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Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Isaactop9(m): 3:49pm On Oct 05, 2012
Hey nairalanders i dont know how i feel since i broke up wit my ex. She went for another guy and anytime I see them i always feel some thing for her but dont know wether am still in love wit her or just been jealous pls nairaland i need ur help.
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by k2039: 3:59pm On Oct 05, 2012
[size=13pt]Grow up,develop your self esteem,I see someone with a low self esteem
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Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 05, 2012
NO!!
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 05, 2012
Isaactop9: Hey nairalanders i dont know how i feel since i broke up wit my ex. She went for another guy and anytime I see them i always feel some thing for her but dont know wether am still in love wit her or just been jealous pls nairaland i need ur help.


I think many people, men and women, would feel this way. However, jealousy is not necessarily a sign of love but rather of the ego.
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 05, 2012
k2039: [size=13pt]Grow up,develop your self esteem,I see someone with a low self esteem
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Your advice is not bad but it would be more useful if you told how to develop self esteem. It's much easier said than done. So instead of merely saying what to do, say how to do it, too. Else your advice is almost useless.

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Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by lgboks(m): 5:23pm On Oct 05, 2012
tot i heard sum were dat love is sefles nd not jealous undecided
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by k2039: 6:26pm On Oct 05, 2012
[size=13pt]First off you need to understand that jealousy is not healthy(what you feel is jealousy,and you are jealouse because she is not yours)
You can see that your ex has moved on, so maybe you should try doing the same and stop brooding over the past.

I understand how you feel,It's okay to be vulnerable. Love absolutely demands vulnerability if you are ever to give and receive it fully...that doesn't mean being needy or clingy, it means being your authentic, genuine self and opening/showing/sharing the true self to another whether they reciprocate your love for them or not. It takes real courage to open oneself this way. It takes real confidence to be that vulnerable and take a chance on love when the outcome is uncertain.So I tell you develop your confidence back,go for someone else.

Don't end up losing urself trying to hold onto someone who never cared about losing you.

Yo should understand ur ex is happy because it's so obvious you still giving her attemtionno this law "They'll always want u to come back when they see u being happy without them, dont fall for it"


In closing
Let her GO! If she has the interest level, she’ll be back, and on your terms. It’s the only way.

NEVER forget you were born without her. And that there are hundreds more like her and thousands
more that are even better than her.

She’s not better than you.(you think she is too good for you,that you lost a great catch,trust me I know what I am saying,I have been there)

One of the ways I overcame this in my life was when I realized that, intrinsically, there is not one human being who is truly more valuable or ‘better’ than any one else. We all sleep, eat, fart, belch, and a host of other natural body functions.

What ultimately ends up raising our status in life is what we do with our lives. Not lamenting over the things we can’t change(she is gone forget about her,it's her loss not yours)
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Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by k2039: 6:27pm On Oct 05, 2012
carefreewannabe:

Your advice is not bad but it would be more useful if you told how to develop self esteem. It's much easier said than done. So instead of merely saying what to do, say how to do it, too. Else your advice is almost useless.

[size=13pt]Have you ever considered being a spokesperson,I think you will do really great
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Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 05, 2012
k2039:

[size=13pt]Have you ever considered being a spokesperson,I think you will do really great
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Irony? shocked

I have a job I'm very content with wink
But I was just curious what else you would contribute to the topic. I was right to expect a great piece of advice wink

Thank you!
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by k2039: 6:41pm On Oct 05, 2012
carefreewannabe:

Irony? shocked

I have a job I'm very content with wink
But I was just curious what else you would contribute to the topic. I was right to expect a great piece of advice wink

Thank you!

[size=13pt]lol
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Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by Mynd44: 6:49pm On Oct 05, 2012
Dust yourself up and get other things to do
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by MyneWhite1(f): 8:20pm On Oct 05, 2012
No, move on.
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by jigwe101: 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2012
Actually there is if you want to cal out that. I think it's just plain jealously. I only went out with an ex again because of that. He was an ex for a reason so it only lasted for another 2weeks. Nothing good comes out of jealousy. It's really a waste of time if anything. Just realize thats what is happening and ignore it the feeling. Practice makes perfect.
Re: Is There Anything Like Jealous Love by 190: 1:04am On Oct 06, 2012
No OP

There is nothing like Jealous love but there is something like JEALOUSY LOVE undecided

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