Hello house

pardon my grammatical errors

My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made


After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.

I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.

I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.

I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her.

Beergang5050:

You don't want to lose her and you asked for a break
Don't worry, she will come back to you but to invite you to her wedding

it I tld her d reason which is cos I wnt to I'm jobless n I haven't settled

Beergang5050:

You don't want to lose her and you asked for a break
Don't worry, she will come back to you but to invite you to her wedding

it I tld her d reason which is cos I wnt to I was jobless n I haven't settled

bro go pay her a visit.... u wanted break,,she never wanted a break so,,she is nat happy pay her visit...sometimes lovers needs to be together to grow the bond.not all relationship deserves a break.

mikejj:
bro go pay her a visit.... u wanted break,,she never wanted a break so,,she is nat happy pay her visit...sometimes lovers needs to be together to grow the bond.not all relationship deserves a break.

The here is da she's blocked all avenue to chat with her I stay in Ibadan she resides in lag

mikejj:
bro go pay her a visit.... u wanted break,,she never wanted a break so,,she is nat happy pay her visit...sometimes lovers needs to be together to grow the bond.not all relationship deserves a break.

The thing here is da she's blocked all avenue to chat with her I stay in Ibadan she resides in lag

I sent an sns dat I ws gonna visit she didn't reply. she blocked me on WhatsApp

how long have u been with this lady

mikejj:
how long have u been with this lady

6 months

she is still taking a break

Just 6 months, .. Nigga, she ain't fully into you yet.. Just give it time, she may come around.

myke92:
Just 6 months, .. Nigga, she ain't fully into you yet.. Just give it time, she may come around.

Hmm.

Until break time is over she won't come around or pick your calls.......

Have you gotten a job yet?...if no,go get a job first and other things will follow

morningstar55:
Have you gotten a job yet?...if no,go get a job first and other things will follow

Yes I have gotten a job

Pay her a visit,kneel down and apologize to her,tell her how much uve missed her nd how badly u want her back be real nd serious.........if after this she still persist den brace up for d inevitable...

Danny110:
Pay her a visit,kneel down and apologize to her,tell her how much uve missed her nd how badly u want her back be real nd serious.........if after this she still persist den brace up for d inevitable...

she blocked me on WhatsApp
I stay in lag she stay in Ibadan

greatforever:

she blocked me on WhatsApp
I stay in lag she stay in Ibadan

Call her if she doesn't pick ur call.....after a while try t reach her wit anoda line,try making sum1 dat knows u both talk t her,persuade her....ask her fr details where she lives...

Let her be for now....

Nickijoy:
Let her be for now....

Will she come around
how to I make her come arnd

greatforever:

Will she come around
how to I make her come arnd

This is quite strange...I thought harddon had already treated this issue in his thread? After nysc u still act this way for a lady? Is she your first love? U are really losing it dude & acting out of line....

Are u saying if she dies today u will kill yourself?

Rubbiish:

This is quite strange...I thought harddon had already treated this issue in his thread? After nysc u still act this way for a lady? Is she your first love? U are really losing it dude & acting out of line....

Are u saying if she dies today u will kill yourself?

No I made mistakes and I really regret d mistakes.
I love her a lot and I don't want this mistakes to ruin our relationship. I jst need a remedy to Dis

Op so u no even strong u cone dey form Bruce Lee. Just start doing d weeping n mopping, cos this most likely wld b d end of d road 4 both ya. Next time u want 2 form Boss, follow though.

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coolestofall:
Op so u no even strong u cone dey form Bruce Lee. Just start doing d weeping n mopping, cos this most likely wld b d end of d road 4 both ya. Next time u want 2 form Boss, follow though.

any remedy

greatforever:


No I made mistakes and I really regret d mistakes.
I love her a lot and I don't want this mistakes to ruin our relationship. I jst need a remedy to Dis

As humans we dont always get what we wish for...u should know that by now sir...If u had gotten your desired job as at when u wished, there wouldn't be any break in d first place. Now that she has cut u off, will u now kill yourself?

Are u saying if she had an accident & died u would have killed yourself...i believe no....So consider this mistake as irreparable one & move one. Learn from it & learn to be more decisive. When u requested for a break u should have also prepared your mind towards d consequences that comes with it...that is what makes u man....learn from your mistake & give her time. If she truly feel a thing for u she will come around...If she doesn't move on...because even if she accept u back in this state & manner of begging she will never respect u..because it will likely be out of pity...

I can help u get her off your head...If u can't do it yourself...Because it may seem like the world will end to u doing that

greatforever:

any remedy

Just send her one last text, not portraying neediness. Text abt u just feeling like catching up, n hw its been a while n u just want 2 knw if she is fine. Immediately after sending d text, just keep it in mind that u guyz r done. Cry if u feel like it, even the best of us did (though not me o). Go out n socialize. U will meet more gals, just put urself out there.
Note: Sometimes u might feel like picking d phone 2 establish contact. Dont. Just move on.

Go and meet her in person if u are really serious

I still need replies. There's is sth I can do to get. pls I need more suggestions

seems she has made up her mind. But I can't seem to get her over me mind

Take the risk and go to lag to visit her. You cannot sit here looking for a solution. She is not responding to valls or texts.Go and confront your issue in Lagos. That is your best option.

If not, you will keep wondering if...