Kei144:
Tit. 1:15 To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted.

Any male who is disturbed by a woman breastfeeding her child in the church needs sanctification.

Onyekwelu7:
dat must b catholic church i guez,she is wrong as u thought...

Thank you jare,
I can bet the speakers are loud enough for her to hear from outside.
Some women just want to always prove a point with their stubbornness.
My pastor frowns at baby crying in the congregation.
Why? Because you won't hear and you won't allow others to hear the preaching (the primary purpose of coming is to worship not breastfeed).
Hiaaan! Some women sef

glogirl:
I called you a pervert because you were in church, yet you still had the time to notice the "well ovalized breasts" instead of seeing a cute hungry baby that needs to be fed. Sometimes what we see in a situation differs from what another person sees and it's an outcome of the contents of our minds.
You said you corrected the young mother but you don't know if she took your advice. Well, my advice to you is to purify your heart and thoughts. It will help you to appreciate the little joys of life.

mutter:
Abeg remove you eye and concentrate on your mass.

Why should she go outside to breastfeed. Do you know that breast feeding can go on for ages and you want the woman to miss the service because she is feeding the child God gave her.

No better place to breast feed a child than in God`s presence.
God smiles and is gladdened to see her do so.

It is God`s house and not yours!

The important thing is that it is pleasing in his eye.
He is probably more disturbed about people entering his house in tolerant and unclean.

Next time you see such a thing smile at the lady and appreciate her service to mankind and then mind your biz.

otil1:


You won't know how far her home is, dear. It could be 10bus stops away. A hungry or irritated baby should be fed, no delay.

The wisdom of our seniors -in my church (in my village), there are sections for men, women, and the choir.

See the prob of modernity.

Op and others plus church ushers, pls know the different genders and age groups have different needs. Even squeezing yourself in the midst of girls (as a boy) or pack of boys(if you are a girl have potential to distract.

jnrbayano:
Behind the pew I sat this morning during morning mass, some noise filtered into my ears. Taking a look backwards, I saw a young nursing mother with a big "well-ovallized" bosom breastfeeding her baby.

I must admit, I lost concentration on the mass proceedings for a few minutes.

After a while, I turned back again and told her that it isn't proper for her to breastfeed her baby inside the church.

Her response was, "my baby is hungry, why won't I feed him?"

And my rejoinder was, "you ought to have done that outside the church building"

Whether she took the correction in good faith or not I wouldn't know because I never looked back again.

In your candid opinion, who was right, myself or the lady?

jnrbayano:


On the 1st bold, I didn't stare at the booobs deliberately, I only turned towards the noise I heard as the Op clearly stated.

On the 2nd bold, because she is bound to disturb and distract the people around her and that will not be proper.

On the 3rd bold, where did you learn that from? Bible, Koran??

On the 4th bold, I should not be my sister's keeper again?

EfemenaXY:


Firstly, It's not about balls but common sense.

You can't compare a man chastising a woman / a man chastising a man, to a woman chastising a man. Do you know what's happened to the few women who tried to tell your fellow men off for being so anti-social?

Secondly kindly explain how you owe society and God that? Who / what is society?

How and what do you owe God with regards to a woman doing what God naturally endowed her with, for her baby? You went to church to hear the word of God, and not to oogle at the poor mother feeding her child. Rather than concentrate on your primary purpose for being there in the first place, you spent a fraction of your time lusting after the shape of her b.reas.ts and hating on her for feeding her baby.

If you were so uncomfortable, why didn't you do the decent thing by changing seats or better still, going to sit outside, away from "temptation"?

Women have been br.eas.tfee.ding their young since time immemorial and that isn't about to change because some man finds it difficult to keep his JT in check.

EfemenaXY:


Firstly, It's not about balls but common sense.

You can't compare a man chastising a woman / a man chastising a man, to a woman chastising a man. Do you know what's happened to the few women who tried to tell your fellow men off for being so anti-social?

Secondly kindly explain how you owe society and God that? Who / what is society?

How and what do you owe God with regards to a woman doing what God naturally endowed her with, for her baby? You went to church to hear the word of God, and not to oogle at the poor mother feeding her child. Rather than concentrate on your primary purpose for being there in the first place, you spent a fraction of your time lusting after the shape of her b.reas.ts and hating on her for feeding her baby.

If you were so uncomfortable, why didn't you do the decent thing by changing seats or better still, going to sit outside, away from "temptation"?

Women have been br.eas.tfee.ding their young since time immemorial and that isn't about to change because some man finds it difficult to keep his JT in check.

LaRoyalHighness:
Most churches (like mine) don't even make provision for nursing mothers. No where to run to.... Used to brea.st feed in the car but days i don't drive to church what do i do... Breast feed in the toilet?

jnrbayano:


I couldn't believe she called me a pervert after reading the Op.

Was I ever rude to her?

eyinjuege:


Maybe because you deliberately turned back twisting your neck to see a mother feeding her child and you actually got carried away and continued looking while claiming to be exchanging words with the woman. You could simply have passed a note to her in the service without distracting others and even drawing the attention of others ( with your verbal exchange) who didnt even know anything was going on.

However, she also should have had her shawl or apron specifically made for breastfeeeding with her at any time t, to cover herself whenever she neeeeds to breastfeed.

Again sir, you can buy a shawl for her and give it to her in the next service. thats actually being your neighbors keeper.

sherbol:
U no dey hear word!
Mind ur biz in d church n stop looking around for bossoms!
Weda is good or bad is not ur biz.
Does d bossoms look like ur bible?!
Aproko!

Bridgetown:


You lost concentration! Very funny, it seems to me you were also interested in the breastmilk. U should have told her your mind instead of pretending to be a saint.

CityNG:


Mind yourbizwhack you sex depraved fiend.

sammieguze:
Am sorry.... To all nursing mothers who act such....


IMO, i look at them lyk..... Goats coz only lower animals do that. No offense please. God gave you diicks and pvussy to go and multiply yet i dnt see you pple doing it in d public. So, why breastfeed in d public?

babyosisi:


The nursing mothers ought to cover the breast with a baby blanket or some cloth
I also hate the sight of a breast right in everybody's face,it is distracting to onlookers and very crude
There is a discreet way to do these things,this is 2015