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Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Pauliaette(m): 5:46pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Hmmmm I don't care about lazy guys, that girl be wayward anyway I see no reason why a girl with a right sense of humour can date a lazy bro just because of fantasies or Love. She should face it naha |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by mamaafrik(m): 5:53pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
He is a full house husband,hahaha ha,I never see anyone complaining about full housewife |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by diogo23: 5:55pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:Big diick |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Exceed15: 5:56pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Na so una dey do cho cho cho for person matter. Nobody will tell you the sacrifice the guy is making too. Busy body |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by fortunechy(m): 5:58pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
That's their own cup of tea |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by AntiMarxist: 6:09pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Because they have fish brains. |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Nahunger(m): 6:13pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Dshocker: Wahala 😅😅😂😂😂 |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Newborn27(f): 6:18pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
pocohantas: Reading through your comment always give me joy on Nairaland. It's been a while big Sis... how's life at your end ma? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by SuccessfulRichi: 6:18pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Una dey repeat last year post abi |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Zealag(m): 6:25pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Wealthy men and business minded men has no time to please a woman or make her reach climax in bed. But you see those poor,lazy, jobless and fine boys knows there way around a woman's body.They have PhD in making her feel like a woman in bed 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Mountbatten: 6:30pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback: Mtttcchhheeeeeeeeeewww!!! |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Mountbatten: 6:42pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Think we don't have enough context to judge either party as this is a gross generalisation. After going through the thread, you live in the ghetto which answers your question. Young lady get exposed to s#x at a young age, gets pregnant and sticks with the guy who is usually much older. Parents force both of them into unplanned marriage, which leaves both of them no choice. Guy is utterly useless to himself, family and society and does nothing all day than drinking, gambling, stealing, drugs and sleeping around like a rabid dog. They grow to resent each other and the guy resorts to physically, mentally and emotionally abusing his “wife” who's also had her life ruined. She's probably too old now to go back to high school or diligent to go to uni, as she has a kid to cater for so the cycle continues. Very unfortunate situation. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by DiskJokeyManic: 6:44pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Cn u assist me with what to eat dis evening sir? I will appreciate anytin sir |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Basiljoe: 6:44pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback:Let me see your picture, if you have big nyash, i'll consider marrying you. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Ten06(m): 6:48pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Before the lady met this guy she must have come across several good guys but decided to settle for this deadbeat. When they are young they do not take advise. They always think that they know more than everyone until this |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by achimendy(m): 6:49pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: You can't run away from the consequences of your actions. Apostle selman ones said that if your reason for getting married is physical then you're in trouble. This is one of the reasons why many marriages fail, they ignore important things like character, passion, hardwork, understanding, vision and Good-fearing, and went for tall, handsome, figure 8, cat eyes, big breast and big penis. And after six months you'll see fight, quarrel and later divorce. Choose your partner wisely. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by achimendy(m): 6:52pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback: Why do you want only simp men, are you looking for a man to enslave?? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by AfDapone: 6:59pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback: Where Ada go before? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by benazir(m): 7:00pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Am a lady found him wordly as husband...lol. Wao things are really happening |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Joe4real1988(m): 7:01pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback:Whether Simp or not, not all men are trained/brought up to lay their hands on a woman. Maybe i will like to see this beauty u emphasized on. |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Newborn27(f): 7:05pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
SuccessfulRichi: Not the post but the Original Poster This is one thing I know about regular nairalanders...we love to do a background check on people creating a new thread Secondly,....when you're suffering... people wouldn't see you until you succeed... success attracts attention....which implies to the OP's success thread on finally getting out of the shores of Nigeria to Chile after 3solid years of persistence People came to check his profile but got distracted by this interesting thread. I can only Imagine the number of mentions he'd get this weekend. Everybody wants to hear your success stories when you finally make it. I'm not giving up too....I know I'd someday...post my success story on here despite all the hurdles of life IJN. Congratulations OP *tensazangetsu20* on your success.... your perseverance paid off...study hard and make your father's land proud. We'd be rooting for you from here. Kudos to you bro! |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by vicadex07(m): 7:23pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Persephone1: You are blessed 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Mamijoh(f): 7:31pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Dshocker: |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Scamburster(m): 7:55pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback:DM 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by PureFace1(m): 8:00pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Adaisback: Redpill doesn't mean beating a girl lol it just mean dropping girls that won't treat men well with respect or girls that are turning troublesome for men. It actually is the so call simps that actually do a back flip and start beating their women or insecure men that are using redpill, abuse and toxic behaviors to hide their insecurity,low self esteem and bad characters. Some simps are wolf in sheep clothing they won't show you their true colour until they win you over, pray not to meet guys like them. The guy the OP is talking about might once be a very nice and sweet guy to that girl until he impregnated her and she moved in with him. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by tiswell(m): 8:05pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:why can't the woman go to work or at least help in providing some stuffs,or is she also without any handiwork and grade too? Most times,poverty can turn men with nice hearts into mon.sters. Money makes a man! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by sisisioge: 8:06pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Hmmmm....you think if he had let on that he was deadbeat she would have married him? Deadbeats have a way of camouflaging their true selves...believe me I know for sure! |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Setursight(m): 8:21pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Well, you could be right. No serious responsible guy will ask a jobless, uneducated, unskilled,unambitious, broke lady out. So she settled for her type. For me, I wouldn't blme the guy alone, the lady too is no different Sixfeetbelle: |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by nextstep(m): 8:30pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
My question is: "why can't she take care of her husband with the education and skills she learned"? I mean this is supposed to be a time of gender parity, and we all went to the same schools, and have similar opportunities in life. She should silently bear the burden of being a breadwinner, just as men have been doing for centuries. Afterall she even has free babysitter in the form of husband and his mother 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Setursight(m): 8:37pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
As much as you're right, buy do you honestly think the well-to-do guy, will look in the direction of uneducated, unskilled, unambitious , in short a lady that has nothing going for her? Don't you think it's a case of deadbeat hooks a deadbeat. Women being hypergamous, I'm sure she wouldn't have choosed the guy if she has a more economic value. In conclusion, I feel the lady is even beneath the guy in the order of food chain. Therefore. I won't absolve her of any blame. Sixfeetbelle: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Setursight(m): 8:43pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Kobo I like your intelligence. You actually got it right with that terms. It's impossible to have a low self worth, and wanna hook an high value partner. The lady herself is guilty of being a deadbeat. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by Kobojunkie: 8:46pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Setursight:Low self-worth has nothing to do with being a deadbeat. For one, there are many narcissistic deadbeats out there to prove this to you. Low self-worth is mostly due to what I still consider a kind of mental illness since it comes mostly from being preprogrammed to believe one has no real worth or value to offer apart from that which life and condition shove at one. The good news is that once those underlying issues are resolved, people who formerly struggled with low self-worth are able to live confidently. However, you cannot say the same of a narcissistic deadbeat 1 Like 1 Share |
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