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. by JERRY1925(m): 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Re: . by Apus: 4:28pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
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Re: . by Apus: 4:29pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
From d foregoing, two things are bound to happen. First it's either you man-up to prove yourself to her parents that you are worthy of her irrespective of what their stand maybe. She must also be with you spear-heading this fight if truly she loves you . Mind you, this path can be somehow tough and long... or you raise a "white flag" and let her go now. Break all forms of contact with her. Don't be surprised she sends you an invitation for her wedding even before she completes her youth service. |
Re: . by myke92(m): 4:44pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Aboi... If you are hell bent on letting her go, then what you have to do is quite simpl. Just kill the "COMMUNICATION" totally.. Never call her. Never answer her calls. Don't message her. Don't reply her messages Don't stalk her. Don't view her status Don't like her photos Don't comment on her posts My point is.. Avoid her completely. Do this assiduously for at least 6 months.. I can guarantee you that it will be quite difficult, But she will eventually get the memo. The only problem here is that.. You still love her, thereby making it more difficult to let go. All the best bro, whatever decision you take. |
Re: . by Stevengerd(m): 4:46pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Everyday una deh seek Advice.. Just continue swimming with her, Probably her parent fit change mind if there pikin don't reach menopause. |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
You want to break up with her yet you love her. Pls,tell me the truth.Are you trying to give n/landers a puzzle to solve? |
Re: . by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:56pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
JERRY1925: you make no damn sense....1st you said you knew this issue all along and had no problem with it, 2nd you now say you want a break up because of that exact same issue and 3rd you now say you actually love the babe?!?!?!! |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 5:01pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Don't look for my flaws... If u have an advice just give!! No one is perfect |
Re: . by Jflex07(m): 5:10pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Weak men everywhere. |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Quite an oxymoron, huh? Simple, yet complicated. |
Re: . by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:14pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
GeniusWannabe: some men out there put obstacles in the way of their own happiness.... cant understand the OP. |
Re: . by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:17pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
JERRY1925: i can only advise you to stay with your babe and cherish the moment you have with her... instead of trying to destroy it. |
Re: . by natsuDragneel: 5:28pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
If you truly love her bro, then this is a truly complicated situation which might force the lady to choose between you and her parents... It's nice of you to try to make it easier for her to choose by removing yourself as an option cos it's not not fair to have to put someone in that kinda position, but why not just leave the decision with the babe If you both eventually get married, the babe's relationship with her parents might be strained or rocky but it's not unfixable (y'all might have a problem getting their blessings tho, for the marriage I mean) Frankly, the babe should be able to stand her ground on what she wants as Tribal differences are not even as trivial as maybe religious differences or something else |
Re: . by ZiriMane(m): 6:33pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
All these tribal baskad talks in this century awes me. buh both of you know that you won't work! so why are you people still deceiving yourselves? |
Re: . by femi4: 9:41pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
JERRY1925:Change the topic, She "has" not She "have" |
Re: . by AfroKnight: 11:46pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
She rejected the break up? Omo this world is strange. It’s like you want her to shatter your heart before you go. Better shut her out immediately. |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:53am On Dec 24, 2019 |
AfroKnight: Lol.. She no gree o. But I guess it's just to enjoy it all in my head while it last. |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:55am On Dec 24, 2019 |
femi4: Done. Really don't know the difference between has and have.. I done try learn am no way. So what's your contribution |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:57am On Dec 24, 2019 |
ZiriMane: Truth is, it happened that am her first. |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:58am On Dec 24, 2019 |
natsuDragneel: I really do, and am trying. She's the mothers girl type. But yet don't want to let go |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:59am On Dec 24, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Thanks |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 7:59am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Apus: Thanks |
Re: . by JERRY1925(m): 8:00am On Dec 24, 2019 |
myke92: Actually hard to do myself. Reason adv just trying to seek peoples opinion. Wish I can actually let go |
Re: . by femi4: 8:53am On Dec 24, 2019 |
JERRY1925:Don't give up on LOVE. Try and convince her parent that you are different. Let your girl know that at least you TRY, don't break up with her without TRYING Use 'Has' for singular pronouns except "you" and "I" and 'Have' for plural pronouns I/You/We/They have He/She/It has |
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