bukatyne:

I actually meant in NL's definition.

I don't like to think obedience in husband -wife relationship; it's submission. Obey is more for kids to their parents. A child cannot submit to his parents; he obeys them

I know that submission doesn't make one a non-entity but the way people define it on NL, you go fear

Agreed

@Coogar

Looks like we both agree that moderation is key. Mumuness is bad and is being desctructive as in LcD screen smashing.
But on this other one-

that's exactly the point.
i want to see if she will bite if i put my hand in her mouth. if she overbites, i quickly weed her off. the point is to gauge her reaction when she's angry. is her anger proportionate to the wrong against her?

Don't lose a good somebody by so doing. She might see it as whom you are. Even if she wants to be entirely submissive, she may not be expecting such extreme behaviour, at least at the beginning of the relationship. It may backfire.

bukatyne: According to Coogar,

If a woman is not 'submissive', she will be breaking all the stuffs in the house

What is even the definition of submissive sef?

He likes to portray the other side in bad light.

byvan: I rather spend my time shelling Egusi seeds than argue with coogar .

PocketEconomist: wouldn't you like to marry a house husband like me?

No, I won't.

I fear that I may not be able to respect him enough. Plus what would he be teaching my sons?

byvan: I rather spend my time shelling Egusi seeds than argue with coogar .

Yum.....this got me thinking of amala egusi n bokoto.....

bukatyne:

I actually meant in NL's definition.

I don't like to think obedience in husband -wife relationship; it's submission. Obey is more for kids to their parents. A child cannot submit to his parents; he obeys them

I know that submission doesn't make one a non-entity but the way people define it on NL, you go fear

Nice one

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Donxavier:



But seriously we need guys with the tenacity of Coogar . One would just go crazy with some of the stuffs you hear from these e-witches

Which one be e witch again.....
I think say Na cabalic tinz dey hia......

pickabeau1:

Which one be e witch again.....
I think say Na cabalic tinz dey hia......

Ask Coogar, He once claimed to have tamed one very famous one in 2 weeks

Donxavier:

Ask Coogar, He once claimed to have tamed one very famous one in 2 weeks

I fail to see what's so funny about calling someone a witch unnecessarily. If you want to be catty just come out with it instead of hiding behind smileys.

Interesting......

ileobatojo:

I fail to see what's so funny about calling someone a witch unnecessarily. If you want to catty just come out with it instead of hiding behind smileys.

Na joke oh .....NairaJokeLand

It's a massive stress reliever at the end of a hard long day

coogar:

of course there's always an exception to the rule. i am just telling you what one should expect in majority of the cases.



oh please.....



so because you don't do it means other people don't? i reiterate, i am only making you aware of what is out there.



that's exactly the point.
i want to see if she will bite if i put my hand in her mouth. if she overbites, i quickly weed her off. the point is to gauge her reaction when she's angry. is her anger proportionate to the wrong against her?




very simple....
i keep trying till she bursts out. i just have to know the boundary - the elastic limit.



nah - i don't want a mumu partner. i want an intelligent partner whose reaction when angry is proportionate to the wrongs done against her. she should not underreact or overreact!!!



well, a couple can disagree everyday & i am fine by that. it's the way she expresses herself when disagreeing that matters. some women can't get their points across without yelling or screaming - that's a huge turn off for me. i expect a woman to keep it together even when angry. she should get her points across while her voice is as low like she's having a normal conversation.



venom is good.
i prefer passive aggressive behaviour than breaking dishes or smashing the LCD screen. if she's angry, let her put too much salt in my food as long as she takes it in good faith when i retaliate by doing the same. it spices up the relationship.




well - too much of everything is bad. he said she's over-submissive. being submissive is different from being over-submissive.

Yesufu alala. Shey in all your growing up when your mum is angry at you or even your dad she doesn't raise her voice? You are looking for a machine that does not exist. You better go and create one. Intentionally antagonizing your spouse for your own amusement is quite childish and a big turn off. Anyone playing these sand games with you needs help from desperation and other future emotional problems. Coogar, find more mature people Abeg and decide to be mature in relationships. Otherwise you will lose good people and end up with a pretender. It is better you have a spouse that can be themselves and express themselves freely with you. You should also create an environment that is peaceful, mature and non confrontational. I wonder why you will be testing people's anger. Do you intend to already do so many bad things in marriage before getting in?

baby_123:
Yesufu alala. Shey in all your growing up when your mum is angry at you or even your dad she doesn't raise her voice? You are looking for a machine that does not exist. You better go and create one. Intentionally antagonizing your spouse for your own amusement is quite childish and a big turn off.

nah - there was no yelling rule in my house. you lose all credibility once you yell. the emphasis is to convey your message in the lowest sound possible without throwing a strop. what does yelling achieve?

