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Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Mar 20, 2012
Met this cutie recently at a shopping mall, gave her ride home, etc, etc, we checked ourselves out & it seems we kinda attracted romantically, mostly she, me too I am anyway.

We've been going out so often since the last few days we met, and finally, I took her to my place for the 3rd time now, and she is falling and I am equally falling before this incident.

The incident: we ended up cuddling and fplaying, & when both of us were down & supposed to bonk, she said HOLD! THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN. Lo & behold, I confirmed, and she has some portions of the hymen still in place. I told her blatantly that I don't like virgins for so many reasons best known to me, that if we must move on, I must punture d nylon, she said no, that thats y she parted with her ex, that they only romance, fplay, cuddle, lick n suck...n dnt bonk, & that same will be applicable to ours now. At this point, i got shocked, cos she equally wanted me to do same, which included kissing, necking, petting, erotic romancing, etc. She on her part, gave me Mouth Gig, romanced me so expertly I almost pumped out hot fluid from my borehole, but she said a big NO to penetration, saying that SHE promised her God that SHE will only be devirgined by her husband on her wedding night, I laughed, and I am still laughing....

My question is this: pls my fellows, is this girl a VIRGIN? when she romances, licks, sucks, kisses, etc? If so, is this the kind of virgins we have nowadays? If thats the truth, tufiakwa!!! aru!! This one no be for God Almighty sake o, na for Husband Mighty sake....what do you guys think?
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by ArQueBusieR(m): 1:37pm On Mar 20, 2012
lol. . .Virgin indeed.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by SweetSex(m): 1:38pm On Mar 20, 2012
Wats ur problem bro? U said U have confirm d hymen 2 be intact. Na virginity 4 U be dat one. But pls be careful dere is a particular chemical dat if U pour it in hot water & sit on top d bucket of d water like 15-20 mins will make an ashawo punany be intact like a new born girl. Beware.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 20, 2012
Lolz...honestly, this cute keep telling me that SHE IS proud to be a VIRGIN! I am still confused as regards to her understanding of virginity, and same goes with almost all the virgins we have today, half-virgins or what my doc friend call technical virgins! Lolz
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by jmoore(m): 2:29pm On Mar 20, 2012
so you have dated all virgins in Nigeria to reach to such a conclusion?
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by ronkebp(f): 2:40pm On Mar 20, 2012
jobfront: Lolz...honestly, this cute keep telling me that SHE IS proud to be a VIRGIN! I am still confused as regards to her understanding of virginity, and same goes with almost all the virgins we have today, half-virgins or what my doc friend call technical virgins! Lolz

What else do you call a virgin?? although there are so many things you can liken virginity too, in this case (penetrative sex) she is still a virgin to that one, but she is not a virgin to what the idea, feelings and emotions of what sex should be and what it is, (she is not a novice in the sex world).
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by obowunmi(m): 2:48pm On Mar 20, 2012
She's NOT a virgin because she gives MouthAction. There are so-called virgins that have anal sex and still claim to be virgins.... Lies!! I can assure her that with the way she's going, she wouldn't be a varginal virgin for looong. Not just that, she is STILL at risk for STDs/HPD/STI/Herpes because she is engaged in various forms of sexual activity...... Goodluck to her, she beTter go and marry.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 20, 2012
ronkebp wrote: What else do you call a virgin?? although there are so many things you can liken virginity too, in this case (penetrative sex) she is still a virgin to that one, but she is not a virgin to what the idea, feelings and emotions of what sex should be and what it is, (she is not a novice in the sex world). what I'm curious about is this: this young lady thinks she is keeping her virginity because she promised God that she will remain a virgin till her wedding night. So I am asking, is this kind of keeping virginity (while kissing, cuddling, romancing, phone-sexing, etc) the kind God wants and the kind that will win the lady blessings or curse? Is this what virginity is all about nowadays? just preserving the hymen to fool men, while engaging in all forms of sex activities? which is actually what 99% the so-called today's virgins do, is this what being a virgin is? if that's it, our ladies of today are just fooling and deceiving themselves, they should better wake up!
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by r231(m): 2:59pm On Mar 20, 2012
Virgin ko. . . . pakurumo ni grin
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by ronkebp(f): 3:12pm On Mar 20, 2012
jobfront: ronkebp wrote: What else do you call a virgin?? although there are so many things you can liken virginity too, in this case (penetrative sex) she is still a virgin to that one, but she is not a virgin to what the idea, feelings and emotions of what sex should be and what it is, (she is not a novice in the sex world). what I'm curious about is this: this young lady thinks she is keeping her virginity because she promised God that she will remain a virgin till her wedding night. So I am asking, is this kind of keeping virginity (while kissing, cuddling, romancing, phone-sexing, etc) the kind God wants and the kind that will win the lady blessings or curse? Is this what virginity is all about nowadays? just preserving the hymen to fool men, while engaging in all forms of sex activities? which is actually what 99% the so-called today's virgins do, is this what being a virgin is? if that's it, our ladies of today are just fooling and deceiving themselves, they should better wake up!

