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Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
I don’t know if it’s an advice I need or opinion I’m confused I’ve been dating this girl for some time now and we are planning to settle this year or the next She’s a good girl, a perfect girl infact she ticks all the boxes except one thing Whenever I have enough money and I give my girl money to buy beef turkey fish etc and make a good meal for us , she cooks trash that I can’t even force myself to eat it But whenever I’m broke and I gave her money to make maybe concoction rice or spaghetti or something, that’s when you’ll see the chef in her It’s always so sweet I’ll even be scraping the pot It’s weird that I enjoy my woman’s food more when I’m broke I don’t understand, I thought it should be the other way round Today which I Sunday I gave her money to buy goat meat and make vegetables and swallow I got disappointed as usual I’m just tired I don’t know what to do Rocktation dominique farano |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Nobody: 7:44pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
My own wahala here is why she chose to be doing wifely duties for you when you’ve not married her? Is she living with you already? 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 7:48pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: She spends most time at my place, we are planning to get married soon |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
aysuprano:That’s what you all keep saying, very soon it’ll be I’m planning on aborting my marriage plans for my fiancée due to so so reason. Well nobody is perfect, so overlook her weaknesses and do the right thing already. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Beebah321(f): 7:54pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
She no be better person be that |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Ballzproblemm: 7:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
is obvious she dey siphon the money you plan for sumptuous . solution:- @guve your mom or sister the money to do it for you or better still do it yourself. |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by virginprincess(f): 8:00pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Then continue to remain broke so you can be eating delicious meals 12 Likes |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Lamanii22(f): 8:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Lol…. You can help buy ordering good soups outside when there is money then allow her cook when you’re broke…. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by virginprincess(f): 8:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
aysuprano:That is not an excuse for her to be doing wifely duties. Honesty girls need to wiseing up,why would you be cooking for someone you aren't married to,an there see finish take dey start. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Benekkk: 8:22pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
virginprincess:you’ve said it all! |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 8:29pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
virginprincess: So I’ll have to wait to taste the food of the woman I’m getting married to until we are married ? Lol , these people sha 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 8:30pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Lamanii22: That’s not a permanent solution, I’m thinking I should send her to catering school or something |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Bluezy13(m): 8:56pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
She grew up learning how to prepare low budget food and she makes the best out of it. When extravagant, it becomes a little complicated to her and she will want to please you thereby missing out something. Let her keep cooking with time she will adjust. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by kelspinall(m): 8:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
lols,then give her moni whenever you are broke..lol, see as two yeye gals rush am unto business wey no concern dem.... wetin concern una with the girl cooking for him...una dey ment |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 9:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Bluezy13: Alright boss Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by aysuprano(m): 9:05pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
kelspinall: I tire for their matter See as dem just carry the thing for head 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by kelspinall(m): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
aysuprano:nonsense gals, tomorrow the complain that they're being called names |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by lecowas: 5:07am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Perhaps she's used to cooking food with limited resources 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Autobot05: 5:14am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Cook for her and tell her you're a better cook ( in a funny way sha ) ... she'll see it as a competition between you both . If you dunno how to cook because you're a guy .. then OK |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by labake1(f): 5:15am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Eleyi tu tu Different kinds of relationship wahala |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Kobicove(m): 6:05am On Mar 27, 2023 |
labake1: The matter sef tire me |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Tokskob2008: 6:23am On Mar 27, 2023 |
aysuprano:You dey mind dem I wonder when cooking is now basically a wifely duty. Same people will tell you how you must provide whatever she ask you for cos you are dating her and will forget to add the "husband duty" tag... 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by superCleanworks(m): 7:38am On Mar 27, 2023 |
aysuprano: maybe you scrape the pot out of hunger when you are broke but your tastebuds return to factory setting when money comes back. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by superCleanworks(m): 7:42am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Lamanii22:how does this help her? how? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by superCleanworks(m): 7:46am On Mar 27, 2023 |
virginprincess: yes i support you. please tell this to all your friends, even the ones that can't boil water. No cooking till marriage. Don't do anything at all for him till marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Fahvvy: 11:03am On Mar 27, 2023 |
I've always said that "Women (in general) are INCAPABLE of giving good relationship advice and it is stupidity of the highest order for a man to take relationship advice from a woman ... The comments of the females above is proof of that ... IyaebeTheGreat: So he should overlook something that bothers him so much so that he came to a public platform to talk about it ba? ... And by "do the right thing", I'm guessing you mean "marry her" ... OP if you do this, you'll be faced with two options, either you stay broke and eat good meals or you be rich and risk food poisoning ... virginprincess: Really?! ... Take this advice OP and that girl will dump you like used tissue before you can say jack ... Lamanii22: I'm honestly wondering how this advice will solve the problem ... OP... Observe that not one of those females said anything about your girlfriend learning how to cook, NOT ONE! ... In their minds, "it's not her fault" and you should be "grateful" that she's even doing "wifely duties" for a mere boyfriend ... For your own your good, ignore those females above ... My advice ... Sit your girlfriend down and tell her EXACTLY what you've told us, don't sugarcoat nada and don't be afraid to have this conversation with her ... I mean, is there even a need to get married to someone who you're not free (comfortable) having uncomfortable conversations with? ... And then from her response, decide whether you want to push through with the marriage plan or you want to show down and find a solution to things ... I know that no one is perfect, but everyone should know the limit of things that they can swallow (no pun intended )... Some females can tolerate cheating as long as the man provides for them ... Some men can tolerate anything as long as the woman has a good shape ... So if this isn't something you can deal with long term without making a fuss out of it, the call it off asap and don't allow ANYONE blackmail you into a life long sentence of bad cooking... |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by ConfidentialDoc: 11:07am On Mar 27, 2023 |
Don't get married. Not now. This advice above is priceless. |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Lamanii22(f): 1:30pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
aysuprano: Great idea… |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by rainmaker12(m): 1:34pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Cooking food is not wifey duty. If na to ask man wey never marry for money, e dey sweet for mouth. |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Lamanii22(f): 1:36pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
Fahvvy: OP said she cooks better when there isn’t money, from his post the girl ticks all his boxes except from the fact that her soup isn’t sweet even when there’s fish and meat so should he break up with her cause of that? Stop talking from a point of hate on women life is not that hard…. |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by rainmaker12(m): 1:41pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
virginprincess: Men should wise up, why will you be giving woman you aren't married to money. Nonsense, watin dey for cooking. You come spend weekend for man house, make the man cook food for you because em never marry you..lol...coming from person wey don cook food for man before.........Nothing bad for man to cook, but don't bring that Nonsense theory 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Rokiat(f): 1:44pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
And 10 years from now she will be asking “why hasn’t him married me yet?” Let her continue being a good girl good on her lmao. |
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