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How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:18am On Dec 17, 2012
So one of my main bishes for 7yrs, J, been dating this one niggah off and on for like 5yrs now, but this niggah is bad news. He is 3yrs younger than me and my friend, he graduated from high school last year and he aint tryna go to college or anything. He don't have a job, a car, or a place...he just be hoppin from one friend place to the other cus his folks kicked him out the house cus he bad and he don't wanna better himself. Me and all my friends about to graduate from college real soon but my friend, J, aint cus she put her life on hold movin from one state to the other just to be with that low life niggah; we all started college 3yrs ago but J only has 6 college credits undecided. When we started college she wanted to be a doctor but now she wanna be a professional organizer. So this niggah always be cheatin on my friend, treatin her bad, threatin her, beat her up, n he rude as fukc. They break up like 5 times a year and she always be blamin herself n goes back 2 his ass eventhough me and my other friends tell her not to, she say she in love; when they broke up last year she threatened to commit suicide but the niggah called 911 and they came before she could do anything stupid. Our friends dont talk 2 her nomore cus they all tired of her n that niggahs bull so I'm like her main friend right now cus I dont wana leave her in the dust but I am gettin kinda fed up with all the bull cus she dont listen. Anywho a couple months ago, this niggah and my friend got arrested cus the fukcn niggah had drugs in my friends car. They were driving somewhere and my friend told him not 2 bring drugs around her so when she found out the niggah brought some drugs to sell to someone she flipped out and the police saw the commotion and they found the drugs. The fukcn niggah lied to the police and told them the drug belong to my friend and my friend said it wasn't hers so they both got arrested. My friend got bailed out the next day but she got her court case coming up soon and she scared cus they found 10 molly pills in her car and some mary j. The law here says if found guilty you can get 10yrs in prison for each molly pill, so she could possibly be looking at 100yrs behind bars cry But now that her case is comin up that niggah tryna be all nice to her and act like he love her and ish and now she wanna get back together with him, I dont trust this niggah, I think he got something up his sleeves to try and make sure my friend takes the fall. And I been tellin her to stop bein in contact with his a$s and get a lawyer and forget his ass but she say she still loves him and wont stop loving him. My boyfriend told me to leave her alone and let her do what she wanna do but I just cant, thats my bish and I really dont wanna see her go to prison for that niggah. So my question is, does anyone have any suggestions that I can use to make my friend see this niggah for the trifling as$ that he is and get her to stop loving him before its too late?
Re: How do I help by Idowuogbo(f): 10:20am On Dec 17, 2012
Paragraphs pls... smiley
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:22am On Dec 17, 2012
Idowuogbo: Paragraphs pls... smiley

I dunno how to paraphrase this cus i kinda need all the help I can get. Just read it lol and give me your suggestion bish
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 17, 2012
Lmao!...Well dear,you can get ur bish to stop loving the nigga by letting her be. U see,ur bish seems so deep in love,with a damn recalcitrant attitude,hence ur pleas to dump the nigga's asz fall on deaf ears. So,be there for her and quit talking to her abt the damn nigga.Your bish will get over him only by her own choice/will when she realizes the nigga portends harm to her life/career.
Re: How do I help by skydeep(f): 10:38am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


I dunno how to paraphrase this cus i kinda need all the help I can get. Just read it lol and give me your suggestion bish
its kinda difficult to comprehend your story undecided. Pls can u anglicize it a bit? tongue
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2012
binger: Lmao!...Well dear,you can get ur bish to stop loving the nigga by letting her be. U see,ur bish seems so deep in love,with a damn recalcitrant attitude,hence ur pleas to dump the nigga's asz fall on deaf ears. So,be there for her and quit talking to her abt the damn nigga.Your bish will get over him only by her own choice/will when she realizes the nigga portends harm to her life/career.

