Ironically, a lady could be single cos of her good character. Yeah, it's possible. Cos as a responsible girl, she may decide to remain single rather than compromise. And we have good girls who have turned down guys due to the conditions attached to their love or marriage proposition. such as getting pregnant before marriage, indulging in pre-marital sex, or getting involved in some bad stuffs she may not be comfortable with as a well-brought up lady. We still have good girls who are determined to protect their dignity no matter the circumstances. They dont rush, neither are they desperate. and wont compromise their virtues cos of money, favours or crave for marraige/relationship. Like what most girls are doing presently. A responsible lady would prefer to remain single rather than soil her good name or the good name of her family. And believe you me, most times such a girl end up marrying the 'right' person. her patience, decency, belief and faith is bound to be rewarded at the end of the day. And the single status of a good girl cannot (and should not) be compared to the single status of a bad or irresponsible lady. Hers is due to her belief and principles, while the later (an irresponsible lady) is usually as a result of her bad character or waywardness. which is bound to scare guys/suitors away. And that's exactly what's happening with most girls...

Since nobody is perfect, you will have to compromise one or two things for marriage or else, you go tail for house

Very true bruv... There is nothing more than taking your dignity in high regards. Like you said, they will end up getting the best outta the rest when they finally settle down... What goes around, comes around. In other words, whatsoever you sow, you shall reap.

Thank you

Bacteriocin: Since nobody is perfect, you will have to compromise one or two things for marriage or else, you go tail for house

And so if we tey 4 house.....does that make me have green blood rather than red? Na wa o. Must I do what d world wants. I'll do only what is morally right b4 God. I owe no man nothing. And so what if I don't get married? Wetin go happen. Will I be ejected from heaven because I didn't get married? Abi wat's wit all d craze sef? And so what if I stay till am 500 years old? So wat? Wat can u achieve that I can't achieve being single. I just don't get it. If u have a good job as a single babe and guys are giving too much wahala.
Abeg adopt 2 kids be their mum and they'll be ur darlings, treat them well in d sight of God and men. More blessing will even come upon u! Marriage Marriage Marriage!!!!!!!!!
As if there different heaven and hell-fire for the singles and married........Mscheeeeeew.

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author=pfii]

And so if we tey 4 house.....does that make me have green blood rather
than red? Na wa o. Must I do what d world wants. I'll do only what is
morally right b4 God. I owe no man nothing. And so what if I don't get
married? Wetin go happen. Will I be ejected from heaven because I didn't
get married? Abi wat's wit all d craze sef? And so what if I stay till
am 500 years old? So wat? Wat can u achieve that I can't achieve being
single. I just don't get it. If u have a good job as a single babe and
guys are giving too much wahala.
Abeg adopt 2 kids be their mum and they'll be ur darlings, treat them
well in d sight of God and men. More blessing will even come upon u!
Marriage Marriage Marriage!!!!!!!!!
As if there different heaven and hell-fire for the singles and
married........Mscheeeeeew.[/quote]



Guess ur post is enough for the likes of Bacterio...
Thanks for leting the world know ur stand,I bet heaven will be proud of the likes of u.

pfii:

And so if we tey 4 house.....does that make me have green blood rather than red? Na wa o. Must I do what d world wants. I'll do only what is morally right b4 God. I owe no man nothing. And so what if I don't get married? Wetin go happen. Will I be ejected from heaven because I didn't get married? Abi wat's wit all d craze sef? And so what if I stay till am 500 years old? So wat? Wat can u achieve that I can't achieve being single. I just don't get it. If u have a good job as a single babe and guys are giving too much wahala.
Abeg adopt 2 kids be their mum and they'll be ur darlings, treat them well in d sight of God and men. More blessing will even come upon u! Marriage Marriage Marriage!!!!!!!!!
As if there different heaven and hell-fire for the singles and married........Mscheeeeeew.

Nobody is saying you should get married by force; my point is just that the two sides involved in marriage must always come together to correct one another's lapses.

lillyveezy:



Guess ur post is enough for the likes of Bacterio...
Thanks for leting the world know ur stand,I bet heaven will be proud of the likes of u.

Don't get it twisted bro