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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Therealbosslady: 8:33pm On Mar 24 |
Ahπ You better mind your business |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 8:34pm On Mar 24 |
psalmsjob:Well, individuals may resort to that but the customary laws are not mapped along lines of individual prejudices and issues. Anyways, read the following .... this https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope https://ogboduogbeandassociates.medium.com/marriage-paternity-issues-presumptions-of-law-678a717fbaea |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by bigman001(m): 8:38pm On Mar 24 |
MadeINchenzen2: Is your friend blind to see the difference ? if you tend to be a home destroyer feel free to go ahead and tell him , but remember Karma is a bitch, it will surely get back to you one way or the other even if it's going to get to the level of taking you out. Do you think in the long run she will not know you are the home breaker, and you will surely get what you deserve. Mind your business and move on. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by b1olat: 8:47pm On Mar 24 |
Is your friend suffering from eye problem. Don't stick your nose in there hence you get bruised. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by rafcrown(m): 8:51pm On Mar 24 |
Thats why the society is what it is.Mind your business and let people do rubbish. Dikegodspower: |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by PerfectStranger(m): 8:52pm On Mar 24 |
Xxxylxxxx:Another id1ot |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by MuslimIgbo: 8:54pm On Mar 24 |
Dikegodspower:If best friend knows that your wife is a WHORΓ and now she's even sleeping with your landlord, will you like your Friend to tell you or look away? When will you weyrey have SENSE with this nonsense talk of mind your business? 1 Like |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by MuslimIgbo: 8:58pm On Mar 24 |
Rhassidy360:Wey rey |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by achimendy(m): 9:00pm On Mar 24 |
MadeINchenzen2: If the difference between your friend and his children is strong pls tell him, nothing kills a man fast as paternity fraud. Tell him to secretly do it. Paternity fraud is real. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by MuslimIgbo: 9:02pm On Mar 24 |
PerfectStranger:You're an oloriburuku This is the evil statement you oloriburukus used to get us to this evil situation. Mind your business until you go to hell |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by achimendy(m): 9:03pm On Mar 24 |
bigman001: But what if he is right, and the children are not his own, what will you say? |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:04pm On Mar 24 |
achimendy:It is only real if the marriage agreement was not sealed under Customary Law. Otherwise, the man is not a victim but in a marriage agreement that makes allowance for all children born within the marriage. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Olaolex: 9:05pm On Mar 24 |
thesicilian:πππ |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by achimendy(m): 9:06pm On Mar 24 |
Jesse1991: Hahahahahahahaha ππ Exactly. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Unseen(m): 9:08pm On Mar 24 |
SIMPonPatrol: Stop saying what you don't know According to African culture, a man reserves the right to ACCEPT or REJECT any child born by his wife that's not his blood. That's if the couples are traditionally married, and the wife got pregnant outside, it's the exclusive right of the husband to ACCEPT or REJECT the child. If the husband rejects the child, there's nothing anybody can do about it and vice versa. Such law was created to give room for impotent men to allow their wives get pregnant outside without the original father having claim to the child. It also gives room for women married to fill up the lineage of a dead man to get pregnant from random men without the men claiming the child because her husbands did not reject the child. The law was never for PATERNITY FRAUD. 1 Like |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by achimendy(m): 9:09pm On Mar 24 |
Kobojunkie: Let him tell him first, then we will know if it's customary or not. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Jomonix: 9:11pm On Mar 24 |
MadeINchenzen2: What if none is from you? This is a possible scenario. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:13pm On Mar 24 |
achimendy:Whether he tells his friend or not does not impact in any way what the law says. If the friend, does not like the conditions presented to him by the law, then he can always get a divorce and avoid customary marriage laws for good. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by achimendy(m): 9:14pm On Mar 24 |
Unseen: Why are you wasting your time replying to the rubbish he write up there. Some people always have excuses for bad behaviour. 1 Like |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Mar 24 |
Unseen:None of what you claim here makes any sense given Customary Marriage Laws in Nigeria are set on the fact that all children born within a marriage belong to the man, irrespective of their actual paternity. Anyone who does not accept such terms simply needs to divorce the customary Laws of the land. Under customary Law, paternity fraud is a hoax! https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope https://ogboduogbeandassociates.medium.com/marriage-paternity-issues-presumptions-of-law-678a717fbaea 1 Like |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by PerfectStranger(m): 9:16pm On Mar 24 |
MuslimIgbo:C'mon shut up. Of all your personal problems in life na another man wife dey give u headache. I don't know which day una go get sense for this life |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:17pm On Mar 24 |
achimendy:What you refer to as an excuse for bad behavior was created by your forefathers, the same ones who also excused polygamous marriage for men only under those same customary laws. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Bimpe29: 9:19pm On Mar 24 |
Falana gbo tie. Not all the time you say something when you see something. My two cents. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Jesubaby: 9:28pm On Mar 24 |
So, na you get eye pass your friend na. Home breakers. Go and marry and mind your family business |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by hansomb: 9:36pm On Mar 24 |
Kobojunkie:I don't know from which culture you talking about. Adoption is normal, but fathering a bastard that's not your sperm is another thing entirely different. Maybe you consulted the wrong ancestors. Mine don't behave that way. If such a child is born into Royalty, he can never become king. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Rajahbite(m): 9:51pm On Mar 24 |
PointZerom:That is exactly what I was thinking because those genes responsible for physical resemblance might be recessive in the first child but turn out to be dominant in subsequent children. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by ObalendeCMS: 9:53pm On Mar 24 |
Bros, please tell your friend. It's not good to encourage the bad behaviours of these Os! |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by sfinkzslot(m): 9:55pm On Mar 24 |
MadeINchenzen2: Mind ya business |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:55pm On Mar 24 |
hansomb:Look, even customary law is not according to your whims but according to the Law as set down by your ancestors, OK? Under Customary Law in Nigeria, every child born during a marriage is presumed to belong to the man. So, as long as that marriage is in continuance, every child born belongs to the man. Now, if the man does not wish to father a bastard and all that, then he should altogether avoid customary Law unions. Otherwise, he is not a victim but one who accepted a marriage agreement that allows him polygamy while at the same time allowing the woman to bring into the marriage even children fathered by other men. He may not be allowed to become king but so long as the marriage is not annulled, the law considers the kind the father to said child. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by highbee02: 10:01pm On Mar 24 |
SIMPonPatrol: Which culture supports raising a bastard? |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On Mar 24 |
highbee02:Nigerian customary marriage Laws. |
Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by mabea: 10:19pm On Mar 24 |
Wawelexy:There's no wisdom in this because if this boy grew up knowing him as father and verse versa without any issues they both would remain like that for eternity. 1 Like |
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