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Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by ogbe88(m): 11:51am On Feb 07, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:U talk too much 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by NEUDUDE: 12:03pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Dont worry they will look for the ugly good boys simps after they been ran through. Its the normal woman phase and its okay to them . God forbid you reject their kids they even expect you to pay bride price join after the first guy impregnated them without bride price lol Fear woman 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by NEUDUDE: 12:25pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Persephone1: Standards true! But what he is saying is women shouldnt follow feelings but rather logic when picking a date. When i was broke i had no business with women not because i didnt like them but because i was being logical. Women can look for good traits and apply logic when picking men. Its not rocket science. He doesnt necessarily have to be rich, he could have great goals and ambition and all he needs is your support. I thought they(women) were the smarter gender and can sense this things. It is very bad to be ran through and expect the next guy to deal with your baggage. I know i wouldnt, cant say for simps though. Also big dick is always a criteria for disaster . Learn to hold your horses* 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:44pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
NEUDUDE: Even if a simp might agree to marry the family might reject and make sure that such a marriage never holds. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by NEUDUDE: 12:44pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Samantha123: Well unemployed guys have the ability to knack. So now you know lol 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by NEUDUDE: 12:49pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Dude i think you never met a simp Their willpower when it comes to women is next to nothing lol 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:you even have time to reply the low IQ motivation speaker ,a person who couldn't comprehend the first 50 words of your sentences isn't worth a response. let me tell you what,truth is most women dont know why they do what they do they are aged stuck at 16,most of them don't pass that age psychologically, most of them have what i call a b!tch syndrome, a female dog often doesn't know what she wants,she craves for satisfaction anywhere when shes on heat and later suffers from trust issues to old age.most women are like b!tches they are confused actually. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by CaveAdullam: 1:05pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: "He has that handsome bad boy kind of look". 1. Such aforementioned characteristics are an evolutionary desire that satisfies women's need for protection and provision instinctively. It signifies: confidence, might, adventurousness, courage, and fearlessness. Handsomeness signifies good genes which are tantamount to having quality children. 2. It is expedient that men leverage these characteristics to upgrade their lives and become better individuals, however, deadbeat dads fall on this hill. Their failure can be borne out of procrastination, negligence, low energy, ignorance, socio-economic factors, environment, family background, etc. 3. Women's mistake is that they don't decipher if these signals match the supposed qualities they desire in men. Women are myopic. They don't have the patience to observe and analyze before making a sexual decision, hence, get entangled with the wrong men. It's an evolutionary instinct gone wrong in a modern science and technological age; in the wild, this mistake was minimal. Ditto for men, misconstruing beauty for values and character. 4. When women get engaged to this kind of man, they expect them to perform like good men/leaders, but they are unable or limited. They can't easily sequester themselves from these men because they believe that the man will become relevant in the future, so, they bear every domestic abuse even though the man deteriorates every day. + the women have invested in the relationship by birthing a child or becoming emotionally vulnerable and easily controlled. 5. It's bewildering that women have " nice men" around them but choose "bad boys" because the former doesn't signal evolutionary desires. Remember: women are not patient to observe and analyze, they flow with the waves of their emotions. 6. I have also observed that deadbeat dads and the girls that frolic around them belong to the same circle, community, or environment. High-class women will have lesser deals with deadbeat dads. This is the case of the quotidian in poor communities. Note: deadbeat dads or bad boys are lesser than the nice guys in the male population. 7. Average humans are under the influence of their emotions. They jump ship without thorough introspection considering both intended and unintended consequences. This results in a series of mistakes and regrets. 8. Women who have low parental protection are the victims of deadbeat guys. Guys without parental leadership and guidance become deadbeats or wayward. Nice guys lack proper masculine coaching, they don't know where balance exists on the scale, hence, are exploited for their "niceness". 9. This is an evolutionary game going on. To match it (correctly) with our contemporary world we must endeavor to learn and understand human nature. Doing so will enable us to work with our biological and evolutionary wiring. Thanks. 20 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by ifihearam: 1:55pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Persephone1: You girls on this platform see everything as a challenge between a man and a woman here, the young man asked a very good question because the girl in question knew he was jobless, she knew his mom still feeds him, she knew he is unambitious and uneducated yet she went ahead to marry and fell pregant, the question the young man asks is, why would a sane woman do that? Or better put can you marry such a man? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Johnholt909: 2:13pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Adaisback:LOL! You cracked me up! |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Arsenate(m): 5:44am On Feb 08, 2023 |
