please house i need a help,i have been into a relationship, we started when we where still in school, we finished our nysc last two years,the relationship is five years old and i still love this girl very much, but due to the fact that no good job yet, the relationship in now on fear,not that i want to leave her but she in afriad of staying.
what do i do,please advice me.

Hi friend,

I think you don't need to create unnecessary blood pressure for yourself. Your not having a job now is not that you are a lazy man but is only that getting job in Nigeria is basically the survival of the fittiest and by God's grace.

To be frank, it is not easy staying with a man without a job but all the same, that is one of those things in a relationship which we need to endure with ourselves. I would advise you to talk to her and let her see some senses in you and try to get something doing that will atleast fetch you little money to augument.

But if at the end of the day she can't wait, I will say let her go and do not pick any offence because you gat your life to live and you can't put two rods into the fire at atime.

Concentrate on how you will get a job and take her issue as secondary because man is not complete without a job as God has even commanded.

I wish you all the best friend.

Cheers!!!!!!!!!

dear fabiyi,
you are the man,thanks a lot, the topic i sent was "please i need advice"i dont know what went wronge. iam a travel agent,i have my customers, outside my salary i make a good pay.it just that it is not in millions since iam new to the system.
you are worth having as a friend, once more thanks very much.

thank God u have something small to sustain yourself, i'll advice u sit her down and encourage her that things will get beta, 'cos its not easy, God will help you

Go and get yourself a life
Better use your money to elevate your status .She doesnt love you
Period
Stop being a Ninny

guy u better manage the small money ur making.
u want pursue woman ,u no get money,u no sabi anything.
na slippers u go carry go back village

bennygee:

guy u better manage the small money your making.
u want pursue woman ,u no get money,u no sabi anything.
na slippers u go carry go back village

take it easy with d guy now!