Girls and women compete more to hook boyfriends and husbands than even jobs and other important things in life.
They fight over the attention and attraction of guys. Especially for the handsome and successful guys.
I have seen them at war in the office and in the residence.
A girlfriend can browbeat you to death when she sees another girl in your company even before finding out who she is.

I believe they are wired to be envious and jealous of themselves.
But they are doing more harm than good to themselves by this cold and open war among themselves.
That is why they are still lagging behind men in the boardrooms all over the world, except in few cases where the Alpha Female, a stronger breed of women overcomes her weakness to achieve greatness in the workplace.

They can pretend for a while before showing their true colours and claws.
Even a married ex-girlfriend feels jealous hearing you speaking to your female companion on phone.
I mean why should a married ex-girlfriend still compete for your attention with single women?
Why should she be swaying her buttocks to and fro whenever she sees a girlfriend with you?
Even stalking you as you are seeing the girlfriend to the taxi cabs park.

Hello!
Guys are not so competitive over girls and women.
They are more competitive over power and success.
Because they know that once they succeed and have power, that's the magnet to hook as many girls and women as they like.

I will advise girls and women to stop going nuts over the attention and possession of guys and focus on their careers and success.

Boys, husbands, men, marriage are highly valued in African cultures especially in Nigeria. That's why you see women "managing" men even though he just threw a pot of hot water on her.

Men are highly valued. A woman without a man is deemed lowly, cheap, less than. - that's the truth of the matter. A woman dreams of marriage first before thinking of become a pilot or an astronaut.

The sane reason why guys gamble and disturb themselves over English premiership games