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Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 1:34pm On Oct 29, 2012
Early this year. February to be precise, my girlfriend called of our three year old relationship for reasons she didn't disclose to me though i leta got the wind she was dating 1 rich politician. But surprisenly she sent me a love txt on val day which I didn't respond to cos i was still trying to recover from the unexpected hrt break. It took me till July before i started puting myself together because i truly loved this girl and was already making arrangements to marry her. On august 26th i met a cute working class girl in my friends birthday party, we exchanged number n started calling each other.
I visited her late last month, took her out n asked her to be my girlfriend. She inclined n we started dating. But the issue is that my x gal wants me back now, infact she's using both my friends n relatives i respect a lot to beg me. What should I do ? I truly loved her n I can't abandon my new girlfriend cos i can see she's commited to me. Should I disappoint my friends n relatives n carry on with my new gal ? Advice please.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by dmcdad: 2:12pm On Oct 29, 2012
gilmaro: Early this year. February to be precise, my girlfriend called of our three year old relationship for reasons she didn't disclose to me though i leta got the wind she was dating 1 rich politician. But surprisenly she sent me a love txt on val day which I didn't respond to cos i was still trying to recover from the unexpected hrt break. It took me till July before i started puting myself together because i truly loved this girl and was already making arrangements to marry her. On august 26th i met a cute working class girl in my friends birthday party, we exchanged number n started calling each other.
I visited her late last month, took her out n asked her to be my girlfriend. She inclined n we started dating. But the issue is that my x gal wants me back now, infact she's using both my friends n relatives i respect a lot to beg me. What should I do ? I truly loved her n I can't abandon my new girlfriend cos i can see she's commited to me. Should I disappoint my friends n relatives n carry on with my new gal ? Advice please.

I dont like it when people ask questions they already know the answer to. Infact! Let me reserve my comments cuz I'm already pissed
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by IZUKWU(m): 2:28pm On Oct 29, 2012
You truely love who ? I couldn't answer this from the reading and comprehension,can you help me out ?
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by k2039: 3:06pm On Oct 29, 2012
Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression that you are the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

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Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Oct 29, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

one bottle of star for u jare grin
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 3:17pm On Oct 29, 2012
IZUKWU: You truely love who ? I couldn't answer this from the reading and comprehension,can you help me out ?
I truly loved not in the present, do i adhere to my friends pressure or not ?
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by warrior01: 3:20pm On Oct 29, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

Yeah! A big fool
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 3:21pm On Oct 29, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

.
I asked for advice n not scolding. Anyway thanks.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Abeggi(m): 3:31pm On Oct 29, 2012
gilmaro: Early this year. February to be precise, my girlfriend called of our three year old relationship for reasons she didn't disclose to me though i leta got the wind she was dating 1 rich politician. But surprisenly she sent me a love txt on val day which I didn't respond to cos i was still trying to recover from the unexpected hrt break. It took me till July before i started puting myself together because i truly loved this girl and was already making arrangements to marry her. On august 26th i met a cute working class girl in my friends birthday party, we exchanged number n started calling each other.
I visited her late last month, took her out n asked her to be my girlfriend. She inclined n we started dating. But the issue is that my x gal wants me back now, infact she's using both my friends n relatives i respect a lot to beg me. What should I do ? I truly loved her n I can't abandon my new girlfriend cos i can see she's commited to me. Should I disappoint my friends n relatives n carry on with my new gal ? Advice please.

At the very least, your EX has shown she is unreliable, untrustworthy, and perhaps, even unfaithful.

What redeeming quality does she have that would cause you to consider taking her back ?

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Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by dmcdad: 3:41pm On Oct 29, 2012
gilmaro: I truly loved not in the present, do i adhere to my friends pressure or not ?

What kinda pressure? I'm sorry to say, it seems you are lame. Maybe u are just around ur early twenties I presume.. Cuz u ain't driven by ur own will, you are definitely the type that is being pushed around aimlessly
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by djojo(m): 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2012
why not move on with the new relationship since u said she is really committed,
if u accept her back she might do u worse.
The ball is in ur court, choose the one that u know is best for u as u see everything
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Vivly(f): 3:44pm On Oct 29, 2012
poster, am confused. do u really mean dat if all nlanders come to a consensus and agree u shuld go back to ur ex, u will obey and leave ur new gf?
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
btw, Do u value d opinion of faceless nlanders who av never met any of ur babes- both current and ex to compare nd contrast to d opinion of ur friends who hav yan shed both babes known boyh gals?
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by dmcdad: 3:44pm On Oct 29, 2012
gilmaro: .
I asked for advice n not scolding. Anyway thanks.

i think the remonstration is what you need. Maybe it'll help u think right
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 4:00pm On Oct 29, 2012
Abeg_gi:

At the very least, your EX has shown she is unreliable, untrustworthy, and perhaps, even unfaithful.

What redeeming quality does she have that would cause you to consider taking her back ?
. I don't see any anymore. Thanks u're really helping.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 4:01pm On Oct 29, 2012
djojo: why not move on with the new relationship since u said she is really committed,
if u accept her back she might do u worse.
The ball is in ur court, choose the one that u know is best for u as u see everything
.
Thanks
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Oct 29, 2012
Before anything ask her to show you her previous/recent HIV test result.
undecided
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 29, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

grin grin
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Oct 29, 2012
You have moved on, your ex should do the same.


dmcdad:

I dont like it when people ask questions they already know the answer to. Infact! Let me reserve my comments cuz I'm already pissed
LOL


k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.

