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Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Dimples316(f): 1:42pm On Aug 06, 2012
@ pendo89

Thanks girl, the feeling is mutual. One love wink
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by ripo(m): 1:44pm On Aug 06, 2012
Beaty can either serve as an asset or liability. An asset in d sense dat it open door. E.g u hardly find ugly gals doing some certain jobs, except dey are extra-brilliant. Dis xplains why u find beautiful gals in d banking hall. In an interview, a more beautiful gal with a particular grade will most likely b considered dan a less beautiful one wit dsame grade. A liability in d sense dat beauty can cause distraction from guys. Such distractions might affect academics if not well managed. No wonder u find few of dem in science class
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by blackmale(m): 1:46pm On Aug 06, 2012
having gone through the thread, everybody,s point is noted,,, but i will rather be on the safer side sha o(BEING CUTE).... grin
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by fubbyy(m): 1:51pm On Aug 06, 2012
Ustec: @poster,Guy u re right,dos re all what i face sinz i was a small child till now ,..but all what u stated mostly appens 2 handsome guys not often to beautifull ladies..pendo89 post are what beautiful ladies encountered...my 2go acct is bio4reel,check me out 2 confirm

This is exactly what am talking about, ugly people always make noise, oboy I just added you on 2go, u no follow @ all
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Kellymaryblizz: 1:51pm On Aug 06, 2012
pendo89:

The only reason why beauty could work to ur disadvantage is if you allow it to replace your brains.
When you start seeing the world through ur beauty,ul realise that it doesn't work because there is always a more beautiful person than you.
The effects don't last long.
But personality is a treasure that helps you conquer the world

you are soooo right.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Tolaaaaannni(f): 1:52pm On Aug 06, 2012
Kill me then because i don't think tonto dikeh is pretty. Egabmi o. kini a gbe kini a ju. I have a differen't perspective of what beauty is. if you no like am, that wan na your own palava.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 06, 2012
Emmy9ite: 1. Girls fight for me too much

2. They think i am a cheat,cos i look like Ronaldo.

3. Guys think i am a gay.

4. The attention i get is too much,even on nairaland,thz girls keep flocking! cheesy

Crazily funny dude. You have said it as it concerns you. I appreciate.

In addition, anywhere you go, someone wants to follow you home. Hahaha
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 06, 2012
I understand your point about 'beauty in the hands of the beholder et al'

But you can't possibly be beautiful here and be 'repulsive' there!
About your friend-- Does he/she think Beyonce is ugly or just doesn't find her attractuve? It is two different things!

If it's the first,then...................
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 2:03pm On Aug 06, 2012
And i already said you might not agree with the magazine...don't know why you're using it as a point!
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Mbuko91(m): 2:16pm On Aug 06, 2012
seedord247:

This is more than mean grin grin grin grin grin
lwkmd....proffessor of advanced sarcasm and literary studies
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Euroclydon(m): 2:45pm On Aug 06, 2012
I love you Pendo89...even if u turn out to be ugly,i dont mind! grin ur brain is beautiful!
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pazienza(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2012
I always rank myself as average,but from my experience, 95% of people who thinks they are goodlooking,are either average or below average. Most times in 2go rooms whenever you see people with beauty/handsome/pretty/cute/etc,attached to their room names,when u add them,they usually turn out to be average or below average,some of them are even UGLY.

Bottom line: most times,we don't see ourselves the way other people do.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by tpia5: 3:00pm On Aug 06, 2012
What exactly are we calling good looking btw because beauty is subjective.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by davades(m): 3:03pm On Aug 06, 2012
-You're perceived - by myopic
people - as a player.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 3:24pm On Aug 06, 2012
This is a kinda dumb topic, unless you look like a pro model there wont be too many downsides to attractiveness.

If your a dude and your complaining about looking good then you need to get a grip wink And if your a chick you would stop wearing make-up... but you wont do that because you are lieing.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 3:26pm On Aug 06, 2012
pleep: This is a kinda dumb topic, unless you look like a pro model there wont be too many downsides to attractiveness.

If your a dude and your complaining about looking good then you need to get a grip wink And if your a chick you would stop wearing make-up... but you wont do that because you are lieing.

am a pro model smiley
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 3:27pm On Aug 06, 2012
lol... everyone is on the internet.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 3:34pm On Aug 06, 2012
pleep: lol... everyone is on the internet.

grin

lol why do you think I like making beauty threads smiley
I was born into beauty paegents and modelling
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 3:38pm On Aug 06, 2012
onila:

grin

lol why do you think I like making beauty threads smiley
I was born into beauty paegents and modelling
cuz u weird i dunno. smiley

But hey, you very well could be a model. The reason i don't believe it is because you probably would have had your picture up at one point. Models aren't camera shy.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 3:45pm On Aug 06, 2012
pleep: cuz u weird i dunno. smiley

But hey, you very well may be a model but the reason i don't believe it is because you probably would have had your picture up at one point. Models aren't camera shy.