Anyone playing these sand games with you needs help from desperation and other future emotional problems. Coogar, find more mature people Abeg and decide to be mature in relationships. Otherwise you will lose good people and end up with a pretender. It is better you have a spouse that can be themselves and express themselves freely with you.

my market is huge - it welcomes all & sundry. pretenders & the so called good people. my preference is my preference - something else might work for other people but my formular works for me 100% of the time apart from one jamaican chic that brought her friends to spray-paint my front door.

You should also create an environment that is peaceful, mature and non confrontational. I wonder why you will be testing people's anger. Do you intend to already do so many bad things in marriage before getting in?

it's better one knows the extent his woman is willing to go when angry. i am an engineer & risk analysis/management is what i do almost all the time. i could be shacking up with a sadistic serial killer for all i know - if i don't put her composure to a test, how will i know she's not capable of shooting me in the groin?

coogar:

nah - there was no yelling rule in my house. you lose all credibility once you yell. the emphasis is to convey your message in the lowest sound possible without throwing a strop. what does yelling achieve?



my market is huge - it welcomes all & sundry. pretenders & the so called good people. my preference is my preference - something else might work for other people but my formular works for me 100% of the time apart from one jamaican chic that brought her friends to spray-paint my front door.



it's better one knows the extent his woman is willing to go when angry. i am an engineer & risk analysis/management is what i do almost all the time. i could be shacking up with a sadistic serial killer for all i know - if i don't put her composure to a test, how will i know she's not capable of shooting me in the groin?

Very good on the Jamaican girl. She didn't do well enough so at least we will be hearing you sing another tune right now. Stop playing games with people and treat people how you will want to be treated. Am sure you are looking for a doormat that would take everything you throw out. Even the most calm woman has her limits. Some people are very unpredictable and you can never tell what will set them off. That angel may one day snap and poison you if she has had enough. No one is perfect. So just respect yourself and your lady and am sure you would be alright. I don't believe no one ever shouted in your house. Big lie. Unless your mum was a baby bride to an old baba. Even then sef, the woman will still reach a point where she will shout in anger. Men are known to take 10chances if you close your eyes on 1.

baby_123:
Very good on the Jamaican girl. She didn't do well enough so at least we will be hearing you sing another tune right now. Stop playing games with people and treat people how you will want to be treated. Am sure you are looking for a doormat that would take everything you throw out. Even the most calm woman has her limits. Some people are very unpredictable and you can never tell what will set them off. That angel may one day snap and poison you if she has had enough. No one is perfect. So just respect yourself and your lady and am sure you would be alright.

i don't play games with people - i screen them & it's worked perfectly for me. perhaps if women deploy the same ish, many of them won't be stranded with professional boxers they call husbands. better to test & get rid if they don't suit your peaceful life than hope & marry them. hope? with the number of people with disturbing childhood roaming our streets? okay o!!!

I don't believe no one ever shouted in your house. Big lie. Unless your mum was a baby bride to an old baba. Even then sef, the woman will still reach a point where she will shout in anger. Men are known to take 10chances if you close your eyes on 1.

it's no yelling-policy in my house. the content of the message is the key. my dad never yelled, my mum never yelled. they pass the message across & leave us to it.

the only time you can catch me yelling is out of excitement - when my team scores a delicious goal. never during an argument. no one would win any debate in my house once he/she yells.

coogar:

i don't play games with people - i screen them & it's worked perfectly for me. perhaps if women deploy the same ish, many of them won't be stranded with professional boxers they call husbands. better to test & get rid if they don't suit your peaceful life than hope & marry them. hope? with the number of people with disturbing childhood roaming our streets? okay o!!!




it's no yelling-policy in my house. the content of the message is the key. my dad never yelled, my mum never yelled. they pass the message across & leave us to it.

the only time you can catch me yelling is out of excitement - when my team scores a delicious goal. never during an argument. no one would win any debate in my house once he/she yells.

