Hello nlers, I need Ūя̲̅ sincere advise on dis matter. I'd appreciate it if u don't say abusive or hateful words here.

There's this guy dat works in dsame company with ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ but not in dsame department with ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ tho. I've known him for a while bt as tym went by, we fell inlove with each other (wish I avoided it). It grew stronger everyday and I was beginning to see him as D ONE. Bt the problem is dis, he's the nephew of one of my directors. When my director (his uncle) found out he told him straight to stop d affair. Right now we've separated, I'm heartbroken, I feel terrible n I don't knw wat to do. It won't be easy for ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ to seee him everyday @ work without feeling down. Wat do I do now??
Pls I need Ūя̲̅ advise on hw to handle dis...

Pls pardon my errors, I didn't proof read.

bbporsche: Hello nlers, I need Ūя̲̅ sincere advise on dis matter. I'd appreciate it if u don't say abusive or hateful words here.

There's this guy dat works in dsame company with ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ but not in dsame department with ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ tho. I've known him for a while bt as tym went by, we fell inlove with each other (wish I avoided it). It grew stronger everyday and I was beginning to see him as D ONE. Bt the problem is dis, he's the nephew of one of my directors. When my director (his uncle) found out he told him straight to stop d affair. Right now we've separated, I'm heartbroken, I feel terrible n I don't knw wat to do. It won't be easy for ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ to seee him everyday @ work without feeling down. Wat do I do now??
Pls I need Ūя̲̅ advise on hw to handle dis...

Pls pardon my errors, I didn't proof read.

Very simple resign

Hmmmm, @bbporsche! Pls nxt time endevour to use normal typeing font, nt evrybdy's fortunate 2own a bb........ Dat said, office rule number 1- dash shall not be involved in office romance.............. Solution, try to be professional in your dealing wit him. U'r lucky u guys ar nt in d same dept. Btw, wats his take on d breakup?

Have u searched ur mind thoroughly that what you felt was actually love and not lust because it will be disastrous if u resign and still lose him. BTW, is he feeling the same way you are feeling? If yes, then you've got to sit him down, talk some senses into his head as per your decision (bearing in mind that good jobs are not easy to come by this days). If no, keep your job and move ahead.

Have u guys had 53x?

@K2039; he doesn't support d idea of resignation cos I asked him

@sijo01; noted!
He feels terrible too bt we've been encouraging ourselves

@Jhydebaba; I knw d differences btw love n lust. He feels terrible like I said earlier. I am nt resigning.

@Kamadiran; dats nt necessary.

Thnks for your advices, expecting more

I've heard of a case like this before but three two lovers were willing to leave their jobs for each other. Good thing you two are not like those mumus in this case. Only thing I suggest is to either have a secret relationship until one if you find a better or another workplace or just leave the relationship if it's not worth fighting for. refrain looking@him and whenever he comes to your mind, think of something else to distract you. only time can heal

bbporsche: It won't be easy for ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ to seee him everyday @ work without feeling down. Wat do I do now??

bbporsche: @K2039; [size=13pt]he doesn't support d idea of resignation cos I asked him

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Is this suppose to be about what he wants or what is good for you.

I guess you not ready yet,you better wake up and face reality(all this I love him,I need him,I cant do without him,pisses me off),NEVER forget you were born without him. And that there are hundreds more like him and thousands more that are even better than him.
If he truly loves you he will talk to his uncle(as for me I cant imagine one uncle telling me crap about who and who not to marry(except sey the uncle smoke weed)).Wake up and face reality,IT MAY LIKELY NOT WORK OUT.Mentally accept the worst -- that you don’t have him at all -- and go from there. Let him go...

No matter how far you’ve gone down the wrong road,you can turn back(but know this, the more farther you go the harder it becomes to turn back)


MY 2 CENT
Keep your emotional distance, or you will keep getting hurt.
The ball is in his court if he truly loves you he will talk sense to his uncle.
Assume the worst and move on,If he is yours things will work out eventually.
For now their is little you can do,everything depends on him,protect your heart and emotions,keep your distance

@ all: thank u so much, I feel relieved on dis forum. I think d best thing to do is move on with my lyf and keep my distance.

Overdose on cro and zone out.

@Op google how to deal with separation. So much has been written on this.

@djeezy: jst did n it's been helpful. Thanks