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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nuezha(m): 2:55am On Oct 11, 2012
She wipes off her call records & conversations.
She still makes a distance when making or receiving calls BUT I DON'T & I don't care anymore 'cos I started it by overflogging issues.

If a man wants to live long, he needn't ask a womam too many questions, since most men have already concluded that their answers are WRONG and their mute is RUDE.

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by deb(m): 3:07am On Oct 11, 2012
Well she does check mine but I don't have the time to be checking hers cause I'm not interested.

The noW anoying thing is that she wants to make it a routine and that is currently making me to raise eyebrow about issue of trust... She's actually doing herself more harm now cause I'm begining to feel that she should not probably be trusted as I saw her reading through my chats history with people. Ordinarily, I wouldn't let her access to my phone if I was a player anyway at least not as often as I allow her yet she wouldn't stop.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by kama1210: 3:24am On Oct 11, 2012
I sometimes do when i'm led to do. But i am not used to it. Even if i must do, i will still tell my partner about it. We must be open to each other in the first place.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by violent(m): 3:48am On Oct 11, 2012
Snooping around my emails/phone is one of those lines you don't cross.

It's completely disrespectful!
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 3:57am On Oct 11, 2012
if i have to, then there's a problem in the relationship already.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 5:02am On Oct 11, 2012
if i ever have to get to that point,
the relationship might as well be over.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by ajanaku2(m): 6:02am On Oct 11, 2012
Yomieluv: As a sharp guy,o'l boy I do it. U neva can tell. Girls are gullible minded,so u can nib any irregularities in the bud. Its her fone,am using to send this post,and you know what that means. Omo no dulling.

I know all her passwords to her social sites,and phone like ABC.

You are a B'itch A'ss Nigger!
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Bigflamie(m): 6:26am On Oct 11, 2012
How can she eventually find my secret stuff in my fone, or does she think I'll do the mistake of leaving any funny text there? Mtchwwwww, let her be checking my fone if that will make her happy. As for me I don't care to check hers cos there's a delete button in every fone.

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by anthoniaz(f): 6:28am On Oct 11, 2012
I check his cos he checks mine.What gets me angry is d way he deletes pictures from my phone.As in personal pictures,he says am overloading my phone.I have passwords to his facebook acct,yahoo and other social sites and he has mine,he was the one that started and we enjoy checking on each other.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by victorD3: 6:40am On Oct 11, 2012
I do it if I see the opportunity. I even added my gf on 2g0
O with another profile and I realized she was a LovePeddler and a big time bitch behind me. Well I thank God I did because she's now an Ex.Now I understand the old lesson that human can't me trusted on every aspect.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Lovine: 6:46am On Oct 11, 2012
We all say NO NO do we even say the truth?

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by hyelhira: 6:54am On Oct 11, 2012
I leave my phone anywhere and my wife has unrestricted access to it. She sometimes picks my call if I am dealing with something else or if I am not near the phone. I don't have anything to hide. I also trust her. I have never had to secretly check her phone. As a matter of fact, both our emails are configured on the same MS Outlook on our home system.

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 6:56am On Oct 11, 2012
I'm a crazy person, n I save ppls name wit Honey, Love n all dat, but I know where my affection is.... When my Dearest checked my phone n saw it,he complained.. undecided
Told him if he wanted to live long, he should not do it again b4 my Phone gives him HBP (I sanitized my phone after sha).... I don't check his, though I long to!!
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by victorD3: 7:06am On Oct 11, 2012
tchidi: I'm a crazy person, n I save ppls name wit Honey, Love n all dat, but I know where my affection is.... When my Dearest checked my phone n saw it,he complained.. undecided
Told him if he wanted to live long, he should not do it again b4 my Phone gives him HBP (I sanitized my phone after sha).... I don't check his, though I long to!!

I know your type. I feel the poor guy has everything to worry about because all those names end up being previous and current partners.

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Leoejiofor(m): 7:10am On Oct 11, 2012
wel, i always check her phone's and facebook account anytime i want to, but she do check mine secretly, is not that we don't trust each other, we DO. Nd the idea is working out for us.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by ujchief(m): 7:10am On Oct 11, 2012
its easy to say 'trust ur partner, dont check his/her phone'. But the truth is, its easier said than done. Snooping around did save my relatnship once. I found out something shes been hiding for a long time. I threatened to call it quits (i was dead serious), she came out clean, then we trashed it out once and for all.
I'll gladly do it over and over again. She does same with mine, no qualms.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Sike(m): 7:14am On Oct 11, 2012
Errm.... Why not? I'll expertly do it any fvckin time i get the chance.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 7:26am On Oct 11, 2012
victorD3:

I know your type. I feel the poor guy has everything to worry about because all those names end up being previous and current partners.

