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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Kirinwa: 2:24pm On Dec 25, 2012
Worse than marrying a virgin or non virgin whichever is applicable is marrying someone who doesn't love you but pretend they do.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by chinedumo(m): 2:38pm On Dec 25, 2012
ogugua88:

I blame women sha. If they started marrying virgin men, 98.2% of the male population for Naija would never wed.

Only NL men can defend backwards logic in disvirgining the whole of Ajegunle before returning to your village to marry an untouched girl.
kinda true but are u saying you know the virginity status of 98.2%+ of men. How u take discover am? are you saying you have not met a virgin male.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Kirinwa: 3:17pm On Dec 25, 2012
Just like Car there are different levels in this virginity issue.Grade 1 virgin-Untouched or Pure both in mind and Body:Grade 2-Pure in Body but unpure or rotten in mind:Grade 3-Had like 1 or 2 intimacy:Grade 4-Had like 3 or 7 intimacy:Grade 5-Had like 8 and uncountable intimate encounters AKA ASHA.WO or BOREHOLE.Which group do you belong to?Wait!Answer it in your heart.

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by CzarChris(m): 6:24pm On Dec 25, 2012
Let me be blunt here.
Am sick and tired of all these virgin topics popin out on NL like 3times a week for the past 12months.
@OP cos you lost your virginity and you regret it doesn't mean that men lookin for the other ones that kept theirs should make you bitter. Just take life as you see it and close your legs, and stop the bashin virgins and the men alike, who no prefer brand new/tire leather to fairly used not to talk about over used? Abeg lets be real here.
@The fellows here posting that they can't marry a virgin because of lack of experience. Plz get a hold of your life or better still, go to a brothel and pick an ashii cos shes got years of experience*fooôls*. Once met a matured lady way back, a virgin. But after 2 intensive lectures, she became a freak. I had to run for it(before you guys start judging , we couldn't marry cos of parental issues).
A good girl thats not a virgin, if i like you i marry. A good girl and a virgin, i will move mountains to get and marry her.

NB:In the new year, no more virgin topics abeg. If you've lost yours, you've lost it, get a grip of your life and move on.
If you still have yours, please make sure who your giving it to is worth it(your virginity is the best gift you can give your husband). QED

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 25, 2012
chinedumo: kinda true but are u saying you know the virginity status of 98.2%+ of men. How u take discover am? are you saying you have not met a virgin male.

Says the Malaysian condom company that claims Nigerian women cheat the most lol. And no. Out of the guys who have tried dating me or I did date, none of them were virgins. That doesn't mean they don't exist though.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 25, 2012
ogugua88:

Says the Malaysian condom company that claims Nigerian women cheat the most lol. And no. Out of the guys who have tried dating me or I did date, none of them were virgins. That doesn't mean they don't exist though.
and how do you know a male virgin.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by chinedumo(m): 9:32pm On Dec 25, 2012
lucenzo: and how do you know a male virgin.
how do u determine the virginity status of a male assuming he did not confess
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 25, 2012
I have a story I would love to share on this section later..


I have a close 'elder brother' (not biological), who slept with uncountable girls on campus (uncountable cos he couldn't count but his roomate testified and then made an estimate of about 100). This is real, no jokes please.. Despite his rough ways of life, he made a very good point on graduation - a sharp 2.1 (4.3) and then got a decent job somewhere in the south west. After a while, he became born-again, everything changed, so dedicated that we couldn't recognise him.. The old campus unfortunates came knocking for wedding... but 'my brother' only gave them the message of Christ.. He's so much into Holiness that he now detest sin, ungodliness (flirts inclusive) with passion.

Just last week, he got married to the most beautiful decent virgin girl I've met lately.

Now am wondering, these girls are definitely gonna fall in the arms of innocent dudes who never witnessed their bad loose lives.. I know a good percentage of these unfortunates.. The fact is some of them know what he wants back then on campus - sex... he never fakes his feelings for relationships. These girls willingly give in with strings.

