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Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 10:40pm On Sep 28, 2012
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Lawconfessor(f): 11:04pm On Sep 28, 2012
Heiyaaa!

It wil nt be a nice option for me to start pitying u 'cos it wont help...
Somtyms, letting go becoms d best. Apart frm creating rum 4 u to fink, analyse, construct n forge ahead... Once u let go, if its truely urs, definitely it'll com bak. Cos i beliv dt d fins u luv wil always com bak to u.


Bt....u jst let ha go witout lukin bak- Y?
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 11:27pm On Sep 28, 2012
[quote author=Law-confessor]Heiyaaa!
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by laberry101(m): 12:54am On Sep 29, 2012
Got hyper high in every way necessary ...I think it and it's done. Then I slept
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by obowunmi(m): 1:30am On Sep 29, 2012
Find another chick. Get busy.
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by KateSpade(f): 1:35am On Sep 29, 2012
Break-ups are never easy. I would suggest just take time to focus on things you like, hang out with friends, never be that serious with someone else until you feel more secure and less vulnerable.
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 1:44am On Sep 29, 2012
Lol u aint the only one who went on a rampage on a socialnetwork after the break up.I did that too,it felt good then but I came to realise I was just hurting myself.Well,we met @ a wedding of a friend's sister and really liked each other,talked the whole day and he asked for my number wen he went back home.

Note:we were from 2 neighbouring countries and we only met once

He called and then we Gtalked our relationship through.We lost connection after 6months and the next thing I saw was a relationship update on fb,I got mad but said nothing as we didn't even talk anymore.

2months later he came to school in my country and called apologising,he was still far but atleast I saw him on holidays,things were good until he went back home.

He didn't call to tell me his trip was ok,not even an inbox on facebook,poor me I was so into the guy I thought he was just Mr perfect because he seemed like that.A week later we were talking on fb wen I received an invite from a girl,I checked her profile and her photos were of the photos I was familiar with-I had seen them in his laptop and he had said she is a friend from his old school.Being me,I accepted the invite,and asked him about the girl.Boy he didn't even know wat to say,I played cool and asked the girl y did she invite me as we had a mutual friend hu happened to be my bf.She too became corcky and said the kind of relationship I have with my bf is exactly like hers killed me but I said we r just friends.she replied with "M just his friend too."

The following morning my bf came clean,telling me that he met the girl wen we lost connection,I asked him y he came back to me but he didn't have an answer all he knew was that he is inlove with that girl not me.I blocked them both on fb but he came back to school,I wanted revenge and I got it.He was having a hard time,I pretended to be there,we had a heart to heart chat via emails and then I ublocked his gf on fb and inboxed our convernsations to her.That was a final blow,He called me but I couldn't pick up,I felt ashamed,he then insulted me on whatsapp,he became a monster and threatened to ruin my life the way I ruined his.

We were done,the truth was out and we couldn't turn back,I apologised and never looked back

Dude u don't sound Broken though
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 1:53am On Sep 29, 2012
HumbledbYGrace: Lol u aint the only one who went on a rampage on a socialnetwork after the break up.I did that too,it felt good then but I came to realise I was just hurting myself.

Dude u don't sound Broken though
i am lol. really hurt, i just smile and laugh a lot. dont knw where i got it from cause both my parents have anger problems. lol but heck, it sure felt good, especially when she was feeling guilty, i couldnt stop laughing. i only wrote this cause this was wat i wanted to tell her be4 she broke up, but i couldnt, cause it sure was a waste of time, u knw wat i mean? lol.... i am even heading to the club right now self
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 1:55am On Sep 29, 2012
laberry101: Got hyper high in every way necessary ...I think it and it's done. Then I slept
LMFAO
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 2:12am On Sep 29, 2012
abifoluwa: i am lol. really hurt, i just smile and laugh a lot. dont knw where i got it from cause both my parents have anger problems. lol but heck, it sure felt good, especially when she was feeling guilty, i couldnt stop laughing. i only wrote this cause this was wat i wanted to tell her be4 she broke up, but i couldnt, cause it sure was a waste of time, u knw wat i mean? lol.... i am even heading to the club right now self
No my story was unfinished heck!come back
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 2:13am On Sep 29, 2012
laberry101: Got hyper high in every way necessary ...I think it and it's done. Then I slept
The nigger is heading to the club now
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 3:24am On Sep 29, 2012
HumbledbYGrace: No my story was unfinished heck!come back
lol abeg make i go see some yanch llol. I dey hope say she go dey dere, make i sure am mad man thingz lol
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 3:25am On Sep 29, 2012
HumbledbYGrace: The nigger is heading to the club now
hey yo niqqa, dnt call me a niqqa lol. grin
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by CyberG: 3:57am On Sep 29, 2012
LOL...no time my guy! Naija girls...some are good and some are bad...just like anywhere! The only thing you must remember is for a girl you are NOT sure of, never put in all your chips and make sure your are always in a "profit position" if you get what I mean... grin grin If breakup happens, she would never be in doubt who lost and why she might never tell you this, she knows it VERY WELL. Note that a profit position does not even conote cash...but you got to leave permanent / indelible marks on every part with serious hard bangin.g....like everyday! Especially for a girl who starts giving you negative signs...play along but solidify your positions and when you breakup, you will have nothing else you haven't collected from HER! Hahahaha.... grin grin
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Mynd44: 4:14am On Sep 29, 2012
I have ended relationships and felt bas about but noting some rap music could not solve
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by obowunmi(m): 4:41am On Sep 29, 2012
HumbledbYGrace: Lol u aint the only one who went on a rampage on a socialnetwork after the break up.I did that too,it felt good then but I came to realise I was just hurting myself.Well,we met @ a wedding of a friend's sister and really liked each other,talked the whole day and he asked for my number wen he went back home.