She does not know why she is keeping her virginity( and that is not having penetrative sex), it is definitely not because of God, but she will understand it later.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Lexusgs430: 3:15pm On Mar 20, 2012
Pass her details through let me go for inspection of the sacred area. I will get back to you with proof!!!
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by stepo707: 3:30pm On Mar 20, 2012
Lexusgs430: Pass her details through let me go for inspection of the sacred area. I will get back to you with proof!!!
Bad guy
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 20, 2012
Lolz...really bad guy...lol...her name is: ah, I don forget am o, pls someone should remind me that girl name again o, ehen, e be like say na her name be that. This is so rampant amongst virgins of today, cos this is my second experience on this, and I can still remember vividly, my friends in school have encountered them too....pls they need re-orientation on what being a virgin means and entails, if actually they want to do the one that will win them God's love and approval and not the one that will help them to deceive some naive guys to hurry to propose for marriage.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Excelboi(m): 3:43pm On Mar 20, 2012
Do you need to write all this fiction just to pass ur msg across? anyway, walai talai, she dey deceive herself....
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Daresh(f): 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2012
shocked Na wah o, even virgins get comma these days shocked.... She no dey fear say pesin go rape am?
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Fourcade(m): 5:14pm On Mar 20, 2012
she does all these things and says she's a V ? undecided
Ermm..Mr. Inspector,Did you inspect the back too? undecided

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Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 20, 2012
You are in the best position to ascertain if she is a virgin or not and not the Nairalanders you are asking. smiley
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by JojoArmani(m): 8:02pm On Mar 20, 2012
Lol. . . . My man, no mind dis type of virgins we have dis days. I ve an experience of such virgins, i call dem experience drivers without car. Some of dem knows sex more dan de disvirgin.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Exponental(m): 8:08pm On Mar 20, 2012
We didnt see wat u saw or felt like u felt, hw we go take know her status.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Hardunnii(f): 8:17pm On Mar 20, 2012
Op whats your problem with virgins Do you think everyone will be a dog like you
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 20, 2012
@Hardunnii sweety, is guilty conscience flogging you?? Hahahaha....hun, pls what worth doing, is worth doing well....no room for experienced drivers without car like my good friend said here...e be like say you dey turn car steering too when you refused to pay for a car, and you still claim you don't drive....*winks*
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Hardunnii(f): 10:54pm On Mar 20, 2012
jobfront: @Hardunnii sweety, is guilty conscience flogging you?? Hahahaha....hun, pls what worth doing, is worth doing well....no room for experienced drivers without car like my good friend said here...e be like say you dey turn car steering too when you refused to pay for a car, and you still claim you don't drive....*winks*
Guilty kini?? Abeg park well, u tink am th€ kind off useless girls yöu go oüt wíth??
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by blackolove(m): 11:09pm On Mar 20, 2012
bros ur so funny i most be honest.but on my own opinion,she is a virgin if am 2 gv d final say.u see if a girl truly loves u,she'l do anything except killing herslf 2 make u happy.d kisses,sucks n d oda fplay stuff is 2 keep u close,so dt u dnt thnk she's takin u 4 a ride.am nt a girl bt some cn use it 2 ride u cos maybe u hv d cash or she c say u be fn boy.u knw girls?so if u realy wnt 2 go steady wt her,manage n look 4 anoda 2 drop d things on later u two cn stl marry.i was in ds two.my first love,bt 2day she nt a virgin n she's nt married too.be careful
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by InkedNerd(f): 6:22am On Mar 21, 2012
@OP: Frustrating as it may be, the simplicity of your question belies the complex definition of the term "virgin." To some, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sëxual intercourse [that is, pënis-to-vägina intercourse]. To others, a virgin is a person who has not engaged in any intimate acts, including deep kissing, gënital touching, and oräl, väginal, or änal sex. Still others may allow certain intimacies, like kissing and touching below the belt, while excluding other sex acts. Some people believe they are a virgin until they have sëx with someone of the opposite sex, while many believe that people who exclusively have same-sex partners can and do lose their virginity. Finally, some believe that people who have been sexually assaulted, but have not had consensual sex, are still virgins.

