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The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Abujafood: 11:03am On Oct 18, 2012
A friend wants to end a relationship with a lady he's not 'feeling' right now! He wants to move on without her but doesn't want to hurt her. How can he break up without hurting her?

1. Send her a polite text message announcing your break up and avoid her till she forgets you?

2. Call her for face to face meeting and make the announcement

3. Cheat on her and let her find out

Any other ideas?

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 11:11am On Oct 18, 2012
there can/should be NO OTHER WAY than #2

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Excelboi(m): 11:18am On Oct 18, 2012
#2 is the best option.

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by 190theclown: 11:20am On Oct 18, 2012
tell her ure broke, she would find her escape route

Please this is applicable only for Nigerian girls undecided

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 11:22am On Oct 18, 2012
I agree with mrbrownjay...buh some can be emotionally aggressive at that point and my try to hurt u physically 4 breaking their heart. So,i 'jokinly' advise u tell her/him u've given ur life to Christ and ur faith forbids pre/extra-marital affairs.That way he/she will think u're doing it cos of a Supreme being nd nt jst that u are fed up.#funny waystoquitarelationship

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 11:27am On Oct 18, 2012
binger: I agree with mrbrownjay...buh some can be emotionally aggressive at that point and my try to hurt u physically 4 breaking their heart. So,i 'jokinly' advise u tell her/him u've given ur life to Christ and ur faith forbids pre/extra-marital affairs.That way he/she will think u're doing it cos of a Supreme being nd nt jst that u are fed up.#funny waystoquitarelationship

if thats the case then invite her in a public place, and do it there, but there is no reason to lie to anyone about such stuff because that means you would have to HIDE for the rest of your dating life (as we all know that she would be even more pissed if she met you smooching some other girl the week after)

you may find different ways as to how to tell her gently, but you MUST tell her.......there is no reason why a man should be afraid to do what is RIGHT, none!
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Abujafood: 11:41am On Oct 18, 2012
Cool comments so far but what if she's the sensitive type and can't handle rejection well?
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 11:51am On Oct 18, 2012
Tell her you are SS genotype or AS if she is AS also. Better still, nothing wrong in sending a text. Where is it a yardstick that it must be face to face?

Mind you if a girl wants to break up with you, they dont even think about any appropriate way so?..........

Lastly, if you dont learn to stick. If you dont learn to love by choice, when would you?. There is no perfect woman out there. The reason you want to leave this lady may be the very reason you will stick to another. The problem is you. Be better.

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Oct 18, 2012
Abujafood: Cool comments so far but what if she's the sensitive type and can't handle rejection well?

then you tell her in a sensitive manner.......but you never get your eyes off the ball, which means you MUST break up with her.
anyway, staying with someone out of pity is worst, no matter how any desperate person looks at it.
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by xynerise: 12:14pm On Oct 18, 2012
Tell her u have witches in ur kindred undecided

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by tunspear(m): 12:20pm On Oct 18, 2012
190-the-clown:
tell her ure broke, she would find her escape route

Please this is applicable only for Nigerian girls undecided
Not all nigeria girls dumb ass... U need to see the one trouble my life...
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by LaParisienne(f): 12:23pm On Oct 18, 2012
Number 2 is the best way.
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Mynd44: 12:30pm On Oct 18, 2012
Number 2 takes it. But with all the baggage involved, do it in a public and no matter how hard she cries and/or begs maintain your stance

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by abiL(f): 1:01pm On Oct 18, 2012
190-the-clown:
tell her ure broke, she would find her escape route

Please this is applicable only for Nigerian girls undecided


What is it with you and Nigerian girls?!

I can bet my last quid that you're gonna end up marrying one smiley

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 18, 2012
MRbrownJAY:

if thats the case then invite her in a public place, and do it there, but there is no reason to lie to anyone about such stuff because that means you would have to HIDE for the rest of your dating life (as we all know that she would be even more pissed if she met you smooching some other girl the week after)

you may find different ways as to how to tell her gently, but you MUST tell her.......there is no reason why a man should be afraid to do what is RIGHT, none!
yeah! I agree with this this

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by yuzedo: 1:04pm On Oct 18, 2012
Poison her arzzzzzzzz! angry angry angry

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Oct 18, 2012
It's pretty tough following the "Face-to-Face" route but it is the best.

A text might work too and No, NEVER consider the third option, you'll just ruin your reputation.



The "Face to Face" might make you change your mind though - esp. if she's cute or you can't stand her Tears and pleas. wink

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Revealedtv(m): 1:14pm On Oct 18, 2012
Wait till she enters NYSC camp, it will happen naturally from there...Or just travel out (nothing like a long distance relationship to ease a break-up), Stop having sex with her or Tell her ur result came back Positive,

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by sunkoye: 1:15pm On Oct 18, 2012
Tell her ur pastor says No(nigerian respects their pastor(s) dan God dis dayz)

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Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by safarigirl(f): 1:16pm On Oct 18, 2012
face to face is the best option, only cowards break up by text, a real man has the guts to say it to a woman's face that it's over....only a p*ssy would take the easy route.
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Oct 18, 2012
LOLS, THIS IS NOT A NICE IDEA @ ALL grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by kellystech(m): 1:19pm On Oct 18, 2012
Tell her u've repented dat she should join you. It always works for my cousin grin
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by pingo(m): 1:20pm On Oct 18, 2012
The best way to break up a relationship is the same way you toasted her when you were wooing her!!! waka pass grin
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by tinuolababy(f): 1:21pm On Oct 18, 2012
#2
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by HealNigeria: 1:22pm On Oct 18, 2012
Follow your heart
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 18, 2012
You again huh!!!
190-the-clown:
tell her ure broke, she would find her escape route

Please this is applicable only for Nigerian girls undecided
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Oct 18, 2012
I think 2 is still the best option....
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by pharuk: 1:32pm On Oct 18, 2012
How about doing 1, 2, then 3?
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by WhyAWhy(m): 1:39pm On Oct 18, 2012
Abujafood: A friend wants to end a relationship with a lady he's not 'feeling' right now! He wants to move on without her but doesn't want to hurt her. How can he break up without hurting her?

1. Send her a polite text message announcing your break up and avoid her till she forgets you? - COWARDS do this

2. Call her for face to face meeting and make the announcement - Best

3. Cheat on her and let her find out - Insanely mad COWARDS do this

Any other ideas?
Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 18, 2012
None of the above smiley

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