I am not camera shy. my personality on NL is very different from my personality in REAL life smiley
In real life I never fight or insult pple unlike on NL grin
I am more reserved and gentle. .dont want pple 2 judge me as the same person on NL

U dont have 2 be model type before you get hated

if your a pretty girl esp if u take pples boyfriends from girls will you be hated by fellow women (another topic)
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 3:49pm On Aug 06, 2012
if your a pretty girl esp if u take pples boyfriends from girls will you be hated by fellow women (another topic)
I can see why they hate you.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how highly would you rate yourself? smiley And if attractiveness is so difficult for you why do you still wear make-up? (don't lie)
BTW. From what i've seen, in herds of females the most attractive one is usually the leader and the most popular.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by tpia5: 4:12pm On Aug 06, 2012
pazienza: I always rank myself as average,but from my experience, 95% of people who thinks they are goodlooking,are either average or below average. Most times in 2go rooms whenever you see people with beauty/handsome/pretty/cute/etc,attached to their room names,when u add them,they usually turn out to be average or below average,some of them are even UGLY.

Bottom line: most times,we don't see ourselves the way other people do.

i totally agree.

i've noticed a lot of times, people who are weird looking tend to insist they're beautiful when talking about themselves.

dont know if its a defence mechanism or something.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Kayflexy1(f): 4:16pm On Aug 06, 2012
u get chased by homosexual nah shocked kiss
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 4:16pm On Aug 06, 2012
pleep: I can see why they hate you.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how highly would you rate yourself? smiley And if attractiveness is so difficult for you why do you still wear make-up? (don't lie)
BTW. From what i've seen, in herds of females the most attractive one is usually the leader and the most popular.

I think 7

And if attractiveness is so difficult for you why do you still wear make-up?
I wear make up because as a woman i have 2. .

I can see why they hate you.

well i wasnt refering 2 me but girls that use their beauty to do evil. .women hate those kind of evil girls

From what i've seen, in herds of females the most attractive one is usually the leader and the most popular.

not always the case, she might be attractive but not the most but usually the girl that has more game and respect
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by kandiikane(m): 4:24pm On Aug 06, 2012
onila:

I am not camera shy. my personality on NL is very different from my personality in REAL life smiley
In real life I never fight or insult pple unlike on NL grin
I am more reserved and gentle. .dont want pple 2 judge me as the same person on NL

U dont have 2 be model type before you get hated

if your a pretty girl esp if u take pples boyfriends from girls will you be hated by fellow women (another topic)

Lmaoo@taking people's boyfriends

You mean husbands. Lmfao! tongue
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 4:29pm On Aug 06, 2012
kandiikane:

Lmaoo@taking people's boyfriends

You mean husbands. Lmfao! tongue

both of them shocked
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by latest1(m): 4:57pm On Aug 06, 2012
chia
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 5:19pm On Aug 06, 2012
U get noticed very easy,even at time wen u dnt need dat,
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by ripo(m): 5:22pm On Aug 06, 2012
Onila, I like ur type. Its a pity we are miles apart.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2012
[b]onlia [/b]I wear make up because as a woman i have 2. .
No you dont, there is no rule that says women must wear make-up.
You wear make-up because you want to look better. If you thought being attractive was a liability you wouldn't try to make yourself more attractive.

Its just like those people who wear skin tight shorts to draw attention but get mad when people look. They also get mad if people dont look.

Girl you are confused, get a grip wink

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Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by onila(f): 5:35pm On Aug 06, 2012
pleep: No you dont, there is no rule that says women must wear make-up.
You wear make-up because you want to look better. If you thought being attractive was a liability you wouldn't try to make yourself more attractive.

Its just like those people who wear skin tight shorts to draw attention but get mad when people look. They also get mad if people dont look.

Girl you are confused, get a grip wink





almost every lady wears make up . .you have 2 look presentable not just because pple are going 2 hate on you
I have 2 look neat @ all time. .make up not much makes you look nice. .@ the end image matters
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Ecalos: 5:40pm On Aug 06, 2012
Let me Guess..

You all just graduated High School or something right?? Because the conversation on this thread is what was discussed in high school...

Grow up and broaden your horizons kids....There is more to life that physical beauty...The world is seeing beyond that..

Beauty is relative and not subjected to the outside appearance alone...

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