Why the variation? Definitions of virginity are often deeply personal and stem from religious, cultural, historical, and family influences that emphasize different values. Some people want to remain a virgin for religious or cultural reasons, some relate the concept of purity to being a virgin, others simply don't want to have sëx. As you probably are aware, the idea of virginity is an old one. People in ancient Greece and Rome used the term virgin to refer to a woman [or a goddess] who was autonomous, or on her own, not owned by any man. It was only later that it came to apply solely to sexuäl virginity. When the meaning changed, the implication was that remaining a virgin until marriage guaranteed that a woman would uphold a family's honor by passing from father to husband "unspoiled." Because at that point there was no dependable birth control, it also made it more likely that babies would be born to married couples.

In terms of väginal penetration, the girl is a virgin but as a whole she appears to be quite sexually experienced. Having väginal penetration isn't the only manner that a girl can lose her virginity. When I was in junior high school, I used to hear girls and guys ask one another whether or not they were virgins in their mouth. The fact that they'd reference their mouths specifically shows that they understood that there were other methods of being sexually intimate with someone, various ways to lose their virginity, and various forms of sex that have yet to be explored, especially when the individual hasn't tried something of a particular nature. As a whole, you are right about her holding onto her virginity for her future husband rather than God because if her reasons who holding onto her virginity were as genuine as she claimed it was, she wouldn't engage in sex of any form. Another reason she may be using this bullshit virgin excuse could be because of the cultural gratification she may gain from it. If she says she's a virgin, she most likely is saying it because she knows we live in an African society that glorifies a woman's virginity.

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Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 8:35am On Mar 21, 2012
@Inked Nerd, you are not only good but u are also a a sweet genius. u make not only sense but brain. I wish some unwise kids who parade their naively sense here, reads your wise, educated comment. pls keep educating them, thumbs up!

@blackolove, tnkx...will take ur advice. & of course i know she is tripping for the little things she is seeing, of course i know, but kinda like her shaa cos she has not shown any sign of diamond digging or interest in whatever besides building a workable relationship with future, which really got me skeptical and also interested in her more than several others.

Meanwhile, she calls, text & do more than i am doing, which is a big plus to her. like her for sure, but want to punture that nylon.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by InkedNerd(f): 8:52am On Mar 21, 2012
jobfront: @Inked Nerd, you are not only good but u are also a a sweet genius. u make not only sense but brain. I wish some unwise kids who parade their naively sense here, reads your wise, educated comment. pls keep educating them, thumbs up!

@blackolove, tnkx...will take ur advice. & of course i know she is tripping for the little things she is seeing, of course i know, but kinda like her shaa cos she has not shown any sign of diamond digging or interest in whatever besides building a workable relationship with future, which really got me skeptical and also interested in her more than several others.

Meanwhile, she calls, text & do more than i am doing, which is a big plus to her. like her for sure, but want to punture that nylon.

Don't try to pressure her into sex. It's quite obvious that she is both confused and in denial. Just leave her and find someone else who you feel would be more sexually compatible to the manner that you'd like to engage in sex. Good luck!

