I knew this girl for over a year now.but they parked into our compound some months back.to cut short the story,a friend of mine was/is interested in her but she told him that they could be friends.Four days ago,i got a call from a private number.she said she was my old friend but refused to tell her name.Yesterday she called and ask if i had not stil recognise her voice.I was able to pick the voice but pretended not to.She sent an sms and still used a private number asking if her voice is not familiar.I told her am not 100% sure.I checked the number she used in sending the sms on my sisters phone, it was same with the one she sent the message.Now am confused because my friend loves her and i also feel for her.What am i to do?advice needed please!

since you are still standing I will advise you not to fall for her, remain standing.

But u said she used private (hidden) fone number. Then how did u know dat it was d same fone no dat sent a text to ur sister?

@benez when she called,she asked if i saw her sms.

@benez she actually sent the sms to me not my sister.I only checked the number on my sisters and it is thesame.

Talk with her ,about what she wants and about what your friend told you and even talk to your friend if you are still confused and don't know what to do.

@Izukwu She told my friend that they should be friends only but i know he need something more than friend.As of yesterday she saw us together.And she called me just 2 hear my voice before sleeping.

Firstly, u don't just fall 4 som1 intentionally, u would ave fallen b4 realisin it,if u willingly fall 4 a girl, u wil willingly fall out again and abt ur issue, i dnt understand, som1 just keep callin u and u wnt 2 fall 4 dat person out of pity?, u need 2 search and ask ur heart if u love her or nt.

Dude! U want to fall for a babe Babes are inconsistent in thier thoughts, today its you, 2mrw it mite be some oda guy. Somethimes, thier emotions is triggered by the most stupid detail( by a guy's standard). Unless u want to put a ring in her finger n very sure about her character n person, abeg dont even think of falling in love, u jus gonna look stupid.

@Florena sincerely sometime ago i feel 4 her but i kept it 2 myself.my friend was interested,so i told him to go ahead.Yesterday we discussed the issue.Not until dis morning i realised she was d one.@mitwitdot thanks for the advice

Then if you want her go for her,its obvious she has designs for you.

Ok.but dont u think my friend will not be happy with my action.because i told him about d private number.but now that i know who she was.i dont know what 2 tell him if he ask about the so called invisible lady@Izukwu

Benez: But u said she used private (hidden) fone number. Then how did u know dat it was d same fone no dat sent a text to ur sister?

Oboi, you have the potential to be one hell of a good detective, I also wonder if is possible to sent sms through hidden no. (though I could be wrong).

upon all d advises think twice

Op, go and read your books boy.


You are too naive to eat at the table of men.

Jumkoe thanks for the advice.You are highly appreciated.@val_dee i read my books 4 years ago.I guess i can do other things now.

tashanja:

Oboi, you have the potential to be one hell of a good detective, I also wonder if is possible to sent sms through hidden no. (though I could be wrong).

.If u understood my post earlier on,she called still with a private number to comfirm if her sms came in.But i guess she did'nt realise that her number will be visible.

Dude you feel for her or you love her? if you chose the former please forget about her, but if it's the later, invite her over and talk to her sefini!!!!!!!

treasureboy09: Dude you feel for her or you love her? if you chose the former please forget about her, but if it's the later, invite her over and talk to her sefini!!!!!!!

.Truth of the matter is i love her and we live in thesame compound.Last night she called with her number

I think u shall let ur guy know what is going on so that u guys will know what action to take I am talking 4rm my experience cus it has happen to me some years ago my case was that I met her thru my friend I never had any intension towards her but found out that she was interested in me than my friend who was asking her out, she could call me any time send sms any time of the day yet refuse to return calls 4rm my friend or reply his sms. I have to let him know what was going on btween me and the gal and he realise that he is nt going to get her and gave me a go ahead order and I was single then I took the chance, so my advice is let ur guy know

Ucheosefoh: I think u shall let ur guy know what is going on so that u guys will know what action to take I am talking 4rm my experience cus it has happen to me some years ago my case was that I met her thru my friend I never had any intension towards her but found out that she was interested in me than my friend who was asking her out, she could call me any time send sms any time of the day yet refuse to return calls 4rm my friend or reply his sms. I have to let him know what was going on btween me and the gal and he realise that he is nt going to get her and gave me a go ahead order and I was single then I took the chance, so my advice is let ur guy know

.Good advice my guy.You are highly appreciated.But do you think i should call her 1 on 1 to discuss before telling my friend?

First take: did she ask you out? Or haw did you arrive @ this conclusion?

Secondly, from all you'v swinged, ii can tell you only wano fvck ha ... Nufin crz. After all, she's @ uя beçk and call naw . Who knws, maybe she really luvvs you , maybe she just wano use use. Maybe uя friend really luvs ha, maybe he just wano get it on. However it is, oηε tin iz ƒoя sure . You dnt nid our advise cos no antelope intentionally walks into a hunters trap and does not spice the soup .. !

Get it ova ωiƒ already

Nawa 4 naija men o..cos a gal jst calld n textd u..u com deh feel otherwise..i cant figure wat u wantd to fal for hia..anyway,jst watch d height u wantd to fal 4rm

Thanks peepz for your numerous advice.At the end i discussed with my friend and finally talk 2 her and she agreed after confessing that she loved me since before they parked 2 our compound and got my number from my sisters phone secretly.End of the matter is that we are now lovers.Thanks 4 ur various advice.

Florena: Firstly, u don't just fall 4 som1 intentionally, u would ave fallen b4 realisin it,if u willingly fall 4 a girl, u wil willingly fall out again and abt ur issue, i dnt understand, som1 just keep callin u and u wnt 2 fall 4 dat person out of pity?, u need 2 search and ask ur heart if u love her or nt.

**best advice**

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