A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

LOL
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by mekzybling(m): 9:24pm On Oct 29, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.1 crate of gulder 4 u grin

Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Oct 29, 2012
gilmaro: Early this year. February to be precise, my girlfriend called of our three year old relationship for reasons she didn't disclose to me though i leta got the wind she was dating 1 rich politician. But surprisenly she sent me a love txt on val day which I didn't respond to cos i was still trying to recover from the unexpected hrt break. It took me till July before i started puting myself together because i truly loved this girl and was already making arrangements to marry her. On august 26th i met a cute working class girl in my friends birthday party, we exchanged number n started calling each other.
I visited her late last month, took her out n asked her to be my girlfriend. She inclined n we started dating. But the issue is that my x gal wants me back now, infact she's using both my friends n relatives i respect a lot to beg me. What should I do ? I truly loved her n I can't abandon my new girlfriend cos i can see she's commited to me. Should I disappoint my friends n relatives n carry on with my new gal ? Advice please.

Dude you want some advice? Stick to your current girlfriend.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by roymary: 10:02pm On Oct 29, 2012
Well, Rob Pattinson forgave Kristen Stewart and the whole world let it slide like its nothing. You would not be the first, Sir!
On a lighter ground, no one has the right to call you a fool if you forgive your ex and take her back. Its whatever makes you happy.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by tashanja(m): 10:42pm On Oct 29, 2012
Yes, but foolishly happy. undecided
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Cpat21(m): 10:58pm On Oct 29, 2012
Gbam u talk am well
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by greyce: 2:06am On Oct 30, 2012
u guys are always in a fix.pls get dis straight if she really loved u she wouldnt av left u &u wuld wont b askin dis silly questn now.i suggest u let her go cos even if u give her anoda chance she wuld stil dump u.its ur decision 2 mk though..
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by 190theclown: 2:14am On Oct 30, 2012
i wonder if ex girlfriends now read nairaland, cos they all seem 2 wanna come back grin grin


merr. . . OP if i were you'll go as far as possible from that cunt!

shes not worth it, such things are wah could end a man's life

except u dont wanna last long then take her back
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by gilmaro(m): 5:13am On Oct 30, 2012
greyce: u guys are always in a fix.pls get dis straight if she really loved u she wouldnt av left u &u wuld wont b askin dis silly questn now.i suggest u let her go cos even if u give her anoda chance she wuld stil dump u.its ur decision 2 mk though..
.

Thanks bro.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by breathing(f): 7:10am On Oct 30, 2012
You want to take back an ex who broke your heart, then break the heart of a girl whose done nothing but love you. Wise decision. Yeah, take your ex back. tongue
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by dmcdad: 8:00am On Oct 30, 2012
greyce: u guys are always in a fix.pls get dis straight if she really loved u she wouldnt av left u &u wuld wont b askin dis silly questn now.i suggest u let her go cos even if u give her anoda chance she wuld stil dump u.its ur decision 2 mk though..

Gbam!!! You yan the thing well... For me, this thread is redundant. You should read the inscription on the wall and act accordingly rather than ask questions to which you already know the answer... Na wa to you oooo
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by Nobody: 8:08am On Oct 30, 2012
k2039: Accept you ex back for what ever reason you like,but understand that accepting her back will give her the impression of the greatest fool on earth.


A fool that takes that type of ex will always be a fool for life.

For even delibrating whether to take her back,you are a fool.

Which 1 mke i buy 4u? Monkey tail,pkaraga, waste pain,Ori malu, Dagrin'' d drink'',. Men any1 u wnt bcoz u dey on point
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by dmcdad: 8:24am On Oct 30, 2012
Wizee:
Which 1 mke i buy 4u? Monkey tail,pkaraga, waste pain,Ori malu, Dagrin'' d drink'',. Men any1 u wnt bcoz u dey on point

No be lie....
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by kaycrystal(m): 8:33am On Oct 30, 2012
someone said advice is what we ask for when we already knw d answer but wish we dint...
guess what u really nid is the courage to take the best decision which u already know...
but then, i dont knw if we can give u dat courage here, cos whichever way u go, no one truly knws for sure what will happen.

with ur ex, u have d benefit of hindsight to judge or appraisal her, as for the new babe, her slate is still clean.
so, u 'll av to listen to ur heart and take that which u knw is best for you... all d best bro.
Re: Am In A Fix, Can Someone Help Me Out? by kaycrystal(m): 8:35am On Oct 30, 2012
kaycrystal: someone said advice is what we ask for when we already knw d answer but wish we dint...
guess what u really nid is the courage to take the best decision which u already know...
but then, i dont knw if we can give u dat courage here, cos whichever way u go, no one truly knws for sure what will happen.

with ur ex, u have d benefit of hindsight to judge or appraise her, as for the new babe, her slate is still clean.
so, u 'll av to listen to ur heart and take that which u knw is best for you... all d best bro.

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