I noticed something circular which is, that most wealthy men in their 40s are cheats because when they were young and broke, most young women rejected them. At 24 no women look their way. Instead, they were dating older rich men.

Now, at 40 he is much more financially capable but love and monogamy no longer matter to him because he has a skewed and commercialized view of relationships to experience as a young and broke man.

He goes after every woman he can afford and sadly money fetches a lot of women. He never stays faithful because it's a reckless mission, of retaliation for him. The woman gets heartbroken, and they cry and lament but it's just a normal circle societally. The richer a typical man gets the wilder he becomes and the tougher it is to afford romantic faithfulness, I'm not trying to epitomize poverty, but wealthy men don't care about fidelity. It is such a vicious circle for both men and women. The older men will never believe that any woman will truly love him. The younger woman is on a daunting journey of finding rich and faithful love, but most men don't think that way.
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Quite franking, some women got jilted by men they supported in their little days, but the truth is most men stay loyal to women who contributed to their wealth. Don't argue it with me I am a man. A rich man will see you ( broke woman) as another item he can purchase, a man you contributed to his success sees value. Marrying a man you have no significant impact on his success puts you at a disadvantage. It will be a risk if you are searching for true love in this pool.
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The balance is to avoid the extreme, poor man that you need to spoon-feed. ❌
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A very wealthy man that you have nothing to add to than spend his money. ❌

The ability to build and nurture relationships for both collaboration and partnership must be epitomized from the foundation.

KB.

I don't usually do this...but I will comment on this post as an exception.

I support your thread of thought and I subscribe to it.
I identify as a handsome middle age and comfortable young man. because of my looks and maybe family background, I never lacked female attention. So quite early with or without money, I learnt and played the game so well being the last of 3 male siblings.

However, the woman I married, is the only woman who could stay with me in my worst days...she's the only one I could be broke and vulnerable with and I had those days years ago.

Today by God's grace, I'm quite okay and getting better...I will never take another woman serious as long as I have my wife...I'm faithful, disciplined and committed to her simply because, she stayed with me and built me up back when I lost everything...she nutured me back from the pit when it was so easy for her to leave.

There was no guarantees, her love and belief were all I needed to keep going atimes and regardless how much I make tomorrow, I will not trade all that sacrifice for anything any female anywhere has to offer.
Believe me...it's been years, but I still credit her account just to say thank you for the staying with me through the dark days.

fykes:
I don't usually do this...but I will comment on this post as an exception.

I support your thread of thought and I subscribe to it.
I identify as a handsome middle-aged and comfortable young man. because of my looks and maybe family background, I never lacked female attention. So quite early with or without money, I learnt and played the game so well being the last of 3 male siblings.

However, the woman I married, is the only woman who could stay with me in my worst days...she's the only one I could be broke and vulnerable with and I had those days years ago.

Today by God's grace, I'm quite okay and getting better...I will never take another woman seriously as long as I have my wife...I'm faithful, disciplined, and committed to her simply because, she stayed with me and built me up back when I lost everything...she nurtured me back from the pit when it was so easy for her to leave.

There were no guarantees, her love and belief were all I needed to keep going times and regardless of how much I make tomorrow, I will not trade all that sacrifice for anything any female anywhere has to offer.
Believe me...it's been years, but I still credit her account just to say thank you for staying with me through the dark days.

To know you still credit her account is a wow 😮 from my end, I termed you favored to have such a strong and supportive right from your little days. Can such an understanding of women be found in this new day? I bet yeah and no.

Yeah, because we still have few percentage of them, and no because a lot of these ladies carry no value and support, they just want their material thirst to be quenched.