Note:we were from 2 neighbouring countries and we only met once

He called and then we Gtalked our relationship through.We lost connection after 6months and the next thing I saw was a relationship update on fb,I got mad but said nothing as we didn't even talk anymore.

2months later he came to school in my country and called apologising,he was still far but atleast I saw him on holidays,things were good until he went back home.

He didn't call to tell me his trip was ok,not even an inbox on facebook,poor me I was so into the guy I thought he was just Mr perfect because he seemed like that.A week later we were talking on fb wen I received an invite from a girl,I checked her profile and her photos were of the photos I was familiar with-I had seen them in his laptop and he had said she is a friend from his old school.Being me,I accepted the invite,and asked him about the girl.Boy he didn't even know wat to say,I played cool and asked the girl y did she invite me as we had a mutual friend hu happened to be my bf.She too became corcky and said the kind of relationship I have with my bf is exactly like hers killed me but I said we r just friends.she replied with "M just his friend too."

The following morning my bf came clean,telling me that he met the girl wen we lost connection,I asked him y he came back to me but he didn't have an answer all he knew was that he is inlove with that girl not me.I blocked them both on fb but he came back to school,I wanted revenge and I got it.He was having a hard time,I pretended to be there,we had a heart to heart chat via emails and then I ublocked his gf on fb and inboxed our convernsations to her.That was a final blow,He called me but I couldn't pick up,I felt ashamed,he then insulted me on whatsapp,he became a monster and threatened to ruin my life the way I ruined his.

We were done,the truth was out and we couldn't turn back,I apologised and never looked back

Dude u don't sound Broken though


Bahd girl. Just move on. Lesson learned.
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 4:31pm On Sep 29, 2012
HumbledbYGrace: Lol u aint the only one who went on a rampage on a socialnetwork after the break up.I did that too,it felt good then but I came to realise I was just hurting myself.Well,we met @ a wedding of a friend's sister and really liked each other,talked the whole day and he asked for my number wen he went back home.

Note:we were from 2 neighbouring countries and we only met once

He called and then we Gtalked our relationship through.We lost connection after 6months and the next thing I saw was a relationship update on fb,I got mad but said nothing as we didn't even talk anymore.

2months later he came to school in my country and called apologising,he was still far but atleast I saw him on holidays,things were good until he went back home.

He didn't call to tell me his trip was ok,not even an inbox on facebook,poor me I was so into the guy I thought he was just Mr perfect because he seemed like that.A week later we were talking on fb wen I received an invite from a girl,I checked her profile and her photos were of the photos I was familiar with-I had seen them in his laptop and he had said she is a friend from his old school.Being me,I accepted the invite,and asked him about the girl.Boy he didn't even know wat to say,I played cool and asked the girl y did she invite me as we had a mutual friend hu happened to be my bf.She too became corcky and said the kind of relationship I have with my bf is exactly like hers killed me but I said we r just friends.she replied with "M just his friend too."

The following morning my bf came clean,telling me that he met the girl wen we lost connection,I asked him y he came back to me but he didn't have an answer all he knew was that he is inlove with that girl not me.I blocked them both on fb but he came back to school,I wanted revenge and I got it.He was having a hard time,I pretended to be there,we had a heart to heart chat via emails and then I ublocked his gf on fb and inboxed our convernsations to her.That was a final blow,He called me but I couldn't pick up,I felt ashamed,he then insulted me on whatsapp,he became a monster and threatened to ruin my life the way I ruined his.

We were done,the truth was out and we couldn't turn back,I apologised and never looked back

Dude u don't sound Broken though
shocked u like revenge o. but why are some ppl like this? anyways, me i don give up for love, one thing i knw i, if she comes back again, i will only use her as a sex object. something i never did before bec i respected her lol grin i feel like i shouldnt do it tho, i should jst forget bout everything. saw her in the club,and didnt look at me lol, but faced her back to me, then told her friends to look at me, lmfao. it was funny to me, but u knw i was jst drinking my alcohol, risking not getting my I.D back from those big ass body guards lol since i aint that old yet lol
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Mynd44: 4:40pm On Sep 29, 2012
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Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 6:15pm On Sep 29, 2012
Ok u stil hv a long way to go dude
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Mynd44: 7:47pm On Sep 29, 2012
^^
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by abifoluwa: 7:58pm On Sep 29, 2012
mmynd are u stalking humbledbygrace? lol grin grin grin angry
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 8:10pm On Sep 29, 2012
abifoluwa: mmynd are u stalking humbledbygrace? lol grin grin grin angry
y would he?m I missing sumthin here?
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by 190: 8:17am On Sep 30, 2012
Smh
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by vulpeslopez(m): 4:23am On Oct 02, 2012
Chased another Girl.

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Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Mynd44: 4:34am On Oct 02, 2012
^^
if you fall off a horse right?
Re: Ever Being A Victim Of Break-ups That Actually Hurts? How Did You Get Thru It. by Excelboi(m): 8:37am On Oct 02, 2012
Smoke "SK" you go forget chap
chap

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