Guys pls share wit me how u will react when a new found babe tells u she has been raped in the past? Will u consider such lady a wife material or a sex material?

Their is nothing wrong in having her as a wife if her character depicts what I want in a woman.Afterall survey showed that one out of every four girls are molested before the age of 25.

So are we going to say because a girl is a victim of molestation, she shouldnt get a good husband.

unless a man wants to marry a virgin/pure/sex.ually untouched gal, i dont see how this should be a problem for any man? yes, the lady may carry some emotional scars etc from the ordeal, but a few months of dating (and bedroom acrobatics) will give a man a clear idea of how much damage this lady has sustained from the incident.

And why should a lady tell her new boyfriend she's been molested, can't somethings be kept private?

Any boy who stops caring about his gurl cos she's been molested in the past deserves to be squeezed and thrown into a thrash can.

^^^^ i think such issues MUST be told to a prospective SERIOUS partner, as there are plenty of emotional setback that may come due to the ra.pe.

i would sympathize with her and encourage her to move on with her life,cos the past does not matter.i consider it dead! What matters is the present and what you do with it for a better tomorrow.

Mrs davids: Guys pls share wit me how u will react when a new found babe tells u she has been raped in the past?

she was rap.ed and not promiscuous. I will accept her

What's the big deal? I will still consider her

Are those not molested any better? Besides what several men have done to some ladies is beyond molestation but they call them "my Ex". If she confesses, that's innocence, gonna promise her a brand new start.

Even with that MBJ, it will be best if she seeks counselling from a counsellor, family or friend and get better first before getting entangled with whoever.

I molest her again

D-Explorer:
Are those not molested any better? Besides what several men have done to some ladies is beyond molestation but they call them "my Ex". If she confesses, that's innocence, gonna promise her a brand new start.

That's all you can do and support her so she will trust you and move on

I av been molested bf and I did tell my new found bf, I promised to make love to him d next day so we could move forward,but d next day came and I couldn't do it. Disapointmnt was written all over him,and he stopped being caring all of a sudden.

Dont expect this kind of question from a woman. As if being molested makes someone less of a woman or wife material

candieangel12: Dont expect this kind of question from a woman. As if being molested makes someone less of a woman or wife material

Point.