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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Odunharry(m): 2:29pm On Dec 05, 2013
Dyt: Hehehehehhee
Kini won fi se?
E go turn hard currency when I do abrkadabra?
Orisirisi
The last time MYND brought me flowers, only him fit talk wetin I do him
yap..i remembr,u grabd him and gave him a kiss
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by neohitler(m): 2:29pm On Dec 05, 2013
shymexx:

Don't feed the troll, bruv.

His type would move from buying flowers - to getting Lychee and Strawberry fruits plus candles. grin

Redundant crap! That's foreign to the black mind.

The black mind is spiritual and adventurous - we don't need superficial things.
the black mind = Ape mind.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 05, 2013
I was brought up here smiley
And flowers are not cheap.
They are beautiful, that should count as something
henrimoto: Nne, did you grew up in this environment ? or you were imported into this environment ? most nigerian ladies here dont understand what flower is all about. they see it as a common vegetation. to them, when showing your affection towards a woman, it most be expensive. it most not come cheap. do you know how many love relationships that have been broken because the guy offered a flower to his woman ?? tomorrow, the ladies will say 'guys are heartless, guys are not sincere, guys are playboys...all that and all that. why wont some guys break up? when some guys will use nearly all their life savings to buy expensive gift to their girlfriends, only to discover that most are over hyped.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by neohitler(m): 2:32pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: Black is beautiful embarassed
Really?last time i checked black woman is not the most beautiful girl in the world.white is beautiful
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Effiwizzi: 2:35pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: Check this out:

One day a long time ago. When I was still a very very good girl wink wink , I was on my back from choir practice with a christain brother and we were talking about how mean our choir master was. I kept ranting cos I was so pissed at him for punishing me( didn't get my cadences right and he made me stay behind to practice after others left) anyway I was just going on and on about how mean he was. Out of the blues,this christain brother picked a sweet-smelling white rose from the church flower hedge and put it in my hair

Ooohh my. I blushed to my feet embarassed
And I shut up immediately. I don't forget that incident even tho I'm sure he has forgotten it.

You see when u love ur baby and she's nagging u about something non-stop, pick a flower put it her hair and kiss her on the fore-head. She'll shut up forever cheesy

@ LORRETA
i TRIED THAT and it didnt work, I then got to slot, bought her a BB Z10, she jumped on me with a full option hug. Later that niight, she gave me BJ for the very first time.. its always about money.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by silibaba: 2:36pm On Dec 05, 2013
flowers are meant for virgin alone.if in doubt,google it.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by deolumike(m): 2:39pm On Dec 05, 2013
Duke_Nija: Well I don't think I'm romantic. But I sure know I'm very caring and loving. But I am equally sure I'm not romantic.
I can't be doing some things because I see them on tv. Giving flowers et al are incongruous with our culture. Its just plain annoying. Most men use romance to deceive unsuspecting women into believing they love them, and romance can be practised and perfected, ask a playboy. But commitment, devotion and sincere care comes from within!
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 2:43pm On Dec 05, 2013
obadiah777: flower kor flour ni. smdh cheesy i will bring you a bag of flour

A bag of flour is much more useful. grin
I love to bake. tongue

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

A bag of flour is much more useful. grin
I love to bake. tongue

imagine all the beautiful cakes and pies and pizza you can make with a bag of flour ? more edifying than a bouquet of flowers aint it lmao. and they both sound the same grin cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by tpia5: 2:47pm On Dec 05, 2013
What's wrong with getting flowers yourself if you want them?
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 05, 2013
Ok you bought her a BB
On her birthday you'll still buy her a BB?
On vals day BB?
Xmas BB?
New year BB?
Easter BB?

Don't get me wrong. I love a nice material gift just like any other girl. But take something out and mix in some flowers. Nice recipe for romance. Simples.
Effiwizzi:

@ LORRETA
i TRIED THAT and it didnt work, I then got to slot, bought her a BB Z10, she jumped on me with a full option hug. Later that niight, she gave me BJ for the very first time.. its always about money.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Ifedechidex: 2:48pm On Dec 05, 2013
dahmie2013: Human wants are insatiable. undecided

u mean woman wants are insatiable?
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 05, 2013
tpia@:
What's wrong with getting flowers yourself if you want them?
someone like you definitely cant appreciate flowers. someone like you would appreciate a few tubers of yam as valentines gift instead of flowers grin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 05, 2013
Nothing wrong with that.

I just like them better as a gift.
tpia@:
What's wrong with getting flowers yourself if you want them?
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 05, 2013
Oh well. Whatever u say
neohitler:
Really?last time i checked black woman is not the most beautiful girl in the world.white is beautiful
undecided
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 2:51pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

A bag of flour is much more useful. grin
I love to bake. tongue

obadiah777: imagine all the beautiful cakes and pies and pizza you can make with a bag of flour ? more edifying than a bouquet of flowers aint it lmao. and they both sound the same grin cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin
Una don reach here...

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by silibaba: 2:54pm On Dec 05, 2013
is for virgin alone.we guy knw wat we ar doin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by deols(f): 2:55pm On Dec 05, 2013
shymexx:

A plate of Ibadan amala should suffice.

What say you, Ibadan girl? tongue

o kare jare. smiley

do you even understand what that means?

amala pelu abula ati ogufe....yeeepa!!!! igbadun

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:

grin grin grin grin grin
Una don reach here...
yes now vicky. we full ground for here hehe. grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by redsun(m): 2:58pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: Nope I just like and appreciate their beauty
Has nothing to do with tv

I think they are better off left for bees,insects,environment and to the soil where they finally decay and rejuvinate the land.

We should worry more about being humane to one another than distorting mother nature in pretence for love that is not real.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by tpia5: 2:58pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: Nothing wrong with that.

I just like them better as a gift.


If you're not getting them as a gift, then get them yourself.

Its white culture- do you see white people waiting for boyfriends to give them flowers before they have any?

If a white person wants to see flowers, they go and get some themselves.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Godsate: 2:59pm On Dec 05, 2013
Because we are not the one that disflower you; you don't give us flower to disflower. So, no flower for you.

Most of of the ladies married or befriend by Nigeria men has been disflower by another man.

The few of the ladies that receive flower receive it from the man that find her as virgin.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Dec 05, 2013
tpia@:



If you're not getting them as a gift, then get them yourself.

Its white culture- do you see white people waiting for boyfriends to give them flowers before they have any?

If a white person wants to see flowers, they go and get some themselves.
she likes awoof. na awoof go kill that loretta girl
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 05, 2013
So you guys are now trolling on my flower thread angry

obadiah, redsun et al
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 3:02pm On Dec 05, 2013
obadiah777: yes now vicky. we full ground for here hehe. grin
grin
I dey feel your stlye. thumbs up. wink
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:03pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:

grin grin grin grin grin
Una don reach here...

Obadiah brought me here. I follow him to the strangest places sometimes. grin
This one is not so strange.


@topic
I like the kind of flowers you can plant. They keep on giving.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by litetias(m): 3:03pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: They don't give us flowers sad angry

One's gotta admit that phones,hair extensions etc can be a little technical
Flowers are the bomb.
White/red roses(my favorites) can make a girl think of you forever. Yes
Maybe cos most of you are hoes and as such unworthy of such romantic gestures. No insult intended.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: So you guys are now trolling on my flower thread angry

obadiah, redsun et al
we aint trolling. we too, we like flawas cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:
grin
I dey feel your stlye. thumbs up. wink
what style ? after you na me. make you lead i go follow now cheesy

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