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A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Walexy96: 7:44am On Dec 31, 2014 |
For some months now the relationship has been so bored to the two of us. I tried my best to make things back to normal but what can I do when my good seems not to be good enough ? The story is complicated, If not, I would have love to share it here. But last night she send this text msg. so i want to know what she is really saying because i don't think I understand as she is not that straight forward in the decision she made. This is the text: i write u dis txt wit g.rief in my heart...afta all dis y...our love shld ave waited a little much longa bt i dnt tink it has cum to stay...i am realky sori ...if i dcd to kip u...i will kip hurting u ...n i dnt want it...u gave it so many chances...n its obvious dat u dnt love me as u use to so its of no use...since we cant regain bak our love...so i dnt want u to boda abt me...pls move on...n forgive me if i ave don anytin to wrng u..i want to clear all dis bfr a new yr.so u can frgive me...dnt boda calling cause i cant talk to u nw...until i get ova it so my question is that what exactly should i do ? Did she mean it is over really ? or she just want to take the pain just to see me happy since she failed in bringing/giving the happiness ? |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Nobody: 7:49am On Dec 31, 2014 |
The interpretation is very simple: 'I have dumped your azz dude and its your fault' 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by hatux: 7:52am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Bro' move on and find another b*tch, its 2015. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Mathematical(f): 7:54am On Dec 31, 2014 |
SHE'S LIKE NEW YEAR NEW GUY. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER, NEW YEAR RESOLUTION THINGY.. YOU GUYS AIN'T ENGAGED WHY BOTHER, IF SHE SAYS ITS OVER, GET OVER IT. SHE'S TRYNA MOVE ON. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by major466(m): 7:57am On Dec 31, 2014 |
She's calling off the relationship because she feels you don't love her enough like before. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Nobody: 7:59am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Actually, I'm interested in the complicated story... What happen na? |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by arsetalks(m): 8:06am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Did you cheat on her? Or did she cheat on you? She said you gave her many chances and she wants to dump you? Maybe she is feeling guilty for something she did wrong or she is with someone else. If I were you and I am sure I want her and she wants me, I will use the false scarcity method. Cease contact with her for a while. Let's see if she misses you. If she does, you can get her back if not, forget it. 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by arsetalks(m): 8:07am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Mathematical:Haba babe. It isn't as easy as that and I am sure you know it. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by ifex370(m): 8:08am On Dec 31, 2014 |
major466: its just an excuse to dump his sorry azz... bro... simple advice... remove your mind from her,she's miles away... better start looking for someone else |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Mathematical(f): 8:10am On Dec 31, 2014 |
arsetalks: MOVING ON ISN'T EASY EITHER [ |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by skywalker888(f): 8:10am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Get your sef a new gf and stop trolling |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by freshness2020: 8:11am On Dec 31, 2014 |
She just kissed ♈όϋ goodbye! ....this is one of those going to 2015 to be married! |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by ifex370(m): 8:12am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Mathematical: its not,but it sure is better than day dreaming about someone who doesn't give a hoot about how you feel... such selfish individuals only end up hurting you... so turn your back on em and face the world |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Mathematical(f): 8:26am On Dec 31, 2014 |
ifex370: EXACTLY |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by yomi007k(m): 8:48am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Mathematical:No problem, u can remain on d same spot. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Walexy96: 11:07am On Dec 31, 2014 |
arsetalks: Thanks for your contribution. Am sure she is actually feeling guilty because she cheated but psychologically i got to know and logically i confront her but all she has to do is seek for forgiveness which i actually granted. ever since then,things are not as the same as before. The false scarcity method i actually use is that I deleted my whatapp account, so that one way or the other we won't be communicating. Other social app like facebook, twitter and even 2go....... i had stoped using those ever b4 now so stylishly we communicate through whatapp. i think deleting the whatapp makes her wear the mask of deception and taking the bold step. thanks once again and other that has contributed. It is now conspicous that she want me no more. Am just listening to no more u by Akon. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by rittyben(f): 11:13am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Ndo |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Walexy96: 11:28am On Dec 31, 2014 |
I have been praying that any thing that won't make me acheive my aims in 2015 should go with 2014. So am happy she quit it herself. guilty conscience sha. smh. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Afrok(m): 11:32am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Sorry op, in case U need a shoulder to lean on I'll be here for U with my handkerchief and tissue paper . It's part of the sh*t that happens, let it slide as 2014 is sliding... |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by arsetalks(m): 11:35am On Dec 31, 2014 |
Walexy96:Do you love yourself? If you do, move on. It is one thing for someone to cheat and be sorry, but in this case, she is enjoying it. So much she wants to dump you ( probably for the guy she cheated on you with). She should be working hard to make amends and not looking for a break up. 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Walexy96: 11:47am On Dec 31, 2014 |
arsetalks: Exactly my point for watching her ( which she interpreted not loving her as before) she actually thought am with someone else though. |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Stanleyafam(m): 4:22pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Sorry bro...she found someone else...very easy to decipher 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by ableD1(m): 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
hmmmmm...when ever i see posts like this, i just smile... Bro...move on...she doesn't love you any more. the truth is that, she doesn't want to be the one to make the move (breakup) so you don't think its her fault thereby trying to make you feel guilty. hmmm...shes not that smart lol... just let her go, she doesn't worth it 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by IamLEGEND1: 6:52pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
hmmmmmmm........... 9ja chicks be like new year, new everything 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by EstarKeys(f): 9:10pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Walexy96:she jex wan tak away d pain...she loves u mur dan u do 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Walexy96: 3:35am On Jan 01, 2015 |
EstarKeys: I also see it this way too but majority has convinced me to move on. Happy New Year anyway. 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by EstarKeys(f): 11:15pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Walexy96:follow ur instinct...happy nw year dear 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by valdes00(m): 2:55am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Na wa for una oo, so una sef bliv say d OP no knw wetin d txt mean.... Lolzzz A na A, even if u use any fancy txt app 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Emmysteve(m): 4:17am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Guy find another bitvh if you can. And make sure you don't date only one. 1 Like |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by Nobody: 5:43am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Mathematical:u cute... |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by HopeAtHand: 6:53am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Walexy96: Is the lady u posting about the one on ur profile? |
Re: A Guy Need Your Advice In His Relationship Base On His Girlfriend Text Msg by boxer022(m): 6:57am On Jan 02, 2015 |
My brother the txt she sent you is her own way of breaking up with you. She noticed how hard you tried to make the relationship lively again but it was not possible. I believe she still loves you but decided to break up with you. So I advice that you man up and move on with your life. |
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