Guys: How do you intend to propose to your future wife? Any romantic or fresh ideas?

Ladies: What is your most romantic fantasy of a marriage proposal? How/where do you want your man to propose to you?

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well i dont would not want him to toe the normal line i.e having the ring inside a cup of icecream or cake.Something very romantic and from the heart.Anyway bottom line is dat he proposes!

Ain't the freaky type about the Ice-cream, cake, wine stuff proposals, so it doesn't really matter where/how he does it as long as he could make me shed tears of joy for finally having someone to call mine!

a romantic proposal right? hmmm, how about a nice candle light dinner, in a romantic setting o. where soft music is playing in the background. Maybe a slow song, let us say "Endless Love" with a nice glass of red wine. A rose on the side of my plate and my guy looking into my eyes and singing along with the song. then when the song is true, he adds his own words in a sing - song manner saying "will u marry me?" then with a flourish, reaches in the helm of his coat and brings out a ring. (mushy rite?) romantic enuff na

i would take her to our favorite resturant or most memorable location or spot, then arange that a fake opening be organized then ensure i gat her pictures on the wall of the resturant about ten of them from moments we have sheard then have one of her favorite nigerian musician around incase its a YES, then while we eating the manager comes up tells us to help onvail thier new potrate and that which we onvail shall read HONI PLEASE WOULD YOU MARRY ME, IF SHE YES GOOD FOR ME now the singer comes in we kiss and we onvail the rest and hell yah they will be cameras around from start to finish. well if she says no what the heck we will still do it all,

janami:

a romantic proposal right? hmmm, how about a nice candle light dinner, in a romantic setting o. where soft music is playing in the background. Maybe a slow song, let us say "Endless Love" with a nice glass of red wine. A rose on the side of my plate and my guy looking into my eyes and singing along with the song. then when the song is true, he adds his own words in a sing - song manner saying "will u marry me?" then with a flourish, reaches in the helm of his coat and brings out a ring. (mushy rite?) romantic enough na

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janami:

a romantic proposal right? hmmm, how about a nice candle light dinner, in a romantic setting o. where soft music is playing in the background. Maybe a slow song, let us say "Endless Love" with a nice glass of red wine. A rose on the side of my plate and my guy looking into my eyes and singing along with the song. then when the song is true, he adds his own words in a sing - song manner saying "will u marry me?" then with a flourish, reaches in the helm of his coat and brings out a ring. (mushy rite?) romantic enough na

ah!! 9jah gurl.u still want chop for beta restaurant while he proposes abi.u no chop for house?na dia u wan eat ur nite food abi?

denseng:

i would take her to our favorite resturant or most memorable location or spot, then arange that a fake opening be organized then ensure i gat her pictures on the wall of the resturant about ten of them from moments we have sheard then have one of her favorite nigerian musician around incase its a YES, then while we eating the manager comes up tells us to help onvail their new potrate and that which we onvail shall read HONI PLEASE WOULD YOU MARRY ME, IF SHE YES GOOD FOR ME now the singer comes in we kiss and we onvail the rest and hell yah they will be cameras around from start to finish. well if she says no what the heck we will still do it all,

@denseng
u have bin watching 2much movies lately,

hhmmmmm.

IN A LONELY PLACE

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Personally I love surpises, so just being proposed to sometime when I do not expect it. And it has to be original, something that means something to us, as a couple. I really do not like doing things the way everyone else does; it drives me crazy!!

Proposals do not have to be expensive or complicated either.
I know someone who when her husband proposed it was really simple but also very sweet and romantic. They were at a friends and the couple walked outside because the guy wanted to talk/give her something. She thought he was going to propose and give her a ring. But then he gave her a bouquet of flowers, and she relaxed, thinking she was just being silly. But once he saw her relax like that he when propose. She was so surprised. I saw them a couple hours later, and when it was brought up tears of joy came to her face again.

sylvex:

Ain't the freaky type about the Ice-cream, cake, wine stuff proposals, so it doesn't really matter where/how he does it as long as he could make me shed tears of joy for finally having someone to call mine!

Hmmmmmmmmmm, i like this.

Tears of joy!

i don't want no romantic bla bla when being proposed to. Its the truthfulness to the significance of the ring that matters to me.

Anyways in Africa peeps can almost tell where their relationship is heading at, so the ring hardly becomes a surprise, only welcomed. That's if it doesn't end up being on the day of ur traditional wedding. . Hey no beefs some guys don't see d need.

I partly agree with jk,
i've seen a situation where my friend proposed to a girl and she told him she needed d consent of her parents b/4 accepting his ring.
We simply cant rule out d fact that dis is africa and what u might consider romantic may mean nothing to ur girlfriend - how frustating,
even with d coming of western civilization proporsals like this still mean nothing to d woman, 4 some, traditional marriage marks d beginning of some thing serious.

Geez, I wonder why women dwell on this.
You spend so much time thinking about getting married
Isn't it romantic and nice enough that a guy who wants to spend the rest of his life with you summons the balls to propose anyway.
Why all the hoopla about the level of production?
Oh please,

@9star
lol. make i chop well well jare. i know say as soon as i accept like this before i see restaurant again, e go tey small. na my own kitchen i go land o

abegie its 2008 jare!

why not a wild and crazy proposal?

e.g the guy screams [b]marry me [/b]when you are both bungee- jumping (900 fts ) of a bridge Naked! " "

Oga o.
Well, it would have to be a well kept secret cause i find everything out cause am real nosey.

It would have to be an everyday event and he would just say some sweet worthwhile word to me - meaningful words and then he would pull out the ring with a size able diamond on it - and the same size diamond would be a pendant on the chain he gives to me as well.
So in total, i would have two diamonds one on ma finger. and one around ma neck- so ill be his FOREVER.