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He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 3:44pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
A friend studying in UK was matched with a Nigerian lady that has been in the United states for a long time. He has been struggling without residency or a job with sponsorship in UK. He confided in me that the lady they connected him with is not his spec, also her age is the bigger factor discouraging him. Should he damn the consequences, settle with this lady and build love afterwards or just go on with his life and see what fate have in store for him (remember, that’s giving in certainty for uncertainty)…… My people, meat don land abeg, make una help me put mouth for this matter |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by yomi007k(m): 3:47pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tell him to get biro and paper to write out the pros and cons, then he can take a decision. We are not him and won't live with or without the consequences. Cheers. 14 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by akube34: 3:48pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke:oga na u 8 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Romanoff(f): 3:52pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
It will end in tears. 15 years age gap, that's his mum. 10 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by FirstCounsel(m): 3:56pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Romanoff: |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 3:56pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Romanoff: Omo, I think am too…Told him he is literally sacrificing his fate for his unborn kids. Well, for me I don’t think I will |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:59pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
If he doesnt want he should give her to me. I can even marry a 100 year old american lady sef but only american. Cant do that for any other nationality 8 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Brunosamel(m): 4:00pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Nope A man should have 3Fs for contemplating or engaging in amarriage Fossil ; -|e older Fortune - Be wealthier Fitness - Be fitter 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:01pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Can’t do that for Canadian, Australia, British citizen?? |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:05pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke: Canada probably since it's easy to move from Canada to the usa. Australia and Britain no way. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:13pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: When it comes to marriage, I can’t sacrifice to that length. Except I have a thorough thought over it, and I’m very convinced with my actions, regardless the person nationality. How many years person go live for this small world sef 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:15pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Brunosamel: I seem to agree, though not always with same exactness |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:17pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke: Anything for my own benefit and advancement if marriage will bring it absolutely no problem. Marrying an American citizen you get green card immediately people that go to Harvard and MIT green card isn't sure for them. They have to jump H1B loops and all. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:27pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: What about the marriage, love, compatibility, self esteem, perception, self worth…..na naija woman for US ooo. So she knows you settled with her for the paper and she will put some boundaries or people will advise her to. She dey enter naija occasionally, she get naija friends wey dem dey communicate…so no be abroad born wey no know what’s up If na pure whittey, even me no go mind as far as that mutuality dey between us 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Baronthecelebri: 4:27pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
He should go ahead, they should sign alimony. France president wife is older than him |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by thorpido(m): 4:28pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Is it just the green card he wants or marriage? He shouldn't deceive himself,he will eventually seek another woman after settling with this particular one. |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:36pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Baronthecelebri: Why alimony??….he is a student remember |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Tumbuleke: 4:38pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
thorpido: It’s a match make…and she was introduced to him. He is just confused considering her not his spec and age factor. |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by thorpido(m): 4:45pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke:He should leave her.Why deceive himself? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by LONGPREEK(m): 4:49pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke:guy go an hustle so that evening newspapers and old oloshos will not be using your as their retirement plan 7 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
LONGPREEK: Guy be realistic, who is the charity case in this situation? 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke: Anyway, at this moment, fate has nothing to offer to him except the lady, he should use his opportunity well. It is obvious, that the woman wants a partner and it is obvious the man wants a proper life. They can bought work things out, if they are willing |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Solocoin: 6:25pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
He should do what he will regret in the future. Someone once connected me to a lady in UK who's a medical Doctor and the age gap was 10yrs and I declined it. I can't do anything because big money. |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 6:29pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Romanoff:😭😭😭 |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 6:31pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Solocoin: How una dey get this connect 😩 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by toujurs: 6:33pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
That woman would be very toxic and bitter with bad manners, he can ask her for help, marrying a 45 years old woman. Godforbid. He can never be happy. |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by tiptoe1: 6:36pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
I just they picture as the woman go look in the next 5years and my guy go they him 30's looking good like a fine wine. Chai 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by frozen70(f): 7:07pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke: He is going in for her because of her foreign status not for love sake So let him decide what he wants 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by seanwilliam(m): 8:17pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Tumbuleke:why be say na all of your friends Dey get problem ? I know your story is not real Anyway A lady of 45 is a no no for relationship except she’ll be my sugar mummy with benefit attached |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by grandstar(m): 1:56am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Tumbuleke He doesn't seem keen. Let him forget the whole thing. It's wrong to use and dump someone. The lady anyway isn't that innocent. What does she really expect from a man15 years younger? It's like a 20 year old mistress telling her potbelly sugar daddy of 60 that he very handsome? No be vawulence be Dat? 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by Brandiebird: 2:48am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Nigerian men will marry old grandmothers because they are white women without asking for out opinions and celebrate their wedding day online! 💅 But because it’s a Nigerian woman, we can not rest! Imagine a crook asking for advice on whether he should use another human being but it’s the innocent woman getting dragged❗️ 1 Like |
Re: He Is 30, She Is 45 But Got US Citizenship, Should He “settle Down” With Her ? by ednut1(m): 4:50am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Not worth it. There are many guys in USA looking for papers too why none of them gree for am You may think say you go get green card and the thing go turn to bondage 1 Like |
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