well most of us have said something about what we love about our partners, now i really want to know if you had a chance to change something about them that you don't like what would it be
for me she is stuborn and i really hate that about her and she also likes things done her way and at her own time disturb it or question it and you are in soup (but i still love her anyway)
so i have said my mind who is next

he stresses tooooo much on one single tin!!

What is this? Another match between you and Rubby?

I am single, but I hated that my ex would never admit when he was wrong.

no this is not btw me and rubby oh, things are fine with us (we are crazy )does not mean we don't love each other.
we have got nothing but love for each other.

rubby where are you!

ah wetin do rubby now i beg, wetin i talk na bad thing to say i love my wife I LOVE RUBBY I LOVE RUBBY I LOVE RUBBY

the fact that anytime we argue, i never win

I hate it when my BF is pissed about something i did or said and i'm saying i'm sorry with the whole of my heart but he still wants to rub it in more.

hate is such a strong word
what about 'dislike'
if u HATE that about the partner why date him/her?

mine, um, nothing really, he makes everything better!, doesnt allow me to take the blame, if i say am sorry he says what for? i dislike that! 

nike4luv:

hate is such a strong word
what about 'dislike'
if u HATE that about the partner why date him/her?

mine, um, nothing really, he makes everything better!, doesnt allow me to take the blame, if i say am sorry he says what for? i dislike that!

you got me there lol

i believe words carry different feelings within different contexts. The word HATE in this context isn't a strong, can't- stand feeling, if you read the 1st post by 4real. It's just something you wish can change, but if it doesn't change it's ok cause it doesn't cause any particular harm. Yeah, dislike sounds more like it, but it all bores down to the same thing here. I just personally like flowing on with threads topics.

dats very true

choice of words, very essential!

only 7% of message is sent through words, with remaining 93% sent through nonverbal expressions (depending on author, verbal part goes up to 35%). You are right that the choice of words are pretty essential but baby, you flow with the rhythm most of the time.

ok i hear so what do you dislike about your partner?

am here, dont mind 4real, he is also sturbborn just like him, what i dislike, he does not allow our fights to last 24 hours( that's sweet). maybe that will bring senses to me sometimes, but i love him so much and i know how he feels about me, i hate when i hurt him sometimes luv u TEMI!

lol may i grow old to be like rubby and 4real, you guys give me hope!

gigitte:

lol may i grow old to be like rubby and 4real, you guys give me hope!

people that have been shouting for rubby sha you happy now, now gigitte to grow old like us you would need to take 5 litres of petrol everyday, believe me you would grow old as quick as possible
and baby boo (rubby) love you to

hi dear, guess u should pray that i should be less sturbborn, and 4 u all, may you find true love(amen) to that

well not keeping to his words
like saying we're on 4 soso date
n then cancelling 4 some dumb reasons.

i hope he does not cancel on wedding day lol

Nothing. Cause i dont have one.

well I'm single now but one thing I hated with my ex was he is "I can do it all by myself" attitude. It was just tiring

Hey pls stop allowing 4real and rubby deceive u guys.
Its de same person ooo.
i hereby declare dem BAN.(sori tot i was seun)

Just too stubborn

Temper!!!!!

God have mercy. Try to keep the kids away from him as much as possible.

Thank God we dey for America.

very stubborn girl,she likes having things her way. I love her anyway

His compelling need to please his sisters. gets to me atimes.

ok. can i talk about my ex?

She will use all her money to buy gold. Thats crazy

he is work busy!

doesn't have time 2 call.

HER CUNT SMELLS!!!!!!!!!!


jst joking

Ok, i am single now. Only things i hate my exhubby were: (at that time we were married in the past)

(1) too stingy refusing to compromise on financial obligations.

(2) refused to admit that he is wrong. (Mr. Know-It-All or Mr. I-Always-Right! type)

(3) money spending recklessly and lavishly unneccessarily. _{(after my divorice finalized, he confessed me he was gambling addict)}

(4) constantly workalochlic, does not have a time for wife/children on his own quality time. Never take his paid vacation leave on his job---i mean never take 10 days vacation off plus two paid days off he still go work on two days off.

(5) refused to listen to me as his wife, always listen to his friends.

(6) never have time to play, talk, spend his time, build strong bond with his own children I raise with.

After my divorce went finalized, eight years later, he now WAKE UP and SMELL THE COFFEE, apologized what he put me thru horrible loveless abusive marriage that he wish he could changed long time ago. (marriage counselor does not work well) Because he got 3 cancerous organs spreading around his body THAT IS WHEN HIT HIM HARDER!!!!

He never listen what his family, his doctor, my family, his boss, his supervisor, coworkers, even me tried warning him at all, he don't eat right---eating too much unhealthy food (too many fast food restaurant buying excessive foods (that is enough for 3 people he eat whole himself), he does not sleep right. Always sleep 4 hours or less everyday more than 10 years going to work all the time.

His health now collaspes!!!