Maybe your dad was not consumed with playing games, and getting your mum angry for his own excitement and experiements. You should learn a lot from that. Instead of using women, playing games with them, then dumping them. It takes a lot for a girl to gather her friends, buy spray paint and paint your doors. Hmm. Infact, Coogar, care to share what brought you to such a violent experience let us understand this testing that you are carrying out with a wide variety of women.

i don't play games with people - i screen them & it's worked perfectly for me. perhaps if women deploy the same ish, many of them won't be stranded with professional boxers they call husbands. grin cheesy cheesy better to test & get rid if they don't suit your peaceful life than hope & marry them. hope? with the number of people with disturbing childhood roaming our streets? okay o!!!

Coogar is changing mouth o. Baby said it all. All those games are childish. Dem fit backfire

baby_123:
Maybe your dad was not consumed with playing games, and getting your mum angry for his own excitement and experiements. You should learn a lot from that. Instead of using women, playing games with them, then dumping them. It takes a lot for a girl to gather her friends, buy spray paint and paint your doors.

this phrase caught my eye - how does a guy use a woman? i see/hear this all the time but i never understood what it meant.

girl was a psycho - imagine what she would do as a wife. i can't even remember what transpired that led to that episode.

Hmm. Infact, Coogar, care to share what brought you to such a violent experience let us understand this testing that you are carrying out with a wide variety of women.

violent ke? i don't do violence.
chic just lost her mind & she was going to deal with me. packed her housemates in bandanas & it's showtime.

coogar:

this phrase caught my eye - how does a guy use a woman? i see/hear this all the time but i never understood what it meant.

girl was a psycho - imagine what she would do as a wife. i can't even remember what transpired that led to that episode.



violent ke? i don't do violence.
chic just lost her mind & she was going to deal with me. packed her housemates in bandanas & it's showtime.

Using means when you lie and deceive a woman into believing things that are not. I highly doubt anyone will just gather housemates just like that, who will require evidence before they follow her, to come and spray paint an innocent mans property. Nah, try harder Coogar. The story is missing many parts.

baby_123:

Using means when you lie and deceive a woman into believing things that are not. I highly doubt anyone will just gather housemates just like that, who will require evidence before they follow her, to come and spray paint an innocent mans property. Nah, try harder Coogar. The story is missing many parts.

My market is huge - it welcomes all & sundry. pretenders & the so called good people. my preference is my preference - something else might work for other people but my formular works for me 100% of the time apart from one jamaican chic that brought her friends to spray-paint my front door. grin cheesy

PTSD

Post traumatic stress disorder. Here is where the problem lies

baby_123:

Using means when you lie and deceive a woman into believing things that are not. I highly doubt anyone will just gather housemates just like that, who will require evidence before they follow her, to come and spray paint an innocent mans property. Nah, try harder Coogar. The story is missing many parts.

He demanded submission without paying back with love

baby_123:

Using means when you lie and deceive a woman into believing things that are not. I highly doubt anyone will just gather housemates just like that, who will require evidence before they follow her, to come and spray paint an innocent mans property. Nah, try harder Coogar. The story is missing many parts.

ohhhhhh - that's using??
so once a guy is with a chic in a relationship, he cannot leave her regardless of her behaviour? if he leaves, he's used her. the only problem i have is you never hear men saying they have been used by a woman that's had enough.

as per gathering housemates, jamaican chics can be hot-headed.

deols:
He demanded submission without paying back with love

hahahaha - see detectives trying to work out what happened.

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Kayla03: Ss

Coogar.......Fraudster..............Borrow. Just a question, are you sure you got the right dude

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Oya mr coogar, come defend yourself. Chai! Yawa don gas o!

The fact that you were told stuff in confidence doesn't mean you should come here and spill. Please remove this Kayla03. The other people involved are all Nlders and no one here has said anything. so for privacy's sake remove this!!!

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steph7: The fact that you were told stuff in confidence doesn't mean you should come here and spill. Please remove this Kayla03. The other people involved are all Nlders and no one here has said anything. so for privacy's sake remove this!!!

so it's true. wonders shall never cease. still have a hard time believing though.

Nawaoooh!!which package come be this one again?