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Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50 by britgirlee(f): 9:05am On Dec 23, 2007
Hi Guys

In your relationship short or long term do you find that you pay for everything?

* Culturally Men are normally subjected to this but as time evolves this can also be associated with Women*

I will give examples:

Do you pay for all the meals every time you go out?

Is your partner always asking you to pay for things eg jewelry, clothes and shoes,etc

Are you expected to pay the rent or mortgage on their property?

Do you pay for their education fees?

Do they drive your car or expect you to buy them one?

Do you feel like their personal banker and are you VERY HAPPY with this situation after all its your Duty .

OR

Are you quite happy to split every expense down the middle to ensure fairness

Your views please Nairalanders wink
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50 by lailai2(m): 1:05am On Dec 28, 2007
it simply depends on how close d couple are, they are supposed to be one but these days, no one trusts the other 100% so one is already calculating for the future in case,
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50 by britgirlee(f): 10:48am On Dec 31, 2007
lai-lai:

it simply depends on how close d couple are, they are supposed to be one but these days, no one trusts the other 100% so one is already calculating for the future in case,

You can rest assured some women/men have already done thier research on the individual and have calculated how they are going to provide for the future shocked
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50 by iice(f): 1:08pm On Dec 31, 2007
Well that was illuminating undecided
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50 by lailai2(m): 11:26pm On Dec 31, 2007
@britgirlee
they call it backup, its just too risky especially with the rate of breakups nowadays

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