Wow, you soundin like my bf. But I just cant sit and watch her take the fall for the niggah. I feel like smashing that niggahs head in the wall. I just dont get why she so damn dikcmatized by that trifling ass niggah. He told her not to worry about the court case and that he will confess that the drugs is his but I dont believe his as$ I think he just sayin that so he can catch her off guard the day of the court case so she can serve the jail time. Im pissed that she fukcn believe the niggah too angry
Re: How do I help by tashanja(m): 10:44am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


I dunno how to paraphrase this cus i kinda need all the help I can get. Just read it lol and give me your suggestion bish

It would be more helpful if you rephrase without the hood in your English, perhaps people may understand what you trying to say.
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 10:44am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


I dunno how to paraphrase this cus i kinda need all the help I can get. Just read it lol and give me your suggestion bish

LMFAO...this OP is just a case. U really got me LMAO, anyways just wonderin who needs help, whether its u or ur bish, J (cos its obvious u are high on cracks). But anyways be calm, no harm done yet, when the bish finally settles behind bars, then she'd realize her mistake. At least good riddance to bad rubbish, init bish
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:51am On Dec 17, 2012
skydeep:
its kinda difficult to comprehend your story undecided. Pls can u anglicize it a bit? tongue

Ok long story short, my friend has been datin this trifling ass niggah on and off for 5yrs now. He not in school, no job, no car, no home. He is bad news, always gettin in trouble and he sells drugs. He abuses her and cheats on her. So the niggah kept some drugs in my friend car and the police found it and arrested both them. The niggah told the police my friend owns the drugs, if found guilty my friend can go to jail for 100yrs. Their court case is comin up and now niggah is feedin her bull that he still loves her and wants to be with her and now she wants to get back with him cus she says she loves him still. I told her not to believe him cus he just tryna catch her off guard that day so she can take the fall, I told her to forget about him, stop being in contact with him, and get a lawyer to fight for her but she doesn't want to because she loves him and believes that he will do the right thing. I need advice on how to get my friend to wake up and smell the fresh air before she ends up in prison.
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:53am On Dec 17, 2012
lrguru:

LMFAO...this OP is just a case. U really got me LMAO, anyways just wonderin who needs help, whether its u or ur bish, J (cos its obvious u are high on cracks). But anyways be calm, no harm done yet, when the bish finally settles behind bars, then she'd realize her mistake. At least good riddance to bad rubbish, init bish

What do you mean if I need help and im high on crack? Wtf? Im tryna help out my friend here, I dont want her behind bars, especially for some ish she aint do angry
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 10:55am On Dec 17, 2012
Why everyone keep LMAOing, this aint funny. This one of the few times im actually being serious on here undecided
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 10:59am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


Wow, you soundin like my bf. But I just cant sit and watch her take the fall for the niggah. I feel like smashing that niggahs head in the wall. I just dont get why she so damn dikcmatized by that trifling ass niggah. He told her not to worry about the court case and that he will confess that the drugs is his but I dont believe his as$ I think he just sayin that so he can catch her off guard the day of the court case so she can serve the jail time. Im pissed that she fukcn believe the niggah too angry
From what u spewed in the original post, i believe the damn nigga isn't gonna fvck ur bish up on that day.so,relax ur nerves,stay true to ur bish in this fvck-infested period.Since u are desperate to save her dickmatized asz,u can continue making her see reasons to dump the nigga,but be calm and subtle in doing the ishh...
Re: How do I help by Goldieluks: 10:59am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


Ok long story short, my friend has been datin this trifling ass niggah on and off for 5yrs now. He not in school, no job, no car, no home. He is bad news, always gettin in trouble and he sells drugs. He abuses her and cheats on her. So the niggah kept some drugs in my friend car and the police found it and arrested both them. The niggah told the police my friend owns the drugs, if found guilty my friend can go to jail for 100yrs. Their court case is comin up and now niggah is feedin her bull that he still loves her and wants to be with her and now she wants to get back with him cus she says she loves him still. I told her not to believe him cus he just tryna catch her off guard that day so she can take the fall, I told her to forget about him, stop being in contact with him, and get a lawyer to fight for her but she doesn't want to because she loves him and believes that he will do the right thing. I need advice on how to get my friend to wake up and smell the fresh air before she ends up in prison.


