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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by redsun(m): 3:04pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: So you guys are now trolling on my flower thread angry

obadiah, redsun et al

It is ok. It just caught my eye,I will leave you to your fantasies. All the best.

Monies could be better spent though.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Dec 05, 2013
You have no bone of romanticism in you
It's not white culture joor. All this bb n money talk some ppl are saying is it nigerian culture?
Even the white ppl u r talking about get the flowers as gifts
Tho I'm not using them as a yardstick here.
tpia@:



If you're not getting them as a gift, then get them yourself.

Its white culture- do you see white people waiting for boyfriends to give them flowers before they have any?

If a white person wants to see flowers, they go and get some themselves.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

Obadiah brought me here. I follow him to the strangest places sometimes. grin
This one is not so strange.



@topic
I like the kind of flowers you can plant. They keep on giving.


yeah blame it all on me why dont ya smdh undecided grin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 05, 2013
Lol @ fantasies grin
redsun:

It is ok. It just caught my eye,I will leave you to your fantasies. All the best.

Monies could be better spent though.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by fadconsult(m): 3:08pm On Dec 05, 2013
Why dont you girls not always think on wat u can give the guy,its always wat the guy give, its more blessed to give than to receive, change you thinking rather think of how u girls can give the guy the flower
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 3:08pm On Dec 05, 2013
obadiah777: we aint trolling. we too, we like flawas cheesy
grin grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Dec 05, 2013
No dirty language here embarassed
litetias: Maybe cos most of you are hoes and as such unworthy of such romantic gestures. No insult intended.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:
grin grin grin grin
vicky when are you going to buy me flawas undecided grin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 05, 2013
Oh yea you're right.
I always encourage girls to give too.
I don't like stingy ppl
Pls if ur girl never ever gives u gifts
Dump her a$$.
Unless she has no income at all. Even at that with d little she has
You'll know if she's stingy or not
fadconsult: Why dont you girls not always think on wat u can give the guy,its always wat the guy give, its more blessed to give than to receive, change you thinking rather think of how u girls can give the guy the flower
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by KhalifArt: 3:17pm On Dec 05, 2013
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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by juce: 3:20pm On Dec 05, 2013
men dont give flowers to our nigerian ladies cos they prefers RECHARGE CARDS pronto cool
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:20pm On Dec 05, 2013
obadiah777: yeah blame it all on me why dont ya smdh undecided grin

Just for you Obadiah tongue
I'll even chase it with this cause you are actually kinda sweet. kiss


@topic
If flowers are what you want, you go girl.
Tell your guy. Maybe it doesn't occur to him.

I often wonder why woman think men read their minds. It goes both ways. We don't read minds either. Geez people. Open your mouth and talk to each other. I mean IRL, not here in lala land.

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 3:21pm On Dec 05, 2013
obadiah777: vicky when are you going to buy me flawas undecided grin
After you've sent my one bag of flour to me. wink

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 3:22pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

Just for you Obadiah tongue
I'll even chase it with this cause you are actually kinda sweet. kiss


@topic
If flowers are what you want, you go girl.
Tell your guy. Maybe it doesn't occur to him.

I often wonder why woman think men read their minds. It goes both ways. We don't read minds either. Geez people. Open your mouth and talk to each other. I mean IRL, not here in lala land.




And fun

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by tpia5: 3:22pm On Dec 05, 2013
fadconsult: Why dont you girls not always think on wat u can give the guy,its always wat the guy give, its more blessed to give than to receive, change you thinking rather think of how u girls can give the guy the flower


All the gimme gimme , very childish imo.

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Gguy4real: 3:24pm On Dec 05, 2013
Why did all this girls wasting there time on what is not possible for naija. We naija boys no truly well that our girls love money and prick person wey dey Bleep your friend Bleep your brother na she u wan go waste your money buy flower and give her she go just look at you like kg 1 piking
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u:
Oh lawd. How dumb are some people?
How do those two posts correspond?
" I have not seen any other guy giving us flowers" how does that
translate to "my other boyfriends don't give me flowers"
You're a waste of time. For real.
I hope you actually reason with ur brain out there in the world than let
useless sentiments guide u.
As for always being online,that's cos I use my phone to browse. I may
even be better engaged/occupied than you. Is there anything worthwhile
that u could actually be doing since you have indomie where ur brain is
meant to be
As for the money thing,I'll have ur dumbskull know once again that money
is not the same as gifts.and a man or woman can help their partners
with cash when the other is down. That has always been my stand. Don't
act as if u know me. If your girlfriend or wife is fleecing u dry, go
sort it out with her. Don't be hating on ppl u don't know cos of your
financial frustrations. When we are talking about gifts, keep money out
of it. It's not a gift.

Ur status of unemployibility has made u succumb to the call of writing frivolous epistles on things that could hardly take a sentence of 10 words here on nl.

Since you think i culdnt deduce exactly of what "other guys" u made referral to, can u pls make me understand it? Which other guys in real/physical relationship/engagement did u talk abt?

Additionally, ur uncoded statement of being assistant to ur partner is just an internet ranting. Like someone said, u can claim whatever/whoever here even if u want to claim Obama. Who doesnt know the true colour of a woman is seen when her man is down financially? U talk as if u culd stand if a guy that was doing well suddenly goes down. Answer the above, and we can go from there.

#Hypocrate lover of flowers.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:27pm On Dec 05, 2013
fadconsult: Why dont you girls not always think on wat u can give the guy,its always wat the guy give, its more blessed to give than to receive, change you thinking rather think of how u girls can give the guy the flower

You want flowers? Where you deny? Na I go send am. What kin flower? grin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by tpia5: 3:30pm On Dec 05, 2013
lorretta u: You have no bone of romanticism in you
It's not white culture joor. All this bb n money talk some ppl are saying is it nigerian culture?
Even the white ppl u r talking about get the flowers as gifts
Tho I'm not using them as a yardstick here.


Flowers are european culture, in nigeria affection is not measured by reception of flowers, and neither is it necessarily so overseas where you got the idea from either.

White people have flowers in their environments as part of the decor, not always because their boyfriend gave it to them. Flowers are meant to beautify a place, so if you go ahead and get the flowers yourself, your boyfriend will notice you are into such, and may get you more since he has seen you already like them.


But sitting on your assss waiting for the guy to come and decorate your decor, is rather self centered. If nothing at all, tell him to go and buy you the flowers since you consider it so important.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by vickyO(f): 3:33pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

You want flowers? Where you deny? Na I go send am. What kin flower? grin
Correct girl...


@fdconsult, send me your address too and state the kind flower you like, e.g. Rose, prim rose, lily, anyone. I go DHL am to you.

You've got two offers now, accept them and make it a contract..
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by jahbiz: 3:35pm On Dec 05, 2013
Do 9ja grls app flowers? Hell No No & NO. The only thingz they app are money money and material things. Meanwhile op is not exception!
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Philipsdael(m): 3:35pm On Dec 05, 2013
Flowers are not mere objects.... it holds significant meanings, which gives an idea of the personal-features of the giver. It shows how romantic and passionate a guy can be..... You'll agrre with me that all females love their man to be romantic...... Therefore, an Independent-romantic lady will appreciate flowers...... Its best appreciated when u attach other gift items with a flower..... Its not realy abt the worth of the object, its more abt the meaning of the object.
Nov. 11, 2013, was the birthday of my 1st-love, i bought and packaged gift items which includes "a flower" and "chocolates" lovely frame" etc, in those shiny-wrappers......
Those gift items depict the real-me..... And i felt satisfied cos the items portrays the kinda person i am......
when she opened the shiny-wrapper, she was joyous of the gift items..... And later called me, that she didn't knw i hid some chocolates in the pack.... She was so appreciative.
(Not all gehs are interested in the nkwobi and isiawu choping.)

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 05, 2013
uboma:

Send me a PM with your contact address so i can send you some flowers.

Oga, na u dey do this? Dont be so gullible to fall for this cheap-hypocrate-self-acclaimed flower lover.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 05, 2013
I guess u meant hypocrite with that ur last sentence. Lmao
You'll be worthy of my attention when you learn to spell
Someone says she loves flowers and you want to die because of it. I've never seen something so strange.
I really don't
RedBenson:

Ur status of unemployibility has made u succumb to the call of writing frivolous epistles on things that could hardly take a sentence of 10 words here on nl.

Since you think i culdnt deduce exactly of what "other guys" u made referral to, can u pls make me understand it? Which other guys in real/physical relationship/engagement did u talk abt?

Additionally, ur uncoded statement of being assistant to ur partner is just an internet ranting. Like someone said, u can claim whatever/whoever here even if u want to claim Obama. Who doesnt know the true colour of a woman is seen when her man is down financially? U talk as if u culd stand if a guy that was doing well suddenly goes down. Answer the above, and we can go from there.

#Hypocrate lover of flowers.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:41pm On Dec 05, 2013
tpia@:



Flowers are european culture, in nigeria affection is not measured by reception of flowers, and neither is it necessarily so overseas where you got the idea from either.

White people have flowers in their environments as part of the decor, not always because their boyfriend gave it to them. Flowers are meant to beautify a place, so if you go ahead and get the flowers yourself, your boyfriend will notice you are into such, and may get you more since he has seen you already like them.


But sitting on your assss waiting for the guy to come and decorate your decor, is rather self centered. If nothing at all, tell him to go and buy you the flowers since you consider it so important.

@ the bolded

Loretta is right in this. At least in the US. Flowers are a standard, when it comes to romance. Red roses are considered the symbol of love. I would prefer the sack of flour, but who am I? grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:44pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:
Correct girl...


@fdconsult, send me your address too and state the kind flower you like, e.g. Rose, prim rose, lily, anyone. I go DHL am to you.

You've got two offers now, accept them and make it a contract..

grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by caesaraba(m): 3:45pm On Dec 05, 2013
How do you guys live with yourselves throwing insults back and forth every darn day online? So low undecided
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:45pm On Dec 05, 2013
vickyO:
And fun

wink
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 05, 2013
kayClt: Okay!!!! Truth be told,95percent of girls in nija don't appreciate flowers, cum to tink of it has BB stop manufacturing fones or has human hair gone out of stock,if u give a nija girl flowers she'll
properly dump it @ d nearest bin close to her.

Chop knucke dear! Real naija babe. So real & straight. Not those hypocrites demanding for flowers when they know they dont even value it.
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by texanomaly(f): 3:51pm On Dec 05, 2013
caesaraba: How do you guys live with yourselves throwing insults back and forth every darn day online? So low undecided
Where have I insulted anyone here?
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Give Flowers To Us: Why? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 05, 2013
texanomaly:

Just for you Obadiah tongue
I'll even chase it with this cause you are actually kinda sweet. kiss


@topic
If flowers are what you want, you go girl.
Tell your guy. Maybe it doesn't occur to him.

I often wonder why woman think men read their minds. It goes both ways. We don't read minds either. Geez people. Open your mouth and talk to each other. I mean IRL, not here in lala land.




awww suki suki now. thats an upgrade. from twisted to sweet grin grin kiss

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