Now I do not pity these girls.. I do not feel for them and I'll do everything within my power that none of my relatives/friends will ever marry them.... they can run to Lagos or somewhere in the far east to marry those guys who doesn't give a damn about the number of times 'my brother' slept with them in his small off-campus room.. na dem sabi..

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 25, 2012
achina boy: i think it`s a big mistake for any guy to think of getting married to a virgin,the advice i would give to any girl including my daughter,is to have fun,date as many men as you can,then get married when when you are ready

Permit me to call you an id/oT. If your mother spent her youthful life having fun with all those reckless and lifeless small small boys in your village, by now you'll be no where to be found.. cos she would have washed you with menses down the pit latrine or terminate your spermatozic history with postinor-2.

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by tintingz(m): 9:14am On Dec 26, 2012
acidosis™:


Permit me to call you an id/oT. If your mother spent her youthful life having fun with all those reckless and lifeless small small boys in your village, by now you'll be no where to be found.. cos she would have washed you with menses down the pit latrine or terminate your spermatozic history with postinor-2.
you dey mind that dummie. . .this kinda guy have sexx with several whorres, i dont blame him...

Now he said he will advice his daughters to be same as whorres sleeping with men...SMH...that niqqa gat problem
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by sexyeyes2012: 4:14pm On Dec 26, 2012
chinedumo: how do u determine the virginity status of a male assuming he did not confess

It's easy, men don't know how to keep their sh!t on the downlow; and women are natural private investigators smiley
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by toluene12: 6:05pm On Dec 26, 2012
D-Explorer:

That's right, people change and we shouldn't be castigated because of our past. Also know that, the enormous cases of once a virgin now dis-virgined can majorly be ascribed to divers sexüal rumble. Now that's lack of morals and self-worth.
non virgins lack morals and self worth nairalanders will never cease to amaze me.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Dec 26, 2012
toluene12:
non virgins lack morals and self worth nairalanders will never cease to amaze me.

Madam, D-explorer didn't say that...
Read again
the enormous cases of once a virgin now dis-virgined can majorly be ascribed to divers sexüal rumble

This is the truth... "we can ascribe it to divers SEXUAL rumble"... abi nor be when una go sleep with man dey cause disvirginity.. ?? abi na spirit being disvirgin una ??
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 26, 2012
Some guys here remind me of one of my uncle's worwor friends. He has managed to sleep with every species of woman in the US. As he don old reach, his wish is to go back to Edo and find himself a young virgin wife in the village. Imagine having your cake and trying to eat it too.

#unfollowing
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by toluene12: 7:10pm On Dec 26, 2012
ogugua88: Some guys here remind me of one of my uncle's worwor friends. He has managed to sleep with every species of woman in the US. As he don old reach, his wish is to go back to Edo and find himself a young virgin wife in the village. Imagine having your cake and trying to eat it too.

#unfollowing
Vee girls for edo? your uncle's friend is on a long thing
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 26, 2012
toluene12:
Vee girls for edo? your uncle's friend is on a long thing
lol.... grin grin


** unfollows edo girls smiley **
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by lipsyliscious: 8:00pm On Dec 26, 2012
Jeez! NL won't kill me! D stupidity n d reasoning of sum posters is nt comprehendable! No1 is saying 4nication is by any means right bt it has sumhow bcme a part of society! Half of u claiming dat u won't marry a 'second hand' girl f**k ur gfs evry week n u profess love 2 her yet u're giving us crap bout a girl being 2nd hand! U all are wicked! Who told u virgins won't cheat. Many virgins bcome 'sex xplorers' afta marraige so if u lyk keep wallowing in self deceit! D end of d story is if u find a girl dats nt a LovePeddler, virgin or nt,as far as she fits ur wife profile 80%,keep her close. She's a human being lyk u,stop makin noise about a virgin being holy because dat so called virginity is nt a criteria 4 purity

