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Eeyah!!! Another tale of a dejected lady. Please move on, the beast does not deserve you a bit.





_{But wait oh, the story is one-sided.}

Try and get him to tell u what causes d sudden change and see if u can make amendment it wont surprise u to see those advising u to leave him with him afterward, true love is hard to find.

Some men get bored easily ok, I don't know why but it just happens! Be nice and distant..........he might come around but if he doesn't? Drink a glass of red wine and suck it up!

I guess he is trying to figure things out or maybe u guyz rushed into things. Give him tym and don't act like a desperate chic( u wnt want him to continue d relationship out of pity). If after a prd he doesn't chg den tell him to park well n move on. Am sure derz a guy out der who is going gaga over u

Its either he's no longer interested in you or he needs some space to ponder about his future.

I would suggest that you give him some distance and wait for him to honestly ask for your forgiveness. Avoid crawling back to him, cos such action would make you look cheap and desperate.

If he doesn't, and you feel you've waited long enough, then you can seek solace elsewhere.

CrazyMan: Its either he's no longer interested in you or he needs some space to ponder about his future.

I would suggest that you give him some distance and wait for him to honestly ask for your forgiveness. Avoid crawling back to him, cos such action would make you look cheap and desperate.

If he doesn't, and you feel you've waited long enough, then you can seek solace elsewhere.

Gbammest# always on point!!

The guy don chop na , he should be on his way to another catch.
He treated u nice right ? Like all bad guys. Sorry u miss the good times but it is gone for good .
Shine the koko keep for another brother to enjoy .
Happy Sunday

can u get him to talk?
yu may be bothered cos u dont know wat the issue is, u dont if it was yur fault or not(though if its yur fault , he should be man enough to tell u).

just get him to talk and yu find out wat de issue is and move on if u have to but dont be desperate.....

good luck

ITbomb: The guy don chop na , he should be on his way to another catch.
He treated u nice right ? Like all bad guys. Sorry u miss the good times but it is gone for good .
Shine the koko keep for another brother to enjoy .
Happy Sunday

lol.....
funny but u r on point esp 'shine d koko prt'

You must av done something wrong for him to neglect you just like that.
It would av been better to hear from him too. .

Anyway, I'd suggest you find a way to see him, not calls, not pings, find a way to see him and talk it over! If he still insists its over, take a bow gracefully.
At least u would av known you've played your part

The guy is obviously unseriuos. I will advice you call him and the both of you have a heard-to-heart talk. See what the problem is and you both should resolve it

Mynd_44: The guy is obviously unseriuos. I will advice you call him and the both of you have a heard-to-heart talk. See what the problem is and you both should resolve it

from experience, heart to heart talk doesn't usually work with us guys....
when a guy starts behaving funny like the one above, it mostly spells one thing

@OP thats how most guys tell you they want out, but if you ever want to get his attention, then ignore him
except if there is another side to the story that you have not told us.

all the same i wish you all the best..........

Some guys behave like dat,trust me mayb he needs time to get himself togeda so dnt make him look like ur desperate cos guys take advantage of dat a lot,leave him for a while infact if i were u,i wudnt let him knw al dis is affectng me Àt all,put fine fine pics on ur BBM,pretend all is well and dat u are fine,he wil be amazed at the way u seem to be fine wtout him,dnt let him come bk cos he feels just pity for u,trust me dis works n if he doesnt come around,leave him,it might end up being his loss.trust me karma is a big fat B I T C H

fairygeh: Some guys behave like dat,trust me mayb he needs time to get himself togeda so dnt make him look like ur desperate cos guys take advantage of dat a lot,leave him for a while infact if i were u,i wudnt let him knw al dis is affectng me Àt all,put fine fine pics on ur BBM,pretend all is well and dat u are fine,he wil be amazed at the way u seem to be fine wtout him,dnt let him come bk cos he feels just pity for u,trust me dis works n if he doesnt come around,leave him,it might end up being his loss.trust me karma is a big fat B I T C H

if u try dis wit ♍ε wen am already tired of u, u've ǰUsτ given ♍ε free visa τ̅o freetown

Jenams: if u try dis wit ♍ε wen am already tired of u, u've ǰUsτ given ♍ε free visa τ̅o freetown

. Well,at least its better than him accepting u back just out of pity.its better to face the truth then,if i did that and he thnks its free visa for him,then it means he wasnt meant to be mine.na to move on sure pass.what most guys fail to realize is that if u treat a girl in a bad way,there would always be sumone out there who would appreciate her and love her.

Try dialogue, if problem persist,see a doctor

Thank you all 4 d contributions

ITbomb: The guy don chop na , he should be on his way to another catch.
He treated u nice right ? Like all bad guys. Sorry u miss the good times but it is gone for good .
Shine the koko keep for another brother to enjoy .
Happy Sunday

lol @ chop clean mouth.

@op how una don settle ?
As in un don marry?

nutigal: Nairalanders, pls come to my rescue. V bn dating ds guy 4 five months nw, vrything has been perfect. Suddenly, his attitude changed within a week, it was like I became a pest to him. D calls And pings reduced drastically and everything just changed. I called to clear ♍Ɣ mind, he was sounding indifferent and all. V bn advised to leave him alone, another party thinks I should fight ƒσя ♍Ɣ lov bt wldnt I seem desperate? He told ♍ƺ he doesn't feel d same way he used to feel 4me.just wthn a week? Please advise ♍ƺ cos I am really heartbroken. ♍Ɣ heart z very heavy.

..why wunt his attitude change wen yor light skin....ma professional advice.....change color

fairygeh: . Well,at least its better than him accepting u back just out of pity.its better to face the truth then,if i did that and he thnks its free visa for him,then it means he wasnt meant to be mine.na to move on sure pass.what most guys fail to realize is that if u treat a girl in a bad way,there would always be sumone out there who would appreciate her and love her.

same goes for guys...
Remember what goes around comes around
some ladies will leave a guy who was truly inlove with them and follow a player who will later use and dump them,so when I see this kind of story,I hardly pity the victim.

MrCork:


..sweery but y wunt his attitude change wen yor dark skin...ma professional advise...change color (no offense)

this funny guy sef