ifihearam:Somethings never change, lol 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Karlifate: 5:51pm On Feb 08, 2023 |
NEUDUDE: Stop trying to change the female nature. It's a battle you can never win. Channel the energy to better your life instead. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by NEUDUDE: 7:30pm On Feb 08, 2023 |
Karlifate: Oh my life is great haha. Change what lol. Na my 2 cents i just contribute on the matter biko. Nigerian girls are useless, no be me get that kind time 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Treassured: 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
There Is one around my Area too. I think he should be around 24years. No degree, No O' Level, No handwork. This one Impregnated two smallies on different occasions. The first smallie had two babies for him while the second smallie had one baby for him. I couldn't believe It when It happened. Sometimes I will pause for some minutes and Imagine how the future of those kids would look like. Damn!!! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:50pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
If men can fall in love with unemployed women, so as women. Nawa for your cousin oo |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by BRIMBRAM: 10:00pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
pocohantas: Off point. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by BRIMBRAM: 10:01pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Persephone1: Off point. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by 77star: 9:38pm On May 27, 2023 |
Raalsalghul:This is a very deep quote that you just type like play, like play. |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by obinna58(m): 10:19pm On May 27, 2023 |
Adaisback:Redpillers are only for lucky women, competent men are very rare |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by DavieG17: 4:23pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Kobojunkie: 4:23pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:You saw all that but you didn't call the cops. Rather you came here to ask us this silly question? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by finallybusy: 4:25pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Okay. I'm coming. Wait for me. Just wait. |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by dragunov: 4:26pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
MycroftHolmes:Stockholm syndrome as how? Was the woman kidnapped by him? Was it not consensual? So which one is Stockholm syndrome again? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by millionboi2: 4:29pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Persephone1:I support you on this,I think op is talking too much,he should mind his business 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
MycroftHolmes: Yeah.....that's a great reason to ruin one's life. |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by CapitalBank: 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Actually a lot of women will drop you for lack of the aforementioned even if you fine like angel. I say this because previously because I don’t show myself, women have turned me down cos they thought I am broke. I even have one now who is trying to work her way back into my life after seeing a reverse image from f what she thought. Not that I am ugly or not good looking ooo… I no just sabi present myself ni. This lady mentioned in this your thread no just get sense or open eyes. She is not wise 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by RedAlert08(m): 4:31pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Let me guess, na Yo.ru.ba. Very useless set of people. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Herbiodun09: 4:32pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Im happy for her and sad for him 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by UjuJoan2: 4:32pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Honestly I wonder for my gender too. I can never relate. I am too much in love with myself to even love a man who will treat me badly. Even if the fine face and bedmatics confuse me for a while, my eyes will clear after two or three incidents. I am wired that way and I wonder what is wrong with other women who are not. The poor child is unfortunate to be born into such life. Either they grow up to see it as a norm, or it makes them strong enough to demand better for themselves. We can only hope for the later. But I think the crux of this issue is that a lot of women and too scared of being alone. Society has taught us that without a man we are nothing. Most of us believe this lie, and so even with the greatest personal achievements we are willing to stay with a deadbeat man, thinking that somehow this validates us. If only they knew better. Na them dey rush us . . . and I’m not even joking about that. You just need to be able to make yourself into a woman that must be ‘rushed’. Self respect is gold!!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by donem: 4:32pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback:Look no further, Am All yours then, no somp greater than i in the whole wide world, lol 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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