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by antichelsea(m): 11:11pm On Dec 26, 2012
lipsyliscious: Jeez! NL won't kill me! D stupidity n d reasoning of sum posters is nt comprehendable! No1 is saying 4nication is by any means right bt it has sumhow bcme a part of society! Half of u claiming dat u won't marry a 'second hand' girl f**k ur gfs evry week n u profess love 2 her yet u're giving us crap bout a girl being 2nd hand!
SERVES YOU'LL RIGHT*TONGUE OUT* unwise creatures!
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by DExplorer1: 11:49pm On Dec 26, 2012
acidosis(tm):


Madam, D-explorer didn't say that...
Read again
Thanks, you got my drift.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by tintingz(m): 12:36am On Dec 27, 2012
lipsyliscious: Jeez! NL won't kill me! D stupidity n d reasoning of sum posters is nt comprehendable! No1 is saying 4nication is by any means right bt it has sumhow bcme a part of society! Half of u claiming dat u won't marry a 'second hand' girl f**k ur gfs evry week n u profess love 2 her yet u're giving us crap bout a girl being 2nd hand! U all are wicked! Who told u virgins won't cheat. Many virgins bcome 'sex xplorers' afta marraige so if u lyk keep wallowing in self deceit! D end of d story is if u find a girl dats nt a LovePeddler, virgin or nt,as far as she fits ur wife profile 80%,keep her close. She's a human being lyk u,stop makin noise about a virgin being holy because dat so called virginity is nt a criteria 4 purity
eww! Really hurts you... grin

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by petokey: 6:56am On Dec 27, 2012
I can't believe this thread is stil on, wat else are they commentin when everything was said and done in page 1.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by bbulldog(m): 9:54am On Dec 27, 2012
Let all virgins go to hell in my country.... If u are a virgin, does dat mean u can give birth to an angel, or does dat mean u will not have probs in ur family..... Virginity at times bring woes to marriage, because they mostly experience delay to give birth..... I can respect virgins if only u av not seen a naked dick before, mayb in a magazine, site, or ur brother's
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by lipsyliscious: 7:15am On Dec 28, 2012
tintingz: eww! Really hurts you... grin
I simply find sum comments irritating!sum even get girls preggers b4 takin her 2 d alter,mtcheww...
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by CzarChris(m): 2:26pm On Dec 28, 2012
bbulldog: Let all virgins go to hell in my country.... If u are a virgin, does dat mean u can give birth to an angel, or does dat mean u will not have probs in ur family..... Virginity at times bring woes to marriage, because they mostly experience delay to give birth..... I can respect virgins if only u av not seen a naked dick before, mayb in a magazine, site, or ur brother's
Forgive me for being blunt, but you are the most stûpîd, irrationally human being I have ever seen. Who says virgins are all saints, but then again hos can also be a saint(foool). Since virgins don't get preggy easily, maybe a chic whose womb has seen enough postinor-2 to open a pharmacy, or better still one that has atleast 5 abortions or more on her resumé will most definiately give you bundles of kids immediately.
PUNK!!!

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Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by Cdspencer(m): 10:38pm On Dec 28, 2012
ogugua88:

So, what is a man's virginity?

Man's virginity is when he is not circumcised. Lol
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by mytym(m): 12:38pm On Mar 09, 2013
tintingz: hmm. . .i should prove it...dont know how oo! There is only one way to prove it smiley you know men thing is diff from women thing...

na so e be oo.
Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by iamrealdeji(m): 1:49pm On Apr 15, 2021
huninaija:


Well, that wasn't the aim of this post, there are different factors or underlying reasons as to why a lady may not be a virgin. Not only because she has no morals or she's promiscuous, we need to enlighten our minds and get out of this boxed-in mindset we africans tend to present ourselves with. smiley
Not only in Africa,even in India and Arabian countries,they prioritise virginity and are you as developed as they are? You can start living with whites that practise homosexuality and beastility then

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