There are some issues in life you just can't help, but allow
things to sort itself out in its own due time..Your friend is obviously blinded by (love)? And sweetie
there's nothing you can do about it, as it is. You just keep advising her and be there to wipe her
tears whenever she comes crying.
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


Wow, you soundin like my bf. But I just cant sit and watch her take the fall for the niggah. I feel like smashing that niggahs head in the wall. I just dont get why she so damn dikcmatized by that trifling ass niggah. He told her not to worry about the court case and that he will confess that the drugs is his but I dont believe his as$ I think he just sayin that so he can catch her off guard the day of the court case so she can serve the jail time. Im pissed that she fukcn believe the niggah too angry
ur bish is in love. There's ntin u can do to convince her, she's gonna convince herself one day bt u're d antagonist now. So try get very close to that niggah and pretend to be a friend. Find out his secrets and wot he's up to. If u can prove to ur bish dat d niggah meant harm 4 her with evidence then she's gonna quit by herself.
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:03am On Dec 17, 2012
binger: From what u spewed in the original post, i believe the damn nigga isn't gonna fvck ur bish up on that day.so,relax ur nerves,stay true to ur bish in this fvck-infested period.Since u are desperate to save her dickmatized asz,u can continue making her see reasons to dump the nigga,but be calm and subtle in doing the ishh...
The niggah is a huge liar, he lies about everything and she know that. She be the main one complainin about how much he lie but then she be the first one to believe his bull. Like wtf? Shyt pisses me off cus I know that niggah got something up his sleeves. I told her to get a lwayer to defend her but she not doing that, instead she taking his word. I mean if he claims he gone tell the truth then why the hell hasnt he done so yet or why tue hell did he lie about it in the first place
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 17, 2012
The best course of action would be for ur friend to break off her relationship with d trifling guy, and hire a decent attorney. But serving 100 years in jail for that offense is bordering on d ridiculous.
Re: How do I help by skydeep(f): 11:05am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


He not in school, no job, no car, no home. He is bad news, always gettin in trouble and he sells drugs. He abuses her and cheats on her.
what has she been doing with such a weird dude? undecided
Re: How do I help by UjSizzle(f): 11:06am On Dec 17, 2012
Lol anyone else read this post with a funny accent playing in their head? grin

OP let ur friend go to prison, if she makes it out she'll be a 100yrs wiser.

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Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:07am On Dec 17, 2012
Goldieluks:


There are some issues in life you just can't help, but allow
things to sort itself out in its own due time..Your friend is obviously blinded by (love)? And sweetie
there's nothing you can do about it, as it is. You just keep advising her and be there to wipe her
tears whenever she comes crying.

I understand what you saying but I mean for how long? Its been 5yrs and she still aint seein that this niggah dont deserve her. Im gettin pretty fed up with all her bull. Everything I tell her she dont listen cus she "in love". Its not like she ugly either, she is beautiful and she gets advances from many different guys that are better than her bf but she never gives them a chance, she always go back runnin to that trifling niggah.
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:09am On Dec 17, 2012
CFCfan: The best course of action would be for ur friend to break off her relationship with d trifling guy, and hire a decent attorney. But serving 100 years in jail for that offense is bordering on d ridiculous.