Sweety, u don't know JACK about me! wink I'm a friendly person, too extrovert almost for my liking. I have nothing to do with those people, but when I found out that he was not comfortable with the names, I changed them to normal names. That's what sincere partnership is about. So save ur judgement for the last day! kiss
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by seunfly: 7:44am On Oct 11, 2012
In my last relationship i did it and it help me off a hook, when we were in school my girl will check mine in and out but will not allow me to check hers, so i pretended not to be intrested. I planned with my friends and she will give it to them to listen to music and i will use the chance to check behold i saw things but i kept quiet and when we are about to go 4 service and she was doing as if i was her alfa and omega as if i was all in all the only man that have being and will always be, just to trap me. Mehn i open up come see shock, disappointment and suprise. She never know i knew alot. And that was what save me otherwise she wanted me to believe that she gave me all and that i have no reason not to take her to altar otherwise i cheated her.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 7:46am On Oct 11, 2012
Guys, is not right to check on your lovers personal effect but it has once saved a close friend of mine from a marital disaster. The girl in check was already pregnant and my friend just use her fone cos his phone bat3 is down and Gbamm!!.The txt he saw was unbelievable.The girl sent it to someguy telling him he has seen someone who will take care of the pregnancy and the baby until he get a visa to canada.Can you imagine .
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 7:58am On Oct 11, 2012
Check my phone and email forever you won't get anything, even my GF answers her name on my phonebook just like others. Text messages from gurls aint found on my phone as de re backed up in the air and deleted from ma phone..

Is not Good to check snoob around cause a lotta people like me don't play with their private life
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Ogundale(m): 8:02am On Oct 11, 2012
mimima: Am doing it and i dont regret doing it.So that i will know when my things becomes another person's kini
lol!!! You making sense like me.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by kelvincoll(m): 8:14am On Oct 11, 2012
Well..... I did and guess what it cost me a rship 4 years old buh no regrets scooping that was the closest way of figuring whom i had been with 2 years back.... cool
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by gsalvatore: 8:16am On Oct 11, 2012
"Secretly checking" makes it sound like a sin or crime,I prefer calling it Intelligence gathering. Personally I don't need to check my partners personal effects..if your smart or know how to read patterns in peoples actions you will find it easy to know when something is up. When there is Doubt then there is no doubt-it happening!

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Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by sweetgala(m): 8:18am On Oct 11, 2012
Have no business with such disrespect , I'm awful private and whatever she finds would only hurt her not me. As a sharp guy all incriminating data is wiped off before any imminent comprehensive search.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 11, 2012
ajanaku2:

You are a B'itch A'ss Nigger!
who be dis winch? Wetin concern u with my life? I've had my share with Nigerian girls,they are the worst creatures eva created by God,I caught my ex tru her fone cheating on me, when she told the guy that her pussyyyy aches afta s/e/x. Pray u neva jam Nigeria girls,they are worst than dogg,only gud to warm a guy's bed. I check their fone in orda to discharge the erring one sharp sharp,u tink say I get time dey do "I lov u parol". I only stay wit one wey her toto still dey sweet me,afta dat na go be dat. Bunch of infidels.

That their toto,wey dem take dey cause confusion for dis world,one day,one day,e go catch fire in Jesus name.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Gwekzy: 8:20am On Oct 11, 2012
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do so weneva Ȋ̝̊̅̄
get D chance 2....
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by Suljosh: 8:24am On Oct 11, 2012
I knw all my Bby's password to all her social site n she knws mine too.
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by brixton: 8:31am On Oct 11, 2012
ajanaku2:

You are a B'itch A'ss Nigger!

indeed!
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by vokah0907: 8:31am On Oct 11, 2012
Even without her, you still doesn't love me.[img]http://www.forexchartingsoftware.info/pc.gif[/img]
Re: Do You Secretly Check Your Partner's Phone And Email? by adewex(m): 8:35am On Oct 11, 2012
Lies Upon Lies were revealed when i hack her Facebook Account.. When i ask her she lied again. I moved on with her cos of Love but she called it quit herself weeks later..

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