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Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Hardunnii(f): 8:56am On Mar 21, 2012
Op, she said shes not interested in sex, go and look for your type

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Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by itiswell1(m): 9:04am On Mar 21, 2012
Believe me, she is a virgin though not a saint.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 21, 2012
@Inked Nerd, honestly, it seems I like her seriously, she makes sense just that I don't like virgins cos of so many reasons including how they take it when actually they are not true virgins but technical virgins. A TRUE VIRGIN KNOWS NOTHING LIKE SEXUAL PLEASURE, HAVEN'T ENGAGED IN ANY VIZ. KISSING, PETTING, SUCKING, LICKING, FPLAYING, ETC. SHE IS PURE IN HEART, SHE DOESN'T KNOW IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEXUAL PLEASURE. Thats the kind God approves and wants if its for God, not the kind today ladies practice. Tnkx once again, but won't let go...Lolz...we kinda attracted to me, and I am too. We just spoke now, she is on an official trip outside state, hope things works out fine when she is back again. tnx I learnt something at least.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 21, 2012
Hardunnii: Op, she said shes not interested in sex, go and look for your type

Holy virgin Mary Hardunni. Kilode? Wetin be ur own sef? y are u beefing d fine boi. Jst like sweetsex said earlier that sum women actually sit on hotwater to make their borehole tight. One ashe girl told me that dey actually put ROBB in d hot water and sit over it for like 30mins. She said it wud shrink d pus.si and remove d dirts in it. Then she bcomes brown new again. Abeg Op no go enter one chance o
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by drnoel: 1:35pm On Mar 21, 2012
jobfront: Met this cutie recently at a shopping mall, gave her ride home, etc, etc, we checked ourselves out & it seems we kinda attracted romantically, mostly she, me too I am anyway.

We've been going out so often since the last few days we met, and finally, I took her to my place for the 3rd time now, and she is falling and I am equally falling before this incident.

The incident: we ended up cuddling and fplaying, & when both of us were down & supposed to bonk, she said HOLD! THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN. Lo & behold, I confirmed, and she has some portions of the hymen still in place. I told her blatantly that I don't like virgins for so many reasons best known to me, that if we must move on, I must punture d nylon, she said no, that thats y she parted with her ex, that they only romance, fplay, cuddle, lick n suck...n dnt bonk, & that same will be applicable to ours now. At this point, i got shocked, cos she equally wanted me to do same, which included kissing, necking, petting, erotic romancing, etc. She on her part, gave me Mouth Gig, romanced me so expertly I almost pumped out hot fluid from my borehole, but she said a big NO to penetration, saying that SHE promised her God that SHE will only be devirgined by her husband on her wedding night, I laughed, and I am still laughing....

My question is this: pls my fellows, is this girl a VIRGIN? when she romances, licks, sucks, kisses, etc? If so, is this the kind of virgins we have nowadays? If thats the truth, tufiakwa!!! aru!! This one no be for God Almighty sake o, na for Husband Mighty sake....what do you guys think?

see WACE question. did u not comfirm wit ur hands and eyes, why are u still asking us.
Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by drnoel: 1:36pm On Mar 21, 2012
jobfront: Met this cutie recently at a shopping mall, gave her ride home, etc, etc, we checked ourselves out & it seems we kinda attracted romantically, mostly she, me too I am anyway.

We've been going out so often since the last few days we met, and finally, I took her to my place for the 3rd time now, and she is falling and I am equally falling before this incident.

The incident: we ended up cuddling and fplaying, & when both of us were down & supposed to bonk, she said HOLD! THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN. Lo & behold, I confirmed, and she has some portions of the hymen still in place. I told her blatantly that I don't like virgins for so many reasons best known to me, that if we must move on, I must punture d nylon, she said no, that thats y she parted with her ex, that they only romance, fplay, cuddle, lick n suck...n dnt bonk, & that same will be applicable to ours now. At this point, i got shocked, cos she equally wanted me to do same, which included kissing, necking, petting, erotic romancing, etc. She on her part, gave me Mouth Gig, romanced me so expertly I almost pumped out hot fluid from my borehole, but she said a big NO to penetration, saying that SHE promised her God that SHE will only be devirgined by her husband on her wedding night, I laughed, and I am still laughing....

My question is this: pls my fellows, is this girl a VIRGIN? when she romances, licks, sucks, kisses, etc? If so, is this the kind of virgins we have nowadays? If thats the truth, tufiakwa!!! aru!! This one no be for God Almighty sake o, na for Husband Mighty sake....what do you guys think?

see WACE question. did u not confirm wit ur hands and eyes, why are u still asking us.

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