Dear pals, Pls kindly drop ur advice.....its nw two yrs since I've known my boyfriend. In d course of our getting to knw each oDa he got to knw abt my past relationships.Some of his friends thot we wil never make dis far, sm tried their best to tear us apart, they are still trying.Sometimes my bf just picks a fight wit me dt I'm nt being sincere and I'm still seeing certain pple behind him.I've tried proving mysef to him bt he dosent want to knw and now he is giving his friends a chance to seperate US by giving thoughts to their side talks.I really dnt knw wt his intentions are,my fingers are crossed.

Am still trying to digest your message.it is too filled with abbreviations like nw,knw dt,wit etc.

Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed your friends are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up o

megliz: I really dnt knw wt his intentions are,my fingers are crossed.

How are we suppose to know what his intentions are.
We are not mind readers here o

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your reputation (assuming you have one) is following you around. What is it about you that makes his friends suspect you? If his friends have no reason to suspect you, then why don't they like you?

If you have been with him for two years and you cant get a fix on his mind, what makes you think we can?

If u'v been wif him for 2yrs in sincerity, u certainly dnt need an advice. He isn't worth it. Find ur way out

xynerise: Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed your friends are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up o

Not my friends but His.

I wonder how ur past has been. But why are his friends bent on seperating u guys. Men friends don't like it when their friend date a hole, do they have reason to think u are a hole?

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your reputation (assuming you have one) is following you around. What is it about you that makes his friends suspect you? If his friends have no reason to suspect you, then why don't they like you?[/quote/ Its not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers.

omega25red: poster

your reputation (assuming you have one) is following you around. What is it about you that makes his friends suspect you? If his friends have no reason to suspect you, then why don't they like you?

Its not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers.

I wonder o, like say NL's baba alawoz. That's what u get when u jump from one niccur to another mtchww

Mynd_44: If you have been with him for two years and you cant get a fix on his mind, what makes you think we can?

Them don turn us to Mr/mrs fix it

What exactly are you doing that is making him think you are cheating? Time to have a sit down and talk moment with him

megliz: Not my friends but His.

no lele now, invite them for lunch and poison them. Na the same result na

@OP
one fact that i havent been able to confirm in your posts IS: have you ever cheated on him, or not?!

megliz: Its not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers.

well from your statement seems like you are dating a small boy. Only small boys let his friends influence his decisions about who he chooses to be with. If i were you i would keep my options open as far as dating because since he can be easily influenced like that , who is to say his friends wont hook him up with another girl when you aren't around/

megliz: Some of his friends thot we wil never make dis far, sm tried their best to tear us apart, they are still trying.now he is giving[b]his friends[/b]a chance to seperate US by giving thoughts to their side talks.

^^^

xynerise: Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed[b]your friends[/b]are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up o

Learn to Read properly before commenting

Pls forget abt him joor,he doesnt love u

He doesn't trust you and a relationship were there's no trust won't work,are you sure you are not doing things that will make him not trust you?e.g lieing about somethings which he laterr discovers or picking several calls while you are with him,if u are really faithful an he still won't bliv you,pls run ooooo cos he will never trust you even when married then problem sets in.

Mynd_44: Them don turn us to Mr/mrs fix it

who be us? Shey this one think say him don ever give reasonable advice ni?

boron10:
who be us? Shey this one think say him don ever give reasonable advice ni?

okay, you have made your point now go sit on your thumb as usual

U are not cheating yet he says u are, then may be u shud just start cheating @least then u know his accusations are not false and u will feel better.


Simple things made difficult

ENZO SCIFO: U are not cheating yet he says u are, then may be u shud just start cheating @least then u know his accusations are not false and u will feel better.


Simple things made difficult

exactly what I saidd to him that if I was actually cheating on hhim and he says all these to me then I won't feel Bad.I feel worse. Wen I'm being aaccused of the wrong things.

Ok OP. Talk true here. Have you been cheating on him? No lie, ok. Na virtual things we dey. Just tell me

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sexyshe: He doesn't trust you and a relationship were there's no trust won't work,are you sure you are not doing things that will make him not trust you?e.g lieing about somethings which he laterr discovers or picking several calls while you are with him,if u are really faithful an he still won't bliv you,pls run ooooo cos he will never trust you even when married then problem sets in.

as for calls its when I'm with him some stupid calls will come in and even wen I don't want to pick their calls it arouses suspicions.Most of these calls are harmless calls. Long time friends with no strings attached.

D-Explorer:
Ok OP. Talk true here. Have you been cheating on him? No lie, ok. Na virtual things we dey. Just tell me

in every sense I would say NO! But the admirers are just too much of which I already know their intentions and I'm not giving it a try.

megliz: in every sense I would say NO! But the admirers are just too much of which I already know their intentions and I'm not giving it a try.

Do you recieve too many calls in his presence? Talk tru here o

D-Explorer:

Do you recieve too many calls in his presence? Talk tru here o

in the early stage of our relationship but now its reduced to the barest minimal I can go a day or more without fone calls.

megliz: in the early stage of our relationship but now its reduced to the barest minimal I can go a day or more without fone calls.

Good!! Make him trust you. He probably had seen a sign or something somehow. Make him believe in you again. Even though a rela. shouldn't be like a cell, watch your ways with any dude around. Keep your phone clean and note those areas he's suspecting you and adjust. That does it

D-Explorer:

Good!! Make him trust you. He probably had seen a sign or something somehow. Make him believe in you again. Even though a rela. shouldn't be like a cell, watch your ways with any dude around. Keep your phone clean and note those areas he's suspecting you and adjust. That does it

Thanks so much for your candid advice.