Yeah they found 10 molly pills in her car and the law says if found guilty you can get 10yrs for each pill, so 10 pills equals to 100years undecided
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:11am On Dec 17, 2012
skydeep:
what has she been doing with such a weird dude? undecided
Beats me! The niggah got her dickmatized. And he 3 years younger than us, he effing 19. I been tryna tell her to get wit an older mature niggah that got something goin for him not some trifling as$ 19yr old angry
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:13am On Dec 17, 2012
Chukskalidon:
ur bish is in love. There's ntin u can do to convince her, she's gonna convince herself one day bt u're d antagonist now. So try get very close to that niggah and pretend to be a friend. Find out his secrets and wot he's up to. If u can prove to ur bish dat d niggah meant harm 4 her with evidence then she's gonna quit by herself.

That niggah is rude as fukc! I've tried to talk to his as$ but he think he some kinda God, I dont have patience for his type.
Re: How do I help by Idowuogbo(f): 11:14am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :
Why everyone keep LMAOing, this aint funny. This one of the few times im actually being serious on here undecided
Dey find ur ghetto fabulous write up funny. I don't! I get u. Dat aside, bish! u gon have to step back and let ur bish learn d hard way. If her definition of bin in love is sticking wiv a worthless being, den let her b.we may all live under the same sky, but we see different horizons.
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 17, 2012
fukcwitme :


Yeah they found 10 molly pills in her car and the law says if found guilty you can get 10yrs for each pill, so 10 pills equals to 100years undecided

Drugs definitely have to be decriminalized. Putting folks in prison for such an offence, in d first place, is an absolute travesty. But hey, the Prison-Industrial-Complex is so influential, especially at the local/State level.
Re: How do I help by UjSizzle(f): 11:19am On Dec 17, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Dey find ur ghetto fabulous write up funny. I don't! I get u. Dat aside, bish! u gon have to step back and let ur bish learn d hard way. If her definition of bin in love is sticking wiv a worthless being, den let her b.we may all live under the same sky, but we see different horizons.
gbam! You don't transplant brains.
Re: How do I help by Idowuogbo(f): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2012
uj_sizzle:
gbam! You don't transplant brains.
Lmfao!
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:21am On Dec 17, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Dey find ur ghetto fabulous write up funny. I don't! I get u. Dat aside, bish! u gon have to step back and let ur bish learn d hard way. If her definition of bin in love is sticking wiv a worthless being, den let her b.we may all live under the same sky, but we see different horizons.

Lol @ ghetto fab write up. Hehe I dunno, I just talk/write like that when im in a pickle lol. But yeah everyone keep saying I gotta let her be but its so hard, she been my bish for 7 years maybe I'm being too protective undecided
I just dont wanna see her behind bars
Re: How do I help by tellwsdom: 11:21am On Dec 17, 2012
fcukingme, why is everyone still in school??....everyone is claiming to be in school sad sad..Is that d latest style trending now?? sad sad
Re: How do I help by Goldieluks: 11:24am On Dec 17, 2012
tellwsdom: fcukingme, why is everyone still in school??....everyone is claiming to be in school sad sad..Is that d latest style trending now?? sad sad


Lmao..i can tell you skipped any form of school. grin

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Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:26am On Dec 17, 2012
tellwsdom: fcukingme, why is everyone still in school??....everyone is claiming to be in school sad sad..Is that d latest style trending now?? sad sad

The fukc!? Is that all you got from my thread? That we still in school? Niggah you is trippin lol. grin grin
Re: How do I help by Nobody: 11:26am On Dec 17, 2012
tellwsdom: fcukingme, why is everyone still in school??....everyone is claiming to be in school sad sad..Is that d latest style trending now?? sad sad

Nairaland comprises mostly peeps who are in their 20s, and 20-somethings are most likely still in college.
Re: How do I help by fukcwitme(f): 11:28am On Dec 17, 2012
CFCfan:

Drugs definitely have to be decriminalized. Putting folks in prison for such an offence, in d first place, is an absolute travesty. But hey, the Prison-Industrial-Complex is so influential, especially at the local/State level.

I dunno, people know the consequences and they still do drugs. I think if you gone do it then be ready to face the time. I done seen too many people get they life ruined cus of drugs. The law is fair in this case

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