifices and commitment were made and no guy wants to waste his time chasing a girl he doesn't like for months.

Unlike now that social media has killed the creativity, guys now have unlimited access to women, just within the confines of his home, he can start a brand-new relationship within the space of 1hr, so why you want come dey stress me with shakara?

So my submission is; Men don't have that time again, because if he looks left or right, there are other better options than you.... So as a girl, you just have to decide fast at that moment, not to start dating immediately though, but you can share numbers and start on a footing of friendship first
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Vinnie2000(m): 7:45am On Aug 16, 2023
Simply because the Girl starts talking about her

*Upcoming Birthday.
*Mother's ailments.
*Father's Withheld pension
*Younger Brother's WAEC Enrolment fee
*Their Family's House rent, etc.. undecided

Which Sensible Guy won't Withdraw? 😏

Relationship with most Nigerian Girls can Only give you as the Guy,
STRESS AND HYPERTENSION. 😕🙂
Re: Why Do Guys Withdraw Once You Begin To Show Your Interest? by Map1(m): 7:51am On Aug 16, 2023
blessingnenye:
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested from the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/
one thing most of Nigerian girls don't know is that, chasing them take alot of time and stress which some one like me don't like because it will take your time, energy and money in terms of communication and visitation, you will also keep repeating yourself all the time.someone like me hate such a situation.

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