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The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 6:28pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
To the successful mothers in the house, what is the secret of your happy home and marriage? How is your relationship with your husband, his families and your kids like? How can a young woman start building her home to make it a success? Eager to learn as no knowledge is a waste cos as a woman, I can settle down anytime. #waiting to hear from you mothers# |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Nobody: 6:28pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
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Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Cutehector(m): 6:29pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Hw d hell did I get into dis thread 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 6:33pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Cutehector:cos u ain't a mother? Come on, u too cn learn, 4 ur future wife. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by innervoice(m): 6:34pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Rajjah, why do you only ask mothers and not fathers? |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by kossyablaze(m): 6:35pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Always make the moves for bleep 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Cutehector(m): 6:39pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Rajjah:lol I dnt hav to learn evrytn for my future wife.. I'v learnt how to cook, go to d market, live by myself, produce things... While she is out dr doin nothn.. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Nobody: 6:46pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Communication; talk to each other and with each other. Discuss everything. 2). My time, your time; men don't like being caged. Let him have time with the boys and you have time with the girls. 3). Respect each other; don't denigrate your spouse especially in the presence of other people. 4). Don't bring in others; don't let your friend, mother, pastor or whosoever play mediator in your home. Resolve all differences by yourself. 5). Marriage is not a contest where one person wins. There's no trophy. Apologize when you are wrong. 6). Get involved in each others activities. If he loves video game or soccer or Mexican soap, get basic interest. It enriches communication. 7). Don't create the basis for comparison. The neighbour could dress better or smell better or have better car. Don't push your spouse. Men should make their wives their queen, even if she has put on some weight. Lastly). There's no woman wrapper. Help out in the kitchen if you can. Help with the children's homework. Show affection in public. Push the shopping cart. Take out the trash. It's your home. I hope I'm useful to you in any way. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rosemary216(f): 7:15pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Whr are d 'successful' mothers na? Am also itching to hear! |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by anthoniaz(f): 7:25pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
I'm not a mother yet but will be soon . One thing I have come to understand in marriage is that, for it to work, your effort and that of your husband is needed.If you are angry with your spouse, don't keep malice, discuss and settle whatever the issue is.Treat your spouse the same way you expect to be treated, and above all, always pray for your spouse, pray for understanding, pray for wisdom. As a woman, always pet your hubby, men are just like babies, they like being pampered. 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by teeboo: 7:46pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
kITATITA: She said it all |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
teeboo: I am a man biko; with grey hair sef. I'm not a she. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 8:05pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
innervoice:well cos mothers re the sole home builders. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 8:08pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
anthoniaz:hmmm, nice but hmm I lik been pampered too. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by innervoice(m): 8:22pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Rajjah: With this attitude, you are very unlikely to have a happy home yourself but I wish you the best of luck. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by teddybear007(f): 9:00pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
I believe wen u get to the bridge, u device a means of crossing it. Alot of things has being said abt marriage or should i say, a successful one. Whatever rocks ur boat might not go down well wit another. God’s grace and wisdom is all u need. Gracias. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by bukatyne(f): 9:40pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
innervoice: Lols Abeg free me Sole authority; sole home builder Body builder go soon join |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by anthoniaz(f): 9:57pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Rajjah:Of course.Who doesn't He will reciprocate. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 10:04pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
innervoice:can u pls tell me y u said that above? |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 10:05pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
bukatyne:M sure u kno this is not joke section n u re a lady, I wonder y u put up dis attitude. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 10:08pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
teddybear007:I understand but I believe in the saying "no knowledge is a waste". |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Chidoks(f): 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
looking at where i came from and whom i'm married to; i think the best secret to a happy home is know the man you are married to.not the one that proposed.the one that is your husband.try and learn his behavioral pattern.what does he like/ appriciate, what appeals to him, what puts him off, what does he like eating, when does he want his meald served and all... you see men are complex; no two men are alike behaviorally so don't treat him the way your best friend treats her hubby. but generally, they appriciate any woman that respects and honours them.know your man, fit in to his pattern, accomodate him, creative and constructive criticisms please, massage his ego.call him my lord and he will melt like icr 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 6:10am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Chidoks:I learnt somtin here. Some men can be very complex n filled with ego plus pride. I pray I dont get married to over complex man cos even me, m quick to anger especially wen som1 involve with me makes one mistake twice after correctn. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by teddybear007(f): 8:50am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rajjah: Then u need more than an advice, u need alot of growing up to do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by 5minsmadness: 9:07am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rajjah:Don't worry, you'll do well. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by dyttt: 9:22am On Aug 03, 2015 |
where are the wives oooo this section has the most active *happy wives* please come and share even if they happen to be only in the dreams e want to read*in my lil mans voice* |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by lilmax(m): 9:30am On Aug 03, 2015 |
When you have a prob at home dont bring it to this section or else...... 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Chidoks(f): 10:09am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rajjah: darling work on that anger as soon ad possible.amen to your prayers but bear in mind that no singld man can be your mr right as in no single man can meet all your requirements.so at the end of the day you are bound to choose the closest call..i pray you get the man that complements you best but a man with very low male ego is no good...they are the type that will want you to foot most of the bills if not all..in all you do remember that a wise woman keeps her home.remember to be submissive.work on that anger asap.God bless you and grant your wishes ... |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 2:07pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Chidoks:Ameen. God bless you too. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by innervoice(m): 4:50pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rajjah: Because it takes two to tango. |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rajjah: Ok, on a serious note, Engage the poster I will quote in a serious dialogue. The first step to a happy home is choosing the right person. innervoice: 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Of A Happy Marriage And Home. by Rajjah(f): 5:25pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Because it takes two to tango. [/quote]oh, ok. U re right but u c, mothers play 60% of the role in d home. I really dont kno how to make u undstnd but u shud kno dat women make most effort to have a successful n happy home cos lots of broken homes re often tagged as the woman's fault. |
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