"Marriage is a sacred
covenant done between a
man and a woman in the
presence of God.It is
designed for a
companionship and
intimacy, BUT, most
Importantly GOD designed
Marriage to please HIM!"
A) Taking your spouse for
granted..? NEVER take your
Spouse for granted! Learn
to LOVE & RESPECT your
spouse.
B) Keeping your spouse
waiting not being there
when they need you...?
DON'T keep your spouse
waiting. Appreciate their
needs and be ON TIME.
C) Not listening...? - LISTEN
to what your spouse has
to say and be
compassionate. DON'T yell!
E)Not sharing...? - Many
spouse's keep to
themselves, they do not
tell their mates what
bothers them, problems at
work, relationship and so
forth You must
COMMUNICATE.
F) Not spending time
together...? - Many
spouse's do not do things
together, they think the
other may not be
interested or will not
participate because he/
she does not care.
But, try asking and be
willing to do it together.
Make it happen worthwhile
for both of you. SPEND
TIME! happiness is a
choice.
♥ EIGHT Happy Lifestyles
for Married Couples
1-Start Praying with each
other Together on a DAILY
basis.
2-Hug , Smile and Laugh
with each other a lot.
3-Create a mutual
satisfying Love and a
Friendship bond.
4-Use Good communication
skills to resolve any angry
issues.
5-Create a safe place to
discuss issues openly and
honestly. Be Honest.
6-Give each other Physical,
emotional and mental
Pleasure.
7-Influence your lives with
shared meaning - When
couples share truly
meaningful experiences,
they bond on a deeper
level. Lead and Enjoy a
Meaningful Family Life.
8-Happily married couples
have ways to constantly
be Emotionally Close with
each other by showing
Love, Care, Respect,
Discipline-ship, Humbleness
& Responsibility. keeping
God and Family as their
First Priority brings
success and a Healthy well
being.
♥ FIFTEEN MUST DO's
with your SPOUSE!
PRAY! (Daily)
OBEY!
RESPECT!
LOVE!
LISTEN!
LAUGH!
HELP to COOK!
be HONEST!
be HUMBLE!
TALK!
FORGIVE!
FLIRT! (Go on a date just
the two of you)
HUG!
KISS!
&
(of course Enjoy)
SEX!
Marriage should be a Best
Friend Relationship
Forever!
ENJOY the little things and
moments with each other.
One day you will realize
those were the biggest
moments you enjoyed in
your lifetime! Be Happy,
Blessed and Enjoy each
and every moments with
your BELOVED! Keep your
marriage bed PURE and be
FAITHFUL to each other till
the end.
Both the husband and the
wife must recognize their
blessings and responsibilitie
s in the marriage
relationship. The Bible
says, "Let the husband
render unto the wife due
benevolence:and likewise
also the wife unto the
husband. The wife hath
not power of her own
body, but the husband: and
likewise also the husband
hath not the power of his
own body, but the wife.
Defraud ye not one the
other, except it be with
consent for a time, that ye
may give yourselves to
fasting and prayer; and
come together again, that
Satan tempt you not for
your incontinence" - (1
Corinthians 7:3-5).

Good tips. Nothing is perfect sha

Arrowman: BUT, most
Importantly GOD designed
Marriage to please HIM!"

SMH

@Poster, if it possible to advice that you stay clear of all these "10 secrets/whatever to better/good/best/whatever marriage" topics/lists etc out there, then I am doing just that. Many of these lists/tips were writing by people who themselves have likely been unlucky in love or are struggling in their relationships, some oblivious to it all.

Tips will only get you so far . . even couples whose relationships fail in every aspect of that list above can still survive. It all depends on the people involved and how much effort they are willing to put in to work on their marriage and their relationship.

It is sort of like happiness. At the end of the day, no list can help you be happy. One has to make a personal decision to be happy and enjoy one's life the way one sees fit.

Kobojunkie: @Poster, if it possible to advice that you stay clear of all these "10 secrets/whatever to better/good/best/whatever marriage" topics/lists etc out there. Many of these lists/tips were writing by people who themselves have likely been unlucky in love or are struggling in their relationship but oblivious to it.

Tips will only get you so far . . even couples whose relationships fail in every aspect of that list above can still survive. It all depends on the people involved and how much effort they are willing to put in to work on their marriage and their relationship.

It is sort of like happiness. At the end of the day, no list can help you be happy. One has to make a personal decision to be happy and enjoy one's life the way one sees fit.

Kobo,i honestly agree with the bold part.

Privacy. . . .DATING OTHERS TO SPICE THING UP!

Monogamy is super boring! Tufiakwa!

Keep your friends away from your husband and vice versa!

NEVER HANG OUT WITH SINGLE PEOPLE. . .DIVORCED OR WIDOWED!!!! Unless you find yourself in such positions AFTER MARRIAGE. . .WITHOUT REPLACEMENT!!!

Always stick to your own kind!!! ALWAYS!!!