hi,
i really want to know how to get girls appreciate me very well.
have u got clues on that?

lets role on,

Just be yourself

stoping chasing them, let them chase u.

Be honest, truthful and social; and am sure they would love you.

live confortable and have something to show as a big boy, maybe you'll be the one to choose.
big boys don't fall in love they hang in love.
first do you have a well paid job? If not bury your total dream of having one.

Be yourself and be a man - dont let them walk all over you.
Let your yes be yes and no be no - women respect men that are in control.

Nice one adeboo

Na wah, ohhh!!!

Busta:

stoping chasing them, let them chase u.

Really?

become arrogant and they'll love u

oziomatv:

live confortable and have something to show as a big boy, maybe you'll be the one to choose.
big boys don't fall in love they hang in love.
first do you have a well paid job? If not bury your total dream of having one.

Hmmmmn!

moondust:

become arrogant and they'll love u

Good Advice from you Moondust,i guess that work for you

thanks for ur opinions!
well, sombody's opinion here boderd on finacial strenght of a guy. now i want to ask, is/should money really be a "factor" for a girl to love u?

zogo:

thanks for your opinions!
well, sombody's opinion here boderd on finacial strenght of a guy. now i want to ask, is/should money really be a "factor" for a girl to love u?

Going by topic, "to get girls to love me" money does not really matter. but u definitely need it to sustain the love if the relationship is on going and ur both struggling financially.

back@ topic, "get girls to love me" id say work on Ur confidence, personality and oral creativity. Confidence is a huge turn on for ladies and the more ur able to make a lady laugh & feel comfy around u, the more control u have over her mind.
This is based on personal experience. Read books on female psychology, get to to know & understand them better, then u can have a picture of what is going on in the mind of every female u come across (intelligently).
Before you speak, u can tell what her response will be, at this stage u can "manipulate" but don't be playing with people's heads, its unfair!

There's no magic behind it, think of it, big celebrities falling in love with their minders, dancers, even ordinary guys from very humble background. Not because these guys have money or fame, but they've unique personality and confidence that strikes this women differently! This creates the ATTRACTION (d chance 4u), then ur ability to make her laugh, feel special,& see every reason to spend every day wiv u, is what will c u thru.

Just go for it, having in mind that it is a normal thing to be turned down occasionally, (Attraction is not based on choice, it just happens) if its not there, u cant force it, so don't waste ur time with whoever doesn't show interest.

Seun, sorry for dis-obeying your rule by placing my mail address, but still wants to help Zogo, Zogo see what a casanova said----So what DO women want? What are their innermost desires?
Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep
inside, you will never be able to please them completely.
You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but
they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not
giving them what they really want.


Okay. So what DO women want?

Well,

After years of interviewing women and men who are
successful with women, I've come to realize that there is only
ONE thing most women want from a guy: the ability to surrender
to him.

Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.

Don't believe me? Just listen to what the following
girls have said to me in past interviews:

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Natalia, age 24: "I want to surrender to a guy. Not as in a
'wave a white flag and let him walk all over me' kind of way,
but in a, 'surrender to him completely because I feel so GOOD
around him' kind of way. My fantasy is to have my guy in
a suit, kissing down my neck while rubbing his hands all
over my body. I want him to whisper sexy things in my ears,
to make me feel I want to surrender to him, to let him take
charge of my body."

Meg, age 21: "I don't like guys that suck up to me. I mean,
I enjoy it when guys buy me drinks and try to flatter me,
but I am not going to be attracted to these men romantically.
I mean come on - I need a man who is stronger than me - not
a little boy. I want a REAL man who can love, nuture, and
protect me. I want a MAN I can ADMIRE, not a boy who admires
me!"

Sarah, age 28: "Men should realize that in today's world,
women do not NEED men; We DESIRE men. We make the same money
as them so we do not need their money. What we need is the
FEELING of being in love. The feeling of surrendering to our
innermost desires. Like, "I love him so much, I am willing to
give up everything - just for him."

--------------------------------------------------------------

Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman
that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me
up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give
myself to" kind of way.

Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T
want your hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want
is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS THEY FANTASIZE
IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.

They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how
he feels about me, ", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This
boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"

They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them,
not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE
feels SHE loves and admires YOU.

Listen:

There are tons of women out there that are WAITING to
surrender to you. Your dream date is NOT waiting for you to buy
her a flower or "gather the courage" to ask her out. She is
waiting for you to ENTER HER LIFE by making her feel "hopefully
in love" with you. She wants to feel weak in her legs and melt,
into your body.

So,

What if you knew EXCATLY how to interact with women
in a way that would make them feel they want to SURRENDER to you
completely? What if you could build sexual chemistry with women
in a way that would make them think about you every moment?

How would your life be different if you understood the
key to making women feel "weak" on the spot? Instead of feeding
them power by trying to "buy their love" with flowers, gifts, and
compliments, what if you could TAKE THAT POWER AWAY FROM THEM
and make them SURRENDER to YOU? You would be walking around like
a king because you would have complete confidence with women.
After all, Why would you be afraid of women if they are already
MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTED to you?

I am not kidding. This is the "magical ingredient" that
is going to change your success with women overnight. Women
are going to look at you with different eyes from now on
because you're always so darn attractive. Men are going to
look at you with envy because they have NO idea why YOU'RE
getting ALL the girls.

The only word i have for u is DO TO THEM WHAT SOEVER U WANT THEM TO DO FOR U.

@poster,

Be ur real self! be true to urself. . . Don't live ya life to pls anybody. Just like adeboo said.

@moondust, so being arrogant can make a girl love u

efuah - abeg help me ham , some people go just feel like post rubbish!

Think someone has been visiting too many dating sites!

mecussey:

Seun, sorry for this-obeying your rule by placing my mail address, but still wants to help Zogo, Zogo see what a casanova said----So what DO women want? What are their innermost desires?
Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep
inside, you will never be able to please them completely.
You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but
they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not
giving them what they really want.

* SO WHAT WOMEN WANT IS AN INSENSITIVE, ARROGANT, STINGY, THICK SKULLED, COCKY, IDIOT WITH NO PERSONALITY & SELF CONFIDENCE?

mecussey:

Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.

Right! But i don't think a wise woman will surrender her life to a dickhead that doesn't appreciate her!

mecussey:

Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman
that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me
up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give
myself to" kind of way.

Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T
want your hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want
is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS THEY FANTASIZE
IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.

They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how
he feels about me, ", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This
boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"

They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them,
not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE
feels SHE loves and admires YOU.

You don't say to ur self, i want to have an attraction for him/her, It happens without you deciding, and only when the "aura" is there. Therefore how can you walk around pissing people off with ur arrogance & expect attraction? Besides, attraction is the first stage of any union, after which psychological compatibility comes in, if you don't have things in common, there will definitely be a repulsion.

I'd say too many compliments, sorry letters, gifts(sometimes unnecessary), make you look clingy, desperate, weak & "part of the crowd". However these, if used appropriately can be used to convey powerful messages and inner expressions that words cannot. (especially gifts). But i'm not saying d poster should allow himself be exploited by ladies.

I personally think the idea of "BE COCKY, BE ARROGANT" going on these days only work with ladies with very looooooow self esteem, who practically "have no choice".

So its a matter of taste, i wouldn't go for a lady left with no choice (lailai!). How then can she make me feel on top of da world?

@post
i think if you want to get a woman to love you. . . .you've got to have a good sense of humor. i love a man who makes me laugh, but also takes me serious.

hmmmmmmmmm

hey poster,

Here's a PARTIAL list of what creates that
ATTRACTION in women:

- Unpredictable

- Uncontrollable

- Challenging

- Dominant

Of course, there are many more, but this will
get you in the right course from the start.

Dont you hearr ladies say" i feel something for him", they didnt choose to , it just happened and its about the emotions so they have no control over it, ATTRACTION ISNT A CHOICE.

yeah yeah

Well! Guy, u 1st check or ask urself this ar U Good Looking? Jus be urself,be hornesy, be nice to them not too nice ,so u wont be taken aventage of. Try as much as posible not to say the turth about urself,and dont brage,
Let her know how u feel about her. in other words jus be nice clean and simple,u dont need money to win her over .it all hav to do with what u say and the time u say it and how u say it,
take care bro,

sell your dad's property and give the money

@mecussey,
O think you are just a master of the game, no flattering. I'm talking from xperience. In fact u will discover that what got a girl crazy about you doesn't often make sense, i mean attraction happens illogically and she just cant help it.

@poster, pls dont over-use them cos i wont be there when girls will turn your house to a battlefield! LOL

iz2much:

sell your dad's property and give the money

u wicked oh

@ poster

juz b urslf!!!!

a girl shuld luv u 4 who/what u are!!!

Dont tell me you dont know - Just buy her a car

There is nothing you can do