LadyX:
Op, are you a lady?

Back to topic. Don't wait for too long or to get attached before saying the truth. If I were you, I would probably say it on day one.

U are absolutely ryt

U will get d one that will luv u for who u are just keep parying.d onec u meet don't luv u so don't worry ur self d ture one will come just keep fit.

LadyX:
Op, are you a lady?

Back to topic. Don't wait for too long or to get attached before saying the truth. If I were you, I would probably say it on day one.

Smart one.

GogetterMD:
Simple. Stop telling them, until they ask you

How can she not tell them?
Is that how deceitful you are.?
You want her to marry into a lie and make her life miserable when the guy inevitably find out.

Op, do not hesitate or feel bad telling dem d truth,is better to live on the truth side than deciet which could be disasaters later in life,any body dat wants u will surely love u for who u are divorcee or not,truth is life,

harkindele:

nice jean uv got there.

Thank you.

LadyX:
Op, are you a lady?

Back to topic. Don't wait for too long or to get attached before saying the truth. If I were you, I would probably say it on day one.

My advice, the right person will come for you...just be patient...
Pls don't even think of committing suicide.. Pls I. Use God beg you.

Tell them your status from day one.

Go back to ur husband no matter what. Am sure if u had waited enough to hear God He will tell u divoice is not an option. God hates divoice Mal2:13-17, Matt19:3-9. Go back to ur husband says the Lord. If he accepts u fine if not stay remember ur vows.

I salute the men that chose not to get involve with a divorced Woman.

Her past has shown that she does not have what it takes to run a family and is apt to making wrong choices.

OP, your rejection is part of the label and you're just going to keep the cycle until you find another divorcee or older gent or join a dating site.

EggovinMma:


EXACTLY!
Although it's a selfish decision but seriously WHO DOES NT WANT HAPPINESS?
Once bitten twice shy,it's a tough decision because she would have to deceive the man, but I suggest she confesses after some years.Else, before she go see man wey go marry her with the truth go really hard.

Actually,,,,,,,
50% of nowadays couples wouldn't have agreed to stayed together if their full colour were reviewed to each other during their dating period......
Now the gods are wise so she have to be wise, beside we are in the wise generation.......

myhoodlink:
A friend once had such problem which almost destroyed his marriage for not telling the lady of a child outside wedlock until after the wedding. I feel the earlier the better. Whosoever wish to stay should make up his mind from the onset while you tell him your status. If the one is okay by it, he will keep you. Afterall, we have seen widows getting married too. I pray God see you through. God bless Nigeria.

widow:no be her fault unless the man beleive you killed him
divorce:the men beleive its your fault(nagging)
she need friends who know it was the man that was abusive to market her

If you believe in God and you obey His commandments the rightful man would surely come and take you as you are. I know it's hard these days to get a husband after been divorced but nothing is impossible before God! Infact, God might provide to you a man who hasn't marry before, it is not more than what He can do..

hmmmm,pple in the house look the matter in physical and normal perspective but I want us to look at it both physical and spiritual implications.
this woman did not open up totally but let's look at it this way,
what of her husband might have some caused her that no man will love her. then what of it might be generational family problem or what of if the woman might have done something wrong in the past that now speak on her marital life.
out of all men that he met at least one or two of them will accept her situation.men are not so heatless when it turn to love like that.
ADVISE----go for deliverance and consult prophet I mean genuine man of God.
keep telling any man you meet about your past I know by Gods grace you will see your own husband

Sweets,I believe d right man will come,definitely.jst b patient.and let dem knw ure divorced.cos if u dnt tell dem,dey will still find out one way or d oda.and dat will b worse.jst tell dem ure divorced.any1 dt doesn't lik u lik dat,shud get d hell out.

missterious:
Eeyah. Then you chill na. Marriage is not by force.

What of,if you were also told to chill outta getting married¿

Next time a guy meet u with the intention of marrying you don't wait for long just open up if he really love you he will stay with you.

OP, nothing wrong in telling someone you are about entering into relationship about your past.

Do not be afraid because God who created you will surely grant you your heart desire. Be prayerful and be focused as I know that a day must come when that man MUST find you. Never be scared to go into relationship.

The bible made us to know that IT IS ONLY THE TRUTH THAT CAN SET US FREE.


So in essence, tell them the truth and the one who truly loves you for you, will accept you whole heartedly.

Peace.

tell him from day on when your hrt have not gone deep into him, so if he wants to leave let him take that decision early enough when your hrt have not gone deep into him. and always keep yoyr hrt neutral untill a man proves himself beyound every nrccessary doubt that he is willing to accept u irrespective of your past.

Dont be desperate to settle down, take life one at a time, after all you have tasted marriage before, so u really need to get it right this time.

The problem is that Biblically you are not supposed to Divorce,and if you so Divorce remain Single or be Reconciled back to your Husband,However,you are a victim of Societal Miscarriages,it's not GOD who put you through what you experienced,it's was your own foolishness. Now I won't advise that you search for another Husband,But most essentially,beg GOD for forgiveness,forgive everyone who hurts/offended you and plead with him(GOD) for another chance.. Our FATHER,is so so so Merciful to be gracious to you.
Then your real Man will appear
Now to all ladies,Don't Love any Man before you marry Him,you are only Commanded to love your own husband,and Submit to him,while he shows love to you . This is the Manufacturer's(GOD,ALMIGHTY) Specifications. So the several mistakes you are all making is Loving a Man/Guy you are not married to. Because you don't know what,how and when to Love. Let the men do there Job of Loving while you Acknowledge,encourage,appreciate but Definitely not to love them until they are your Husband.Some men may not love you but only wants a Bleep-mates,other just for fun,another just to please his family,another just for your money,another just to make you unhappy,another just to revenge,another because he's getting old. But marriage ought to be for love,companionship and friendship sake.
MAY THE ALIMIGHTY GOD,OUR FATHER,GRANT YOU ALL WISDOM AND CAUSE HIS FACE TO SHINE UPON YOU,AMEN.

LadyX:
Op, are you a lady?

Back to topic. Don't wait for too long or to get attached before saying the truth. If I were you, I would probably say it on day one.

He'll apologize and say I've done
nothing wrong, I have a good personality but he knows his family will not accept me cos of my marital status.

that may not really solve the issue...what if the guy just want to play around whether divorced or not.

you don't just tell everyone you meet about you past...its only when you feel something may likely happen

aariwa:
How about the al shabab .did their activities affect thhe kenyan tourism industry?

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Op. Show them the VIN and odometer as soon as they come inside your garage.. Don't reveal everything when they,ve already handled the steering and about to make the machine their own....

I hope you understand my language..

Nigeria is a very very hypocritical nation, we love tokunbos cars even when they are so bad as to give us one way ticket to hell..we love Tokunbo bras and undies even when they might give us everlasting kraw kraw and oko T. junction but boys are not smiling when it comes to second hand pussies even though some of us wouldn't mind climbing other people's wives maximally secured with Magun.

Keep smiling.. There are lots of men who would want to get hooked up with Ajadu women. hope you meet one soon.

tell him from day on when your hrt have not gone deep into him, so if he wants to leave let him take that decision early enough when your hrt have not gone deep into him. and always keep your hrt neutral untill a man proves himself beyound every neccessary doubt that he is willing to accept u irrespective of your past.

Dont be desperate to settle down, take life one at a time, after all you have tasted marriage before, so u really need to get it right this time.

upsonn:


My advice, the right person will come for you...just be patient...
Pls don't even think of committing suicide.. Pls I. Use God beg you.

It's not me jare

prettythicksme:
Do u read what op wrote at all? abi y are u aaking if op is a lady?

Pele...just modified the post

She probably needs to read this also - http://thenakedconvos.com/happiness-doesnt-begin-end-with-marriage-or-kids/

MAKE amendments with God coz God frowns at divorce only if adultery is involved..guls who have baby outside wedlock should also pray to God for the right person to avoid complications in the future,you will surely find a man..

Amusaopeyemi:

Thank you.

Uwc dear....u mind ffing back?