Bobbynobobby:


Stopped reading at "lab rat". And no, the word of God does not change so I don't need upgrades in that regards. But do what you do, sir. I understand it is paramount to keep the fear levels high in the business of "spiritism". I reiterate, the message is for true believers in Jesus Christ, not fear mongers. Christ has created in you the spirit to win and overcome and not of fear and uncertainty...cowering up and down. Your faith really should set you apart, make you special, empower you, be the light that draws others to Christ, make you a winner!

kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

Bobbynobobby:


This is Africa indeed. Had to stop reading after your first statement. Where did you read it in the Bible that a believer's fate is to be inheriting spiritual problems? And what is the meaning of 'authority in Jesus Christ'? You people need to stop misinformation. He has created in you the spirit of victory, not of fear. OP please advise your friend HIMSELF to put it in prayer and make a decision from there

madridguy:
Tell your friend to quit the relationship with immediate effect.

JuanDeDios:

Why do you think they're wicked? It seems you know something about them.

kingthreat:
Thanks all for your comments. From what was shared here I was able to give a better advice to my friend who I talked to over the night.
I told him that if he wants to run a serious Christian marriage, the background of the girl will affect it so it is better to quit now except the girl is ready to be a prayer warrior and have less to do with her family. But if he wants to run a normal marriage, he can go ahead.

My guy told me he wants a Christian marriage o. He told me he just spoke to his uncle pastor about it and the Uncle told him to quit. One, for him to complain that means he is no longer 100% sure about the marriage and that can raise issues in the future. Two, he said most occult men do spiritual things that eventually affect their children and marrying her will be fighting unseen battles he had no idea of. It is better he finds a way to breakoff slowly or let the lady know that his parents are not comfortable with the marriage because of her family background. He himself knows that his family will not accept that but he is willing to turn rebel and do what he wants to do. But now he's having a rethought.

At a point I could hear sounds of crying in his voice over the phone. Guy is still saying that this is the best lady he ever dated. Chei

Bobbynobobby:


GOAT is this not over sharing laidis.

NairalandGOAT1:


You Sabi me?

Talk make I know abeg

Anyway, thanks for the push I needed to modify the post!

Before I posted that, I had double mind about it

Bobbynobobby:


GOAT is this not over sharing laidis.

duncan511:
after much Bleep, and the girl told him before now, him want quit, will him return the Bleep, abi dey nor Bleep

immortalcrown:
What is ROF?

Meanwhile, wearing white and beads does not mean Ogboni membership. Stop the profiling. Stop making conclusions without confirmations.

Ceenachi:
Boss tell your guy to sharply marry the girl.
You guy may need the man help later in the future, dis life is too spiritual.......

Believe me the man would never hurt his son in-law rather protect him if thing start going wrong

Okortor:
That's if u offend us... We are different from the red cult.. ogboni are viper's if offended.

emmeyen:
Your friend is scared about the girl's family, what makes him feel his is any better? Lemme guess, because his parents cover it up right? He should actually see how the girl handles it. If she takes it as a normal thing, he should run but if she sees it as abnormal and something she must fight against, he should stand with her and pray as they both start their life afresh . But most men don't pray, they feel it's the woman that should do all the prayers in marriage. Even when seeking for life partners na woman dey pray pass. A man thinks he can just pick any woman to marry. Marriage is deep and life is spiritual. If he is spiritually capable, he should prayerfully go ahead. Most importantly, let him seek the face of God concerning it.

SoaringLife01:

Which one is the red cult ?

Courz:



For your info, the spiritual wickedness ruling Africa is part of the reason Africa is plagued with extreme poverty. The powers that be use Spiritual laws to hold Africa down and as long as politicians are part of these powers, Africa will remain where it is. I don't expect you to understand a single thing of what I'm saying. So, upgrade your knowledge in how the world really works in the Spirit realm in conjunction with African leaders. Don't joke with the Spirit realm for it controls the physical.

NoToPile:


But first one has to have the understanding of patterns, foundations and how the spiritual controls the physical, how your bloodline can affect you which obviously lots of chirstains don't even understand.

Stevenbright:


If you gat the story, the girl didn't tell him her father is occultic (ROF) but that he is traditional. So, she was being crafty if not deceitful with the hope of manipulating the guy to submission by saying "I told you before".

Being traditional doesn't mean you are an herbalist or an occult. Most traditionalist simply believe there is God but don't believe in accessing Him through any of the well known imported religions but through ancestral worshipping where they mostly use local drinks, colanut etc to do their thing.

NairalandGOAT1:


You Sabi me?

Talk make I know abeg

I don go modify the post .

Thanks

Stevenbright:


If you gat the story, the girl didn't tell him her father is occultic (ROF) but that he is traditional. So, she was being crafty if not deceitful with the hope of manipulating the guy to submission by saying "I told you before".

Being traditional doesn't mean you are an herbalist or an occult. Most traditionalist simply believe there is God but don't believe in accessing Him through any of the well known imported religions but through ancestral worshipping where they mostly use local drinks, colanut etc to do their thing.

NairalandGOAT1:


If everything you said up there is true about your "friend"... Coz it might be you anyways..

Back to the matter..


What if after marrying the girl you find out that her father has sacrificed all the children in her womb to his god(s)?

Remember, the spiritual will always control the physical and note that it doesn't matter if you believe this statement or not!

Lastly, what's the full meaning of ROF?
Or are you already scared that the cult members might hurt you if you reveal their name since they can even see you opening a thread about them on Nairaland?

sylve11:
The comments I have read so far. Lol . Which kind people dey this nairaland?

sylve11:


Brother, I have never seen stupid peeps in this forum not until I read the comments above.

Goodness me!

kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

omoiseselagba:



Christianity has destroyed this one.

Omase oh.

Bobbynobobby:


Lol no but I figured anyone